Through Your Very Own Subjective Lens

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How you see your very own self is much more important than how others see you. Make peace with your own reflection and see yourself through a mirror with great love and care for you are always worthy.


A mirror may be a simple object at home but it has lens which could truly evoke hidden feelings through emotional resilience. Learn about yourself by looking at a clean mirror. How you see your very own self is much more important than how others see you. Make peace with your own reflection and see yourself through a mirror with great love and care for you are always worthy.

Embrace change if necessary yet never ever be a reflection of another reflection's flaws. Perhaps learn the art self meditation and dare to see yourself through your very own subjective lens.

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How do you see yourself?

Personally, I see myself through my very own subjective lens. As I grow older, I am learning every single day, like most of us do that mirror is a special object that could monitor our physical appearance through the lens.

Through the mirror, we could just easily judge inner self such as beauty, flaws, and imperfection.

Growing up being an introvert, made me experience an often glimpse of my self through reflection. I spend so much time with my very own self than with anyone, and it is a real happiness to get along with me as I always find inner peace.

I love myself not in a selfish way that creates an indulgent lifestyle, but in a balanced way where I could connect faithfully with God. I admit that I have many flaws and imperfections but still believe that I am worthy even if there are really those days when I feel so bad and thinking the other way of being worthless and as good as nothing.

Consequently, I see myself through my very own lens while accepting myself as what I am right now. I never let myself reflect to another reflection's flaws yet I always yearn for self-improvement.

I began to see my reflection on my subjective lens in the mirror. Mirror may relate vanity and narcissism but it is reflective in nature.

But whether you like it or not, mirror could always contribute a reflection that could develop a sense of self while allowing self to change own perspective in life for the better.

It is only in the mirror where I could see myself as I see my own appearance but it is not a practice of adoration to myself but just a time for reflection and meditation without other people's affirmation.

The mirror has ben my subjective lens to reflect on my physical appearance, emotions, and dramas in my humble life. Over time, I was able to manage distractions, pressures, and stresses through self reflection, as it evokes emotional resilience changing my life perspective.

Whenever I felt bad and whenever I do not want to talk to anyone, the mirror has been my comfort without relying from others or any approval or validation from others as I self meditate on my own reflection, bringing a positive impact to my life.

Perhaps I could say that he mirror could really be a special tool that could reflect any judgement and criticism toward myself through reflection and meditation.

When I learned how to accept myself from the inside and outside, it is a matter of self-awareness that I am perfectly imperfect. Although there are really those times that I could look after another person's reflection, but I just use it as a motivation that could influence my well-being.

Somewhat it is a positive influence by allowing others' reflection to be my source of inspiration to achieve success. And that it is only through reflection wherein anybody could meditate as it builds confidence and resilience.

However, take to time to clean your own mirror so you could always see a true reflection of your very own self. Even if you have a lot of flaws and imperfections, never ever try to imitate other's reflection just to please anyone.

Remember that how you see yourself through your very own subjective lens is much more significant than how others see you on their standard lens. Make sense.

In conclusion, you could always reflect and meditate through a mirror as it develops a sense of self while allowing self to change for the better. You could always have time to embrace change if necessary, but never ever be a reflection of another reflection's flaws. Instead, strive for self-improvement despite being perfectly imperfect. Learn the art of self reflection where you could often meditate through your very own subjective lens.

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A very powerful piece for today, my dear Talecharm. Some people are too afraid to look at themselves in the mirror because they are afraid to accept their faults and their mistakes. If only people know how powerful they can become when they master themselves, they'd be looking at the mirror most of the time.

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1 year ago

It is a matter of self-acceptance through reflection at very own subjective lens dear jas. Grateful of your appreciation. I hope that you are fine my dear friend. Perhaps self-reflection is the key through meditation.

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A true is the main equipment where you can see yourself and know about you.

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1 year ago

One must dare to see himself in a clean mirror so he would be able to see his true self without reflecting others' flaws. Ans I so agree with you dear esp.

