@Usagi 7 January 2021 more from that month

It's easy to fall in love. It just mostly takes a person who truly shares your interests, gives you attention, and be there for you when you need. But is falling in love the same thing as actually living in love? Love isn't just fairytale. it doesn't just happen that you love a person and they love you back, and then you defeat some evil character trying to stop you, and live happily ever after. The thing you must defeat is your pride. Pride and ego kill love slowly. they kill patience. they kill care. they kill the "need" and the "will" to be with the other person. There is no shame in saying sorry, whether you're the man or the woman. there is no shame in asking for help from your loved one or offering help. There is no shame in being able to reason out your decision if it hurt them, and still apologizing cuz you didn't mean the hurt. It all depends on which feeling wins you: Pride, or Love ? Do you love them more than you want to feed your ego? Or is your ego so big such that it will never go down for Love? if you can't say sorry and make it up, and if you can't allow yourself to put the other in front of you, then I'd like to say "sorry, you're still not really ready for true love." 🥀🥀