If someone else's relationship is working more than yours did, stop saying that it is only happy at first -- it is disrespectful for them. Experiencing toxic relationships and/or judging by the experiences of other couples is not an excuse for that behavior because every couple is different in how they handle their relationship. Of course, not every relationship is perfect. It really depends on the will and commitment between couples on how they deal with any problem presented. It just so happen that some people forget that loving someone is not always the happiness and giddy feeling because both of you should work together during the hard times too. #RandomThoughts