Before you give up

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A warrior does not give up what he loves, he finds the love in what he does

-Dan Millman

Okay, let's be realistic here. Giving up is the easiest thing to do. Especially, if we've been constantly experiencing a lot of failures and it seems like fate is not on our side. Actually, it is our natural initial response everytime we see that it is difficult or impossible to accomplished. We tend to lost our heart and interest everytime our first step fails. Everyone can give up if they want to-even with the things they love. But there are also few determined souls who has the courage to keep going despite of failing over and over again.

Which one are you?

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Is Giving up a Choice or Not?

A lot of times in my life where I get tired and choose to surrender it instead of just resting. It was like an illness for me that I couldn't help but just let it consume me. I remembered when I was writing a story back then and I got bored. I decided to just stop writing it and just threw it away, instead of just taking a break to entertained myself and be motivated again.

You see? That situations just clearly shows that giving up is not involuntary thing. I give up not because I was given no choice. I give up because it is my choice.

There's always a reason...

If we are gonna examine the situation above on why did I choose to give up. You will clearly see that 'surrendering' was not always in the picture. It only comes out every time I experienced down moments. Just like, you wouldn't feel angry if no one triggers you.

  • Tiredness

Being tired could be a great reason to just give up the things we love or wanted. However, I strongly believe that no one would ever feel tired with the things he love. Maybe you get tired by doing the process, but not really in your passion.

  • Boredom

Boredom is really the mortal enemy of a person in everything we do. When a person get bored, he will automatically leave what he is doing and find another thing to do that is more entertaining. And it will obviously make the man give up his first work no matter how big the progress he has already done. Of course, you wouldn't want to work on things that you have no interest about, right?

However, a passionate person would always find ways to kill his boredom before it kill his passion.

The reasons I included, are only based on my situation/experienced that I have stated above. There are still a lot of reason behind every 'give ups' of a person.

Can you tell me yours?

Before you give up...

I know, there's a lot of reason for us to give up , to surrender and to stop doing the things we love. Maybe you were thinking right now that it is the only way out. If you are a writer, blogger, an artist, singer, employee, businessman or a content creator, please consider this things before you decide to surrender.

  • Remember why you started

I decided to join read.cash because I wanted to earn and help my family when it comes to our financial needs. That, honestly, was my main reason in joing this platform. Time passed by and I have realized and discovered the opportunities that read.cash brought in my life. Through writing, I was able to meet new and amazing people. It is such a big help for me to interact and build friendly bond with other people and expand my socialization. Aside from that, it also helped me improve my english fluency and discovered multiple vocabularies that I didn't know before and BCH. In short, through the help of this platform, I was able to earn while writing and learn while reading. And that, basically became my ultimate reason why I continue writing despite of the bad things that is happening to me.

Whenever, you feel like giving up, please always remember the reason why you started that journey. Remember your goal and that will eventually drives you to keep going.

  • Someone's looking up to you

When we were a kid, we used to have a lot of idols that we look up to. In fact, they became our inspiration and role model. We wanted to also achieve the things that they have achieved. And when they are down, we get feel sad also. Just like those people, someone out there is also looking up to you.

Someone who believe in your potential and ability to succeed in life. Someone who gets inspired by your story and how you fight your everyday battle.

Someone out there is making you as their model. Someone they wish that they can become too.

You may not notice it, but trust me. There is someone out there who supports, prays and cheer for you, in silence.

Before you give up, please consider what would that person feel.

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I know you're tired and you have a lot of reasons to give up. But please don't forget that you also have a lot of reason to keep going. Please count this in.

Yeeyy! You made it this far.

Thanks for reading and always supporting me. You guys are the reason why I keep on writing.

God bless!

P.S

Images above are mine. I captured them when I went to Mt. Batuno.

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Just like you said, giving up is voluntary and a choice. And we often resort to it when things get a little tough. Only when we realize that we can do much more than giving up, then we can just go on and on, no matter how tough things or our situation gets.

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3 years ago

Yas. We just need to train ourselves, to look in the other corner of the room.

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3 years ago

Yes! That's how it should be, to look at the brighter side :)

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3 years ago

Sometimes I feel like giving up but I also think what will happen if I will give up. If I will give up, I think my hard work in the first place will just waste and I don't like to be like that. In life, we should learn how to fight until the end because if we don't, Maybe we can't live in the life that we dream.

