Change is constant
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Is it just my imagination or do the days seem to fly by, especially at night? By the time I close and open my eyes at 6 pm, it's already the next day. It feels like I haven't accomplished much or even had enough time for myself except on weekends, which is now the only time I have to catch up on schoolwork. Apart from the fact that I haven't been in the mood to write, I am delighted I can now.
I'll just leave this here.
According to physics and regular human life, change is constant and unavoidable . As we mature as people, we are intended to go through changes. I'll admit that when I was younger, I was more open and I played more, but I can think of a lot of things that I stopped doing as I grew older or as I lost interest in them. When a child becomes a teenager, he or she becomes reticent and always wants to be left alone, and all of this is part of the changes that come with becoming a teenager.
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I recall being more carefree about things in junior secondary school, being more open and all, but as I transitioned to senior secondary school, I got more concerned of things, how I acted, how I dressed, and all. It's just a part of the process. After interacting with a lot of people at school, when it came time for us to part, I imagined we'd stay in touch forever, even though I realized we'd probably never see each other again. After we all went to university, just a few of us maintained in touch, and a lot of things happened; we all grew up and began our adult lives. Few of us have graduated now, and things have changed. I wasn't used to the changes at first, and I really wanted to stay friends with everyone, but life intervened.
There are sometimes we try to change people like who they are to try to fit or suit how we want them to be or vice versa. I have seen people try to change so they can fit into a particular setting or to be accepted by people. There's no need to change people to fit your needs so far that person is on the right part, someone will surely like you for who you are.
Similar to how we lose and gain friends as we grow and evolve in life, we also go through bodily changes, become more responsible, and so on. You can change for the better or for the worse depending on what has changed you, but the best thing to do is to change for the better and you could be the change too. Change is difficult at first, messy in the middle, and beautiful in the end.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.💚
Have a fantastic weekend!😊