Our Friend is Our Hope for Life
There are different kinds of people. Each of them has a different character structure, spiritual maturity, cultural level, understanding of communication, speaking and listening habits. The problems are just as diverse; happiness, unhappiness, loneliness, despair. The solutions for each are so different from each other.
However, there is only one medicine that is good for all problems, the difficulties of life, the monotony, the pain of loneliness, fears and worries: A true friendship beyond friendship!.
If a person's problems have become a tangle that is difficult to solve, a good friend is the only remedy. A friend is like water, like bread. It is an indispensable part of life. He knows when you need him and is there for you instantly. Even if you do not call for a while, he will not be offended, offended, and his love will not decrease. When he is in the tightest, he is right next to you either with his voice, his thoughts or his presence.
Our friend is the life energy of our heart and brain. He is someone we can share our possessions with, believe in and spend time with. “Friendship” is the true definition of happiness, regardless of economic and class differences.
Chatting with a friend, helping each other, giving strength to each other, accepting each other as they are even if they have different opinions, being for each other are the features that add meaning to life. A friend lessens the fatigue and pain of the inevitable conflicts that a person experiences with the world. It saves life between narrow and troubled four walls. Because a friend is a safe haven for people, it is loyalty and sharing. It is the spiritual door that colors the awareness level of life. Friendship is the hope of life.
I must say with regret that we live in days when forty-year-old friends ignore each other and even withhold greetings. The number of people who do not take the time to make calculations, monitor interests and establish friendships is increasing rapidly. However, friendship or our friends set a barrier against the decay of our human values, accumulations and cultural identity in today's world where individual interests come before human feelings.
If we take care of friendship and our friends, we add strength and energy to our joy of life. We will be happy. The famous thinker-writer Montaigne used the expression "Such a chance happens to a person once in three hundred years" for his dear friend La Boétie. Balzac's determination was, "If disaster has any good, it is knowing its true friends". Oscar Wilde speaks of a very different virtue in friendship: Anyone can share in a friend's sadness, but it takes a quality of spirit to be genuinely happy about his achievements.
If we call any acquaintance or friend at a late time, we will understand if they are uncomfortable. Dost, "Why did you wait until this hour to tell your troubles?" he asks. The acquaintance thinks it's all over after an argument. The friend calls you without hesitation and without wasting time.
The acquaintance is with you when you have no problems. A friend, on the other hand, does not leave you alone when you have a problem, he listens, seeks and finds a solution. If the acquaintance finds out about your weaknesses, he can use them, while the friend covers them and prefers to help you overcome them.
Friendship gives light to the gray-dark aspects of life. In this process where individuality is widespread, egos are at the forefront and rapidly multiplying, we must protect friendship. Our joy of life and happiness increase in proportion to the number of our friends and associates. By giving them love and support, we relax our hearts and attain inner peace.
The famous Roman scientist and statesman Cicero idealizes friendship as “an intimate relationship based on mutual natural attraction and love of virtue, stemming from the similarity of character” and “It is a relationship that includes a sweet union of feelings in all matters sacred and human, and to which gentle feelings and devotion are added. ” defines.
Today, the interests, obligations, perspectives, and diversity of personalities of modern individuals can lead to some disagreements among friends. To overcome this,
Tolerance
Empathy
Understanding
Love
And when necessary, silence and silence are the best ways to respond. People who are locked into their mobile phones and computers talk too much whenever they get the opportunity, with the baseless and effortless information they get from here. However, speaking without listening is the ruthless enemy of friendship and human relations.