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3 years ago

We all have felt pain and felt like giving up. Nobody's capable of coping with life without a hint of hesitation every now and then. When you feel like nothing ever goes right and will ever go right. It's tough sometimes. It really is. Seems impossible to go one step a little further, like it's harder to go than give up. If you'll just believe and have some faith that things will get better. I truly think you'll find they will. I have given up life so many friggin times, and I am glad I didn't go any further than those. We are here to live life. Other than that, what's the point?

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3 years ago

We should not forget to look for the bright side of life. There is always two sides of a coin. Thanks for dropping by sis.

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3 years ago

Amen to that, sis!

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3 years ago

Okay lng nman mgpahinga pero dapat tuloy parin ang laban at wag sumuko. 😁

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3 years ago

Yes pooo.

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3 years ago

Never give up on what you really want to do. The person with big dreams is more powerful than the one with all the facts.

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3 years ago

Yeeess. Nothing can bring down a man who has big dreams.

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3 years ago

Giving up is our choice, and we should not regret it because it's our choice. In every battles we should calculate if we able to win the battle or give up if we don't have chance of winning.

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3 years ago

Yeess. It is really important to balance every action we will make.

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3 years ago

For me ! Bago ako msg Give Up lagi kong sinasabi sa aking sarili para kanino ba ako lumalaban then biglang maiisip ko ang ang magulang mga kapatid at iba pa Kaya never akong sumuko sa pangarap ko pero hindi masamang sumuko sa mga bagay na hindi talaga nakatadhana sa atin😊

Labaarnn lang Sis and Don't Give Up

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3 years ago

Yyyeeess. There's a time for everything talaga. Time to give up and time to keep going.

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3 years ago

Act muna bhe before quitting and giving up.💪☺️

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3 years ago

Yes para walang pagsisisi sa huli.

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3 years ago

Korek!

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3 years ago

That's right po . Whenever I feel like giving up and loosing hope, I always think my deepest and biggest reason why I started this battle. I know that God is with me in every battle I face. Sa anumang pagsubok .Sige lang laban . I know that It's all worth it at the end.

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3 years ago

Indeeedd. Labaaan lang talaga tayo. Habang may buhay may pag asa.

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3 years ago

Agree, giving up is the easiest way to do but we must not do it. You are right that there are always reasons to give up but we must think, why we started. What is this for? For your goals. So we should rest for a while and continue fighting. :)

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3 years ago

Yesss. We should keep our eyes on the trophy and always remember our reason why we started this journey.

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3 years ago

Giving up is part of the process. Sometimes we need to give up something for more valuable thing. As for me I gave up tons of things in my life haha.

But when it comes on writing. Yeah I also do that. As I indicated from my weakness as I wrote in an article. When it's 50% I felt like its boring hahaha so I also stopped. I give up for a moment but I don't I don't abandoned my give -ups.

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3 years ago

You got point. My mga times talga na mas better mag give up lalo na pag alam mong mas worth it yung kapalit.

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3 years ago

daming reasons para mag give up pero mas marami ang reasons to go on and fight...especially now for me personally that I have a son na naka depended sakin

God Bless!

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3 years ago

Yesss. Go lang ng gooo motherrrsuuu. Everything will be worth it.

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3 years ago

Amen...will do thank you beb!!

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3 years ago

Giving up is ones personal choice. I give up not because I was given no choice. I give up because it is my choice. So true.

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3 years ago

Yes. The choice is always ours.

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3 years ago

Laban lang dear! Pabalik balik man pakinggan pero isa to sa mga motivations natin. Oks lang matalo at least lumaban kesa naman hindi sumubok kasi takot matalo.

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3 years ago

Tamaaa. Atleast walang regrets sa huli.

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3 years ago

This is so true. Giving up is really a choice. But I always get back as well to the reality why I even started something. Sometimes, I really felt tired and feel like giving up with my work. But if I am really almost giving up, I always think of the reason why I am in this work and why I am working. That why I need to continue. I realized as well that, giving up is not always a choice, it is just a challenge. We can take breaks and bounce back again.

By the way, your article is wonderful and gives a lot of lesson. ☺️

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3 years ago

That is exactly right. Breakdown saglit tas laban ulit. Giving should always be our last resort. By the way, thank you so much for dropping by ❤

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3 years ago

True. Wala kasing mas mabuting mangyayari kung gigive up tayo agad. We can try again and see if there will be any improvement that may happen. Kaya laban lang kung laban. ☺️

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3 years ago

Before you give up, remember your loved ones, your goals and your dreams. 😁

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3 years ago

Yeesss ❤❤ main reason kung bakit tayo nag susumikap ❤❤

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