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1 year ago

Self evaluation really matters,the mirror is truly a piece that shows us who we truly are

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The mirror may just be a simple object at home but it is reflective in nature. Through reflection, it builds a sense of self allowing us to change for the better my dear friend, Balikis.

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Yes friend, it does make us see who we are through the reflections as that's our true being and it does allow us to work on ourselves to be better.

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1 year ago

Thank you my friend for this great article

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You are most welcome my dear friend, rore. Let us learn the art of reflecting through meditating on our very own mirror as it is both subjective and reflective in nature.

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1 year ago

self reflection and self evaluation are both important indeed

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1 year ago

When you learn to reflect and meditate, you would learn to accept all flaws and imperfections. Let own subjective lens be a way for reflection and meditation.

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1 year ago

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There is really magic on the phone like you are on the real scenario and that’s what I love about it as I reflect on the phone, dear friend, aka. You could have it soon.

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Hehehe i won't get it until i get a good job

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1 year ago

You are absolutely right. It is demand of our maturity that we stop looking yourself with others mirror or other glasses we should look onto ourself with our own mirror it will help us more to develop good in out personality rather looking through others glasses it just let down even our positive side.

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Let live life in serenity through looking at our own subjective lens dear friend, Tanain. It is true that it also comes with maturity to reflect and meditate.

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1 year ago

As we are growing old we must see ourselves through our own reflection, we must know it embrace flaws and every piece of it. Don't let society decide who we are, we doesn't need to please anyone. We just need to be ourself and the rest will follow.

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That is what we have to remember always, to never please anyone. We only have to be real true our own self as what our reflection is showing us despite our flaws and imperfections. We just have to build for emotional resilience.

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Yep, sometimes if you rely on the way others view you, you may end up with a very skewed image of yourself and poor self esteem, particularly if you're a bit different, or don't conform, and these can cause so many life problems that can be avoided by a little bit of self reflection and self love. I always encourage this. Because what if you are relying on others to tell you who you are and those persons have self esteem issues. They won't be a good reflection, will they? Because they're not in their best space. You need to know who you are, and love yourself, and nurture your best selves, and as you do so, taking this inward out approach of love and self care and then care for others, I believe you will be better able to function as a part of a group.

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Great words from you and I totally agree dear friend, Trifecta. It would always be better to see self through very own subject lens because it does not require other's approval and validation, and that people would low self-esteem would not feel bad about themselves as they have their own standards.

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Absolutely I agree. everyone has flaws. We have our own faults. The important thing is that we are aware of this and try to fix it. and we should never act for someone else as they want to see us, that is, for the other person how they want to see us. we have a saying: either look as you are, or be what you seem

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Yes dear friend, man. That is why it is really important to see ourselves through a clean mirror so we could always see a true and authentic reflection of ourselves. How we see ourselves through our subjective lens is much more important than how others see us on their standard lens.

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definitely . we must be aware of ourselves and be able to reflect it

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Yes indeed we should see ourselves with our own prospects, it doesn't matter how the society and peoples see us and judge us, we should try to be the best version of ourselves and discover our ourselves without focusing on the outer world.

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That is really so true dear friend, aurora. The society may judge us through their high standard lens, but what is more important is our ability to be worthy despite our flaws and imperfections. We are all unique with our flaws and let live with a perfectly imperfect self.

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We can only see ourslef when we focus on our own lens and neglect other opinions. Nowadays, society has a lot to see that tend people forget the who value of themselve.

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Very profound thoughts from you and I totally agree from your reflections, dear friend, Mary. The society has really a high standard of lens yet failed to see a subjective lens on their own.

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I think the very moment or the age one accepts who he or she is or sees the real them the inside and out of them, then at that moment you see and feel free, you become the most freed human walking on earth because you truly don't care about what others think about you, whatever it is you wear or put on you don't actually care about what those people all those years you have being trying to please see you, that freedom to me is just the best, and when you reflect on your life and see that you can't please everyone then you can enjoy that freedom

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Whether we like it or not, we are always judge by the lens of others. We may not please everybody but what is more important is to see ourselves at our very own subjective lens, dear friend adobe.

