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Let's Stop Wearing Masks!

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Written by   47
4 weeks ago

No, no, no. I'm not talking about medical masks or face masks because I am not a medical professional who is competent enough to talk about it, and I think most people here is an adult who can decide what's best for themselves.

I am not talking about superhero or monster masks that you would wear on Halloween either.

Instead, I'm talking about the emotional mask that people may consciously or unconsciously wear in their everyday life.

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From the fake smiles they show every time they meet a certain someone, to a totally different personality they show to other people, these emotional masks vary in severity depending on the circumstances.

The reasons people use these masks can also differ greatly. Some may wear them to blend in with others, avoid rejection, or appear different from the rest of their surroundings. Some might be born in a specific living condition where they can't express their emotions in order to survive, and others may wear them to hide their fear, anger, sadness, anxiety, depression, and vulnerability.

Sometimes, we can wear these masks for so long in order to fulfill the expectations of others and starts forgetting about who we really are. We start living as different people in different situations. A popular quote on the internet sounds like this:

In the most common cases, people use these masks in the sense of becoming another person or having a different personality such as a humorist, a rich man/woman, a social butterfly, or a top prospect.

These people may start developing a different personality because of a simple thing such as a compliment or because others treat them better when they act in a certain way. A good example is a person who portrays their life as a really busy or really rich person when they're not to make other think that they are an important person and will try to kiss up to them.

It may also be because they were trying to hide a difficult situation they're currently having and they might not want others to worry or bother them. An example of this is a person who is feeling sad tends to be a humorist to hide their pain and to make others think that they are happy all the time.

These emotional masks can lead to a disconnection from oneself and dissatisfaction in life. One can suffer because they live their lives against their real feelings and will slowly lose their purpose of living. To cope with their stress and sufferings, it's not rare that someone will take a short way out like indulging in addictions like alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, and in the worst case, they can hurt themselves and others. These short-term 'relievers' will never fix the problems and instead add to them, so they clearly are not the way out.

Instead, what we can do to free ourselves from these sufferings is none other than to stop wearing these masks and to be true to ourselves. Here are some things to think about that might make you want to take your masks off.

  1. We should remember that every individual is unique and special in their own way. And by wearing these masks, we may throw away an important part of ourselves that others don't find appealing and try to shape ourselves to their desires when in reality, doing so will leave us broken and sometimes unfixable.

  2. We can stop hurting ourselves by peeling those masks off. Trying to be someone we're not is exhausting and harmful in the long run. We will start losing ourselves and be left with nothing but an empty shell if we keep putting on one mask after another to comply with the ever-changing expectations of society.

  3. We can have better control of our lives. While wearing a mask, we often crack under social pressures and blindly follow what others are saying. We also have inner conflicts with ourselves as our actions may contradict our true beliefs. By taking the mask off, we can make better decisions, ones that truly align with our beliefs and ones that can truly benefit our lives.

  4. We can find out who truly cares about us. While wearing our masks, we may encounter a lot of people who act nicely and try to befriend us. But the moment we take it off, most, if not all of them will leave us behind as we no longer fit in their agendas. If we start finding people who still want to be with us in our truest self, the chance is that they're genuine and they are there to stay.

With that said, you should never be afraid to be yourself and you should start peeling off the masks you've been wearing all this time. Don't let others judge you and shape your life and decisions based on their ideals. Stand up for yourself and what you believe in. Let's erase the fakeness around the world and live genuinely.

It's okay to be different and to be yourself because you are amazing just the way you are.

Author's Note:

Lead image credits to Sebastiaan Stam on pexels.com

Other images used are from my own design.

Kindly check out my other works here:

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I was shocked to read the title, you got me there 😂😂😂 I was about to type one solid paragraph to explain why I won't stop wearing masks but then read the second line and then the post hhahaha

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3 weeks ago

This is the most beautiful piece I have read today and I must say this is brilliant. We only please the people around us but not ourselves, its everywhere.....what do we represent behind closed doors.

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4 weeks ago

Thank you, I'm glad you liked it!

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4 weeks ago

I wouldn't deny that I'm been wearing mask ,for i guess most of my life. I'm a daughter,that came from a poor family,with a high expectations. My parents look at me as their perfect daughter, and by that i become afraid to do some mistakes. My life isn't perfect and happy as how people described it whenever they talk about me 🥺 but i can't afford to lose this mask ,as this is the only thing that helps me cover my scar's from yesterday and even today.. Oh i guess my words sounds emotional. I'm sorry.. it's just your article hits me.

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4 weeks ago

Don't be sorry. You are a really strong woman, and I salute you for keep going strong despite all the difficulties you face in life. I only can hope that someday, you'll be freed from all the expectations and burdens from other people and can live your life the way you wanted.

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4 weeks ago

In particular I stay away from people who have offered me friendship, but in my presence they show one face and when I turn my back on them they are another face. I simply stay away from people who have masks. They are not sincere, it is not worth a friendship with masks.

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4 weeks ago

Sometimes it really hard to distinguish whether someone is wearing a mask or not, especially when they have been using it long before we get acquainted with them.

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4 weeks ago

I agree with you, we need to stand up for ourselves otherwise this world is not going to live you alive. I don't know why people don't want to see other people happy. Btw, that's their cheap mentality.

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4 weeks ago

Yep, a lot of people don't like others being happy. They will try to hog all the good things for themselves and force others to suit their scenarios. Truly a bizarre world we're living in.

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4 weeks ago

May God bless them all and also give us a right path.

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3 weeks ago

wow, you got me there.

my first reaction when I saw the title was WTF, then I read the description.

great post by the way

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4 weeks ago

Hehe, it's a way of attracting people to read and find meaning inside the article. Glad you liked it!

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4 weeks ago

I definitely agree with this. Emotional structure should be removed. Impactful writing dear. But very few will understand the depth of this concept.

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4 weeks ago

I think we wear the mask to please societies views and people in our lives. Sometimes we act stupid, serious and courageous. It all depends on the people you are associating with

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4 weeks ago

It happens everywhere that sometimes other people don't like us, but that's okay. It is well said that we are not gold coins. But just because of that fact we should not change our way of being and wear masks. Good reading.

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4 weeks ago

Thank you, gertu. This article is me somehow reflecting on the wrong ways I have been living my life, in particular being someone else that isn't really me to please others.

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4 weeks ago

We are human beings and we learn by doing. I am glad that somehow you realize what you have walked. That you allow yourself to choose now how you want to continue living.

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