@User027perchoice 30 May 2023 more from that month

Unwanted advice #2 There is a saying, that to understand someone, you have to walk few miles in this guy shoes. We are tought in this way compassion and understanding. However, if a 50 years old person is nasty towards you and explains all of this with difficult childhood, you have all rights to be angry. Is it a form of manipulations against you? That's irrelevant. Noone has right to treat you badly because of any excuses. Someone might tell you, that he/she is saying nasty things to you for you own good. Do not believe in such words. Avoid toxic people. Leave their shoes for themselves, and continue your own path. Firstly take care of your own feet, as they will serve you for long time.