Be aware before making a decision
Today I am writing this article about an experience what has happened in my past life and it has given me a lifetime lesson.Also if anyone reads this whole article they will realize the fact of not having money and a good family background.Actually every successful person has a painful story,every painful story has a successful ending.So we need to accept the pain first.Then after facing all the pain the happiness will come to us automatically.You don't need to run after happiness.Happiness is a virtual thing.The first and formost thing is that money cann't bring happiness.Although many people think that only money is the root of everything.If you have a good family background and your parents have a lot of wealth then it will be very easy for you to become successful in life.But if you don't have any of this then I will recommend you to read the entire article.Hopefully it will be beneficial for you.First of all I want to discuss about my personal experience and from reading this experience of me you will realize what you need to be prosper.
Look I was born in a poor middle class family.So I have faced poverty from my childhood.I was very frustrated from my life because of not having enough money to do something.I have completed my education with my earning money.Everything was going wrong in my life so I decided to go abroad for getting a good job and for a better salary.Because of this I asked for money from my mother.Then my mother said to me,"Dear son,if you cannot do anything good in your motherland then you won't be able to do something anywhere.You are not getting a good job here it doesn't mean that you are not worthy of it".My mother again said to me ,"Remember,failure is the pillar of success.If you are making a decision for yourself it's good but always think second time after making a decision because time once losed is losed forever."But I didn't listen anything to my mother and took the money from my mother.And then I went out for london in a flight .I got a marvellous job there and was getting good salary per month.So I was quite happy with my family there.Everything was going great for me for 3-4 years.My childs were happy.
But suddenly rush of bloods came to my life.Oneday I was going to my office with my office car.On the way the car curshed wih a bike and I lost my one legs and one finger.From then I couldn't able to continue my job.I used to lying on bed almost entire day.From that moment,my mind always think about motherland,mother,their culture,behaviour and everything.I was bored with my life but couldn't do anything because I was under in medical treatment.So after some months I recovered from my injury but not properly.After that I have started to do freelancing as a profession.But my mind always think about to my last conversation with my mother.I can't realize that I have done the right thing or not but I was not happy with my life for years Now,I except the truth that I can't recover from this injury properly.
Money is just a paper nothing more than that .I don't know what everybody thinks but I went out for money and lost the happiness of my life.By industrious,everybody can make a living on.Too much money can destroy you and your family.The first and formost thing is to think frequently after making a decision for something because one decision can make your life shine on the other hand one decision can make your life ruined.I have understand this by a lot of sacrifices.If you are in poverty ,don't need to be panic God will automatically give you a solution.
This article don't have any illegal words or something.I just want to share my experience with people.That's why I have written this article.
As parents what should be their duties
The first and formost thing is that we are human but before becoming a complete human being we are all children and immature.Today I am writing this article about a children behaviour,attitude,immaturity and how their parents can make their children happy, charming,healthy and most importantly how can they make their children a good human being.
How to understand a children mind?
Look,I am writing this article it doesn't mean that I am a proper adult person I am only 25 years of old.So I know correctly that when a child grows up he doesn't know what to do as well as how to do.So it depends on their parents how they prepare their children from their childhood.When I was in London almost 10 years ago,I didn't hear anything from my mother , but now I realize that listening to it makes my life successful and comfortable.Once my mother said to me,"Now you can do anything you want but always remember one thing that no one in this world will care and think for you like your father and mother".And this sentence what my mother last said to me and I am getting it's prove in every moment.An adolescent child won't know what is good for their future.They think if they can earn money through education or business that's enough for them.So they don't care about anything and going towards drug addiction,casinos,bars etc Which makes them lazy to do something for the country, to do something for the world and for the society.It is very hard and difficult for parents to understand their child's want.But they can help their children to refrain from going the wrong way.
How can parents help their children from going the wrong way?
A child listen to someone when he or she is having a good friendly relationship with them.Because at that age they cannot tolerate the misbehaviour of someone.So the parents need to be always friendly with them without being angry .when a child first sees something new they become very curious about that thing.Parents should help them to co-operate with the changing world with that they need to tell them the differance between right or wrong.Because if they don't realize the differance they won't able to survive on Earth.Many parents send their children abroad or any good facilitiful places for their better education and prosperity in life but firstly they need to know that their children can adopt with the new society or not.I have seen too many children in my whole life those have ruined their lives went out of their home.I recommend every parents not to leave their child lonely anywhere .Always maintain good relation between wife and husband because it will create a good impact on the brain of the child otherwise if the relation between husband and wife is not good it will be very harmful for the child.Parents should speak always good words in front of child so that they can learn good behaviour and good attitude.
How can parents make their children healthy and proper human being?
Health is a very important part of children and also for human.Every parents want their children to be a stronger and healthier person but it depends on them how they maintain the body of their childs.Children like everything in their childhood because they can feel the taste of a food more than anyone else.So parents should be very aware about their children food.They must give them what is good for their children not something what is un hygiene even though their children like it.Parents shouldn't give any junk food like burger,pizza at the early age.when they will grow up they will eat it by themselves but not in childhood.This process will help every children to be healthier and fitter.But there is nothing like mother's breast milk, so I will advise every parents to drink them milk first.it will keep them healthy aways.But all this thing will make them happy not properly human.All parents must give the knowledge to their children about good thing and bad thing.Must tell them to avoid evil company as well as keep himself far from drugs.Parents should adise their children to always support the good man and hate the devil person.If all these steps parents follow hopefully their children will become a proper human.I am no saying that they will earn lot of money but they can make their living through honesty.Money isn't everything it can bring prosperity not happiness.If they are hard worker money will automatically come to them they don't need search for money.
This article is all about some suggestion .It doesn't contain any illegal words or bad sentence.Writing article is my hobby .So this article will help every parents to keep their children under control if they follow it .At last I will tell every parents to punish their children for doing Small mistakes because short thing bring huge thing.
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