Let go and let God

Hello everyone

It's Monday once more, guys. Mondays are usually the day when everyone tries to get serious or is always very busy, but luckily this year it isn't that way. Thursdays, on the other hand, have to be one of the busiest days for me. I also have a lot of assignments to complete, and with God's help, I hope this week goes well.

Do you believe in the concept of a second chance?

Everyone has different reasons for doing something (doesn't make it right, though). Every Christian has been given a second chance, and not just a second chance because when we go to God and sin, he still forgives us, so I believe in second chances.

I don't believe you can exist on this planet without people offending you. There are also various sorts of hurt, and some people are unable to forgive certain types of offenses. My friend and I were talking the other day, and we ended up talking about Cheating. There are people who cheat and their partners forgive them, and there are other those who divorce and get back together after many years, sometimes even stronger than before.(I am not saying you should get back together with whoever cheated but let go 😊)

In terms of friendships, you know how some individuals have hurt you so badly that you feel like you'll never forgive them. When you've been hurt by someone, the phrase "once bitten, twice shy" comes to mind when you are have been hurt by someone it literally changes the way you think and all, you will be running away from anything friendship because you don't wanna get hurt.

Even family members can hurt you, especially those who have had a difficult childhood, with a lot of abuse, and who have grown up to despise their parents or even males, depending on the situation.

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Steps to forgiveness

• Uncover your anger:- Anger is a natural feeling that we all experience at some point. It takes guts to be honest about your anger; you can take your time writing it down or sitting someplace else, but you must first discover the hurt you are experiencing.

• Decide to forgive: Yes, forgiveness is a decision, and it is human nature to cling on to suffering. You may passionately believe that the individual deserves to suffer, but it is not up to you to make that decision. Make the decision to forgive, and you'll be able to see what's possible.

• Practice forgiveness: Practice forgiveness on a regular basis. Look for new strategies to assist you in forgiving more easily.

• Free your mind from emotional confinement: This is similar to self-forgiveness; you should forgive yourself and stop blaming yourself for trusting that person or whatever else.

Yeah, I won't say it's easy to forgive, but to be honest, if you don't forgive, you tend to carry a burden in your heart that prevents you from doing a lot of things, so just let go and let loose.

Thank you for reading.