Why Relationship strain

Warm greetings. Days are just running giving no time to breathe. All are busy in their own world completing the day's assigned task. Be ot official or non official. Let's move on....

As the schedule is busy. One has less time or no time for the other resulting in a strained relation. To seperate a relationship there will be too many reasons, but to get along with the relationship lifelong just one good reason is enough. That's life.

Obviously when a third person is involved, relations strain. This can include even a non living thing. Wait! no second thoughts, I know for a moment you must be wondering what? Iam talking about the gadgets. Now-a-days people prefer gadgets to their dear ones. Accordingly most relations get strained. Quiet often, when internal fights go on between two of them at home, some people tend to discuss with a third person. If the listener is a good person he will try to unite them else he will add more fuel to the fire. Such peoples become the reason for seperation. So its better not to discuss any issues with a third person, no matter how much ever close he/she is. Try to solve it all by yourself.

Another reason is attention of the partner especially, when the opposite sex doesn't have somebody to talk to. When one feels that he is not getting the required attention, after a busy schedule, this also irritates the other. Maybe their will be times, when one requires the attention of the other very badly. And when the other person ignores, this causes the relation to strain. Here, mobiles can be one of the reason.

Silence is another factor. To break the silence is a tough task. The more silent ultimately leads to more stress. Some people are so stubborn that they show anger by remaining silent for hours or maybe days. This happens because they are overcaring, they are crystal clear in what they do due to which they cannot tolerate small flaws. And always feel they are right from their point of view. Its very difficult to pacify them.

Excess love also leads to strained relationship. When love blossoms accordingly hatred also erupts. Here both of them depend much on each other that they discuss each and every matter. As both of them are aware of the happenings around, a small flaw from either of them bothers the other. A small spark leads to a big fire. One of the factor here for a strained relation is both of them stick to the same unnecessary subject, where, neither of them is ready to give up. Trying to dominate the other.

In particular, there are more reasons for a relation to strain. Just mentioned few common things visible around our society.

The best solution in a successful relationship is is one of them should be ready to give up, when the argument gets heated. So things will cool down automatically, though the process is slow. There is a say that when you clap with two hands the noise increases which is not possible with a single hand.

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