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I believe when we've not truly seen or discovered ourselves, the way others see us will shape us, our thoughts, actions and self-esteem

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Yes dear friend, faa. And as we get closer to our very own selves through reflection and meditation, we would not always seek for other’s approval or affirmation.

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I feel like the most important thing is to be able to make peace with the person that you are that way what people about you wouldn’t matter very much because you would just be living your best life. Now I know mirror in this context signifies self reflection and believe me that is the beauty of life. Being able to pause and appreciate how far you have come

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What really matters most is to make peace with our own reflection dear friend Jumper. Despite our flaws and imperfections, let live with a happy life as we learn to accept all that we are. Being able to appreciate what we are, would always bring self-contentment.

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Yes it just like that book “the subtle art of not giving a f**k “

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I always believe that if i can't think positively about myself then nobody will do that. I think a man needs to look at him every day and find out the best and worst things. Then he needs to improve those worst.

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Improving through the worst without minding of other’s reflection is a great way to do dear friend, Zahid. We may be perfectly imperfect but each one of us is special and unique.

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Ya i agree with you. We are not perfect but we have some unique qualities.

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Self reflection and evaluation is healthy for us sis. Beyond our flaws, if we can see us on how worthy or lovely we are, then we are, regardless of what others say or even if they judge us. Let us meditate on whatever is true, honest, pure, lovely, excellent, praiseworthy and all...

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I so agree with you dear friend, Juliane. Beyond our flaws, let live with a worthy reflection through a subjective lens despite the standard lens of others.

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Indeed. How we see ourselves, matters the most on our own growth. We won't grow if we continue bothering of what other people may saw us. We are the one who's creating our own future and so the way we saw ourselves was the reflection of our tomorrow. However I saw myself with a lot of flaws but those flaws somehow becomes my inspiration. I am not perfect, but I am indeed different.

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You would always be special and unique in your own ways my dear friend, grey. Perhaps our flaws and imperfections would always be our inspiration to strive hard to be better in life without minding for other people's reflections.

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I have never done that but it looks like a good way۔ yes we must accept our flaws, because no human being on this earth is flawless. We must learn to accept them. People are always going to criticize you ignoring the flaws they themselves contain. Never let them get under your skin. Live your life the way you want. Enjoy yourself

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There would always be those people who would criticize and judge us. I would often say that even if you are living a life like a saint, you cannot truly please everybody. So it would always be better to look at your very own subjective lens, than seeking for other's approval dear friend, Raheela. I so agree with your thoughts.

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Yes exactly! You are right! We can't please everyone! So it's better to please our own selves but not in selfish way

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When I looked up in the mirror seeing my reflection i could say that I loved myself too much and i don't need to please anybody just to like me back and we should appreciate ourselves and have a selfworth

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You are a reflection of a strong independent woman, dear friend, Maria. You are doing the right thing and may your tribe increase.

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Thank you so much friend, for those compliments from you its my pleasure to be your avid reader from your articles,,😊💕

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Every time I face a mirror, there are a lot of questions that run through my mind. Sometimes, I would discriminate against my own flaws. But at the same, I love my imperfection. That is what makes me unique.

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Perhaps mirror could always develop a sense of self while allowing us to ponder thoughts. We always have those flaws making us unique and special in our own ways. And sometimes, through those flaws, insecurities build up but it is a matter of self control as we continually improve thyself and understand that life itself is not perfect.

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I believe as time goes on we all grow to learn new things most times we grow to understand the mistakes we've made on the past and it is on our part to try and correct those mistakes. One might not be 100% perfect but there is something very unique about each and everyone of Us.

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So true, dear friend, Dan. We are always perfectly imperfect. We all have those flaws and imperfections but we could always improve ourselves for the better.

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I'm seeing myself as me, I don't know what kind of seeing is that but I just know that I was exploring and learning each day whenever I go to work and go back home

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That could be a good habit dear friend gamboa for you are focusing on your self and self-improvement as well instead of minding other people's reflection.

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