There are things that might seem rude by can be considered as self care. Like the following: ¤ Saying No I think this one is the most common especially when other people are asking some favor to you. We always find it hard to say no to them even though we don't want to do it because we are thinking on what will they say. Example is when your friend ask you to join them to go to some place or when your friend ask to borrow some money (its hard hahaha). ¤Putting yourself first Loving ourself was really important but sometimes, we forget it because we are more focus on how to make others happy. Remember, its okay to think for yourself sometimes. ¤Changing your mind One reason for this is we feel embarassed to change our mind or in making decision. Example is buying a product like clothes when you already ask for its price and tried it in if its fit then suddenly you change your mind. There's a lot more but we choose to think on what other people will say on us, that's why we forget to think for ourself sometimes. Good Afternoon♡ @Snowver