Love yourself, increase your self-esteem

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Most of the time, I have seen people seeking unwanted attention and end up losing their morale. Instead of that, they should know their worth and who they are, and their self-esteem matter more than delivering the knowledge that other people don't wanna listen to. You should know about your worth, no matter what others say about you, you should be on the right track because you know who you are and the reality will not change.

Yes, words left long-lasting effects on our personality and sometimes are more painful than knives. But you should learn to be neutral from the influence of any external force and no one can put an impact on you. You should have full control of your EQ and IQ.

We live in a world where nothing is permanent, everything has an end either a temporary or a permanent relation no one stays there, it's your fight and you should be a master in handling it. Many temporary people came into our lives, make us beautiful for a few moments, and left us with unforgettable memories. Even our loved ones' parents will also leave us because death is inevitable.

Many people will use you, you build a with many, and some will break, you will feel lonely, happy having a friends circle, then a point where you lost everything and broken, that's a life you have to face all this but one thing you should have a firm believe on the God that good days will arrive soon. And surely the better days will come you need to work consistently.

People with soft hearts who already try to make others happy suffered the most in this cruel, they think people will be hurt by this act, and they ignore it, and the other person takes the benefits of his kind act and start irritating him continuously. So it's better to answer them in the right way rather than facing bad behavior every time you met them.

Don't be afraid to say no, when you wanted to say it, even to your favorite person because another person already knows that you are busy and have no time for completing that task, but if you did that, you will lose self-esteem and that person will continue to ask for the task. At first, he will show some mood later things became alright. Even if things will not be sorted out it's okay, nothing is more important than your self-respect.

Everything should be within a limit, love, friends, family, etc. No one should have a right to disrespect you if you are on the right track and know your worth and are clear about your vision, it's better to shut their mouth off, if someone tries to humiliate you, in the case of elders I never respond, just don't want to meet them again, not disrespect for them, its the matter of my self-esteem and my parents have never allowed me to speak in front of an elder, so I just cut off that negativity.

Final thoughts:

Respect your parents no matter what they told you, whatever they said is better for your personal growth. They are the only two who care about us when we are sick or in a trouble, try to make them happy, and never hurt them. Sometimes even if their words hurt you just ignore them with a smile by saying okay Maa, and Papa, life is too short, the thing that should matter to you only is to see their happiness, they are the only ones who forget they're luxurious just for your better future and want to see you successful one day.

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15-05-2022

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You are right it is better to love himself than others if we love himself no one can break us and no one can hurt us.I like such articles about self respect that's why I m going to subscribe you ✨

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I never want someone in my life who love me because I am already a self lover and always keep myself on first priority

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