What Changes you... When someone hurt you..it totally devastates you.. And the grief will changed you as a person.. Hopefully it will be a learning experience for you to be better.. Some take it in a negative way and destroyed everything they put up.. It comes in our life a hard blows...it's up to us how we transformed our grief.. Be strong always,i know it's not easy. When you are broken,they said that cracks appear..it is where the lights go in.. To help you heal..and let the ray of hope shine in...