These days its hard to find people who can heal you. You'll be judge always wrong, not because you are wrong but because they are unable to see the story behind your being wrong or doing something wrong.

You can't satisfy all the people around you but at least you can respect others to get the same respect.

Sometimes we forget that we are human being. We are here in this earth to make mistakes and when its normal for us to make mistake so better we stop being so judgemental. Only a sufferer knows what he/she is suffering and he/she is behaving strange. We can feel pity, show some sympathy empathy but we can't feel the pain one suffering already.

We all know that death is painful but we are not yet known with the taste of death. So our problems are just like that, we have no right to judge others specially when we know we all have problems in life. Some may tolerate it silently and some may burst out with loud sound or cry out, some may become rude.

A rude person have some pain or problem in life and we judge them wrong in a glance. But no one try to know the reason behind his/her rudeness. But the more we can control our anger and behaviour, the more we can be a real human being. So let's don't give chance to others to judge you in a bad way.

But sometimes you'll be right and wrong people around you will try their best to prove you wrong and before judging you they won't look at themselves. These people are completely unbearable and they just love to blame others and stopped seeing their mistakes and wrong doing.

Suffering is sometimes really very necessary for judgement people because some may can understand that its easy to judge but really very different to suffer. We are very careful and concerned about our mental health but we also should think that our wrong judgement can spoil other's life or affect other's mental health.

If we can't heal others by saying good words then at least we can keep silent and try to understand the person who is suffering a big pain inside him/her. If can't understand what to do in such situation, it will be better taking help from someone trustworthy who can support you mentally.

Thanks So Much

©SHOHANA 2021