Is it normal to fall in love with the guy you just met online? 'Coz damn it's killing me 💔💔 Tell me I am only deluded by my illusion and wrong thinking 💔
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Sometimes you gotta take a step back and look at it more objectively. have you fallen in love with the guy that you met, or have you fallen in love with your idea of what this guy is that you just met? I think it's easy to accidentally get caught up in our own mental images and assumptions of people - especially during the early periods of getting to know them when everything is new and exciting. Don't get too attached, don't go too hard. Get to know them more for who they are and don't necessarily get too distracted by the "Rose coloured classes" assumptions of who you hope they are.
I think I have figured it out. I have fallen in love with my idea of how this guy is, and I realized I was wrong about what I thought. A shocking revelation made me awake. Haha, it's funny, but he's acting like he has never dated anyone when in fact he has three kids! Lol, I'm laughing because everything he's saying about himself is not true, especially the fact that he's a father. 😂