Process things at your own pace You know when you're facing a big dilemma.. Don't rush on things,don't say a word.. Let it sinked and processed what is it all about.. Wait until your heart is calmed,your mind is clear.. Then slowly,steadily outweigh the pros and cons of your decision.. At times bad decisions are rooted from wrong judgement.. Always wait for the adrenalin rushed to subdue befòre you give your final answers..