Bosom buddy

Do you have a someone who is very close to you? One that you can share intimate topics ? Or share your secrets with? Do you have someone who got your back? One that who is always there for you? One that we can identify as best of all friends? If yes, then keep him or her.

We always have someone in our life who we can call a bosom buddy. One who is very close to us and we can tell that time could attest that even by hook or by crook you will be with each other's back. It could be anyone, your sister, your childhood, your cousin, your neighbor, your classmate, your colleague or your new found friend. It couldn't be categorize due to span of time. It is tested of how comfortable and how willing each other to be with in dark and in light times of your life. One that would not judge you of who you are and would defend you if anyone would bad mouth you. That person would love you for who you are and accepted you fully. One that you miss without reason and misses you too. You may encounter test of time but because of your love towards each other and your memories together would always prevail, thus making you reach out to each other again.

I myself had such person in my life.Her name is Erna, and since we became close we call each other's "bibilabs" (baby loves). We are not sister's by blood but we are sister by heart and by faith. We met in a religious community, me as newbie and her as facilitator. We are not childhood buddies. We are also not cousins, or classmates nor neighbors, but we treat ourselves more than that. Going back we had this same vibes that made us drawn to each other, a care free and "hugotira" vibes. From that we know that we are soul mate. One that God had given. Since we started our friendship in the community, we just met in every events in the community. Sunday gatherings and chapter assemblies. Still, our friendship stand and became much fond to each other. Became a confidant. Became a sister that we never had with each other. We journey in the community together, pray, fall and grow together. There are times that we can't see each other for few months due to studies, because we weren't studying in the same University and we don't talk within those months, still we weren't forgot each other and we still shared the same energy and vibes with our unique friendship. We graduated the same year with the same course but different major in different school but we both receive our awards. We took the board exam together and passed together. We became collegues and shared the same room. We both have known our good and bad side, our likes and dislikes, our wants and needs and all the stuff that a sister may have known because we have shared the same roof. What makes us even fonder with each other because we shared the same struggles in life and we came in the same status in life. Her dreams in not so different with mine, and her heart desires is not different with mine. We have so much similarities and so much differences at the same time. I know I told you that we shared the same vibes but that vibes is only within our friendship. We are unique and similar at the same time in so many ways. We complimented each other perfectly.

We met since 2015 and still had each others up until now. We encountered problems too but we chose to talked about it rather than waste our friendship. Since we journeyed different path together now we hardly seen each other but we always make sure to have catching up moments together. And last night was a very long catching up so far. But I always loved and enjoyed everytime. It makes me forget and remember things at the same time. Forget my present situations and remember memories that we shared. I love her, like a sister. I always make sure that it's not just word but also in actions.

Having a best friend is a gift, a blessings that God has given. If you have that person in your life right now. You should value them and never waste them. Treasured them and cherished every moments you shared. Keep them. You are lucky to have them in your life. Be who you wanted to have in their life. Friendship does not defined by how long have you known each other or how near you can be often times. It could be known by how you are willing to open yourself for them, make yourself available to them, pray for them and journey with them through the ups and down of life. That's true friendship. That's how you will be a bosom buddies.

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