Tough times don't last but Tough people do
No doubt, we've all come across this header phrase(tough times don't but tough people do) of this article before in life and to you, what does that above expression mean? This question is absolutely so rhetorical to the extent that i do not expect to receive an answer for my asked question. Moreso is the fact that we all have many warranting and unwarranting tendencies to either rejoice with or regret our lives with in some years past and even in our present day circumstances too cannever be an exception. Well to crown it all, we may have been faced with too many challenges that may have at that point sought to have taken away some chunk out of what we hold dear with the resultant disapointment as the only thing that's left to smile at us disgracefully. Irrespective of our circumstances or situations and their ugly hook over us in life, the real thing is, how much of a time have we tried to ensure that we put our "heads above water". Pls take note of that emphatic word, "to put our heads above water", simply mean to decifer a way of staying out of trouble and if possible, leaving above it. Yes, most persons in the world today have gratifyingly stayed out of this while you may yet ask again, what was it that helped them achieve such an adorable feat? Simply put it this way, their resolve and their determination over time did. Yes, did you take note of those phrases? If you had done, the do Well to have it at the back of your mind that our real purpose of leaving above our problems otherwise known as tough times boils down to how much of a determined mind you have placed on par with your ultimate resolve for survival. The world is a competitive place and too harsh of a place call a home yet we are not to determine why we've come to have such a hostile place as our home as I see no one would rather love to have such hostility as a place of abode but we do not question God, do we? Let it not be forgotten that you are the chief pilot of your game and as such, navigating yourself through to the right spot even though the world does not smile to you is simply your own making and a resolve you must take if such catapulting of oneself must be achived within the set time frame. Let's take for example, a graduate from a locally renowned higher institution of learning that has just left the varsity in order to seek for a well paying job in order to cover up for his loses given his rigours days and years in school, then ended up not seeing a job in order to make up for those time and efforts taken to educate his mindset, don't you think such a frustrating moments would not have had an adverse effect on him especially with a regard to how much he must have struggled to see himself out of the school. Yes, very well undeniably so. But even at the second, third, fourth, fifth and many series of time of trying to still secure a job yet what he ends up with is a disappointment of himself that he may well have considered life not worth living. Throwing up the towel just yet will for sure ignite his troubles far too much that the thought of a suicide mission might yet be his only source of escape, how foolish of an idea. We may have in one way or the other been involved in such a horrible thinking but still managed to pick up our pieces from where we had left it all from given the better days that still very much ahead of us and today, it has been a series of an untold mouthwatering positive results, while the will to remaining atop has for sure preocupied our minds to the extent that you'll hardly had remebered if there were actually those days that seem to be tough times but now, the tough people do. Header image@unsplash.com
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