Accept it or not, relationship among people depends on give and take. A giver's hand always stay upper and earn more respect.

Likely a taker get the opposite most of the time. You are taking means you are losing something that would be your respect too. Though it depends on thing you are taking.

If a giver giving you from their heart, you can accept it cordially but when you take things forcefully that decrease your honor to others.

Yesterday my roommate was telling me that she don't like to waste money so she avoid get together with friends.

Once she was attending a get together but one of her friend underestimated her because she don't spend money for others. She was hurt so she ignoring those so call friends.

I also suggest her to avoid those who waste money and beg for borrowing money from others.

Those people who spend unnecessarily and later beg for money from others, I really can't respect them at all. Even hardly some can respect those.

Let's come to the main topic, A giver is always get love, respect and praise. But what if the giver no longer a giver now? I mean if a giver lost his/her ability to give, will he/she will be consider for the same love, respect and praise? This is a hard question when answer is a bitter truth.

We mostly go with the flow and as a human being we are really very unthankful and selfish. And this is the bitter truth. When a giver is no longer a giver now, we going to forget his/her previous contribution and throw him/her like unnecessary.

On the other hand a person who always believe in taking, will always avoided and he/she deserves so. It looks bad when we are just asking for things from other and when our turn to give we scape. Why so?

If you are unable to give in return of taking just try for praying for the giver. Things if you give it will increase, for example knowledge, positive vibes and good ideas. So a giver is always good when he/she gives good things that can change life positively. Like our teachers do for us. They are the best givers in my mind.

Value of giving can depend on situation. Like if I give $100 to a beggar for his support, he will salute you and will give priority to your donation but when you’ll offer the same $100 to a rich guy as donation, it will be just a nothing. So before giving things chose the right person and think who worth to have your giving!

So, a giver is always good and appreciated but we should be thankful when we are taker and should have aim to repay to the giver. This way you can save your respect as a taker.

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