@Valour 15 July 2021 more from that month

It's one thing to have people advice you, it's another thing to accept it. Have you ever been in a position where you run to someone for advice on a step you are about to take and he/she discourages you from taking such step. You heeded to his advice and dropped the idea. But to your surprise, few days or weeks later you see him working on your idea which he said you shouldn't pursue. Who do you blame?. Him?. Yourself? First thing is be careful and be smart when choosing who to run to for advice. Some will only steal your idea and make it their's without giving any credit to you. Even if credit is given to you, I'm sure you'll feel bitter and sad for what he or she has done. While some get jealous(yes jealous ) such people only see the negativity in every situation. Blame yourself- i say this because the decision is yours alone to make. You only go to him to get others perspective/ view. No matter what it is, always make sure the final decision is taken by you after thinking it through. If it doesn't end well you have only yourself to blame and if it does you'll receive all the accolades. Don't blame yourself. It isn't your fault that the person you trusted to advice you is a Cheap thief. Learn from the experience and move on to avoid a repeat. For Experience is the best and most patient teacher. If you don't learn from it once, it will repeat the lesson again.