Love is a feeling of happiness. It is a feeling of affection to someone. It is for free.
Love is humble. Love is God. Love is not boastful. It is everyone's right to love and be loved. We all fall in love and learn. Either with the right or the wrong person we choose. There are many definitions of love. It depends on how we define it and how we experienced it.
We don't choose the person we love. Its our heart that commands us whom to fall in love with. We can never teach our heart to choose. It's our mind who controls it.
Falling in love is one of the happiest stage in adulthood. Even those younger generations fall in love but it is just an admiration or "crush". They entered a relationship very early but some ended too soon also. This is because they are still young and their minds are not matured enough in decision making.
What Makes Us Fall In Love
We fall in love because we admire a person based on the following:
Physical Looks. This is the first thing we noticed in a person. We are attracted with the looks first though we don't know personally the person we like. We just know that a person is good looking and we fall in love. Later on, we will know the real attitude of a person.
Sense of Humor. When we get to know a person, we also fall because of their sense of humor. Not just by their looks but also because of their personality. We enjoyed getting along with a funny person because they made our day happy. Especially when we have problems, they can make us laugh.
Effort. When we saw how serious a person is, we fall in love with that person. By the gifts or foods he gave. We fall in love on how serious a person is to us. He does all he can to prove he is worthy to us
Love. This is the important factor of all. We should know how a person loves us. How serious a person is to us.
Respect. Besides love, there should also be respect. Love without respect is like nothing. You love a person because you know its worth. You fall in love with a person because you know that person is something to be respectful.
Falling In Love With Him
Meeting my partner is the most complicated yet challenging relationship I had. This is the relationship I fight for with my family. He is the father of my son, Nathan.
I fall in love with him because I knew he had feelings for me in the first place. We both feel the same way. But what makes me fall for him is because of his thoughts in life. He is an independent man with many experiences in life. He is the one who gives advises and tells me if I'm doing good or bad already.
Until now, I can say that he's a loyal person. We still have fights but in the end, we still accomplish it.
Why Do Other People Fall In Love?
All of us fall in love. It can be with same sex or opposite sex. There is equality in love. No limits. No boundaries.
There are some people who fall in love just because of money. They thought that falling through a rich person can make them happy even there is no love. But if we come to think, there are people whose relationship lasted even they are not financially stable. But the love for each other reigns. For me, that is true love. The feeling of affection matters.
Imagine, you both came from poverty and you love each other. You worked hard and you prove to others that you can succeed because of hard work and love. Until you achieve your dreams together. A simple and humble life with love. You fall in love with a right person.
There are also couples where God is the center of their relationship. They believe that anything they do is in Gods control. This is an effective relationship and will truly lasts.
There are also some who fall for the wrong person. They thought that they are the only one in their partners lives.The truth is that there is a third party. That their partner is seeing someone. We love the person so much that they cannot give back the love that we have for them.
There are other couples who have age gaps. Nowadays, this type of relationships exists. For some, younger individual chooses older person due to the maturity of the person. They are looking for someone to take care of them and understand them.
Others preferred to stay single. They do fall in love but due to previous heartaches or experiences, they preferred to be single. No one will control them. Its all about being a stronger individual and happy with what they chose at the same time.
We all have our reasons for falling in love. This goes to show that love truly exists.
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