@Sammy1 25 September 2021 more from that month

The measures and qaulities of good parenting

Raising children now our days is one of the most difficult things to do no wonder many a parent would rather seek a house help in ensuring that such duties which though is rigorous is duly shared either to enable the children's parent have some rests or make up for the other lost things. Many a times, we see some tiring moments about a parent(s) which usually comes from having to combine a lot of heavy task demanding events with that of taking care of their child (ren) and this according many researches, " it rather leaves many parents with no choice but complain and as such is the case, what you get is a break down in emotions which usually affects or damages their psychological engagement and otherwise". Regrettably, life has taken a twist that irrespective of their tries, it is still a major issue within the family circle and of which responsibilities most times are very much loopsided in that either of the spouse especially the woman is left to bear the full brunt of the hetic nature that is involved in Raising a child (ren) while the other party is away from home either for some buisinesses capable of taking him