As I have said on my pass posts. This related to the first rule here " it is better to give than to recieve." Don't ask the people to give back what you have given to them. Imagine if you see a beggar or homeless people along the road who is asking for a food or money and you give them a money is it right to ask them to do it also to you?. Simply, Don't ask the same person to do so. Just wait because there also a special person sent by God to give back all the good things you have given to other. Is it clear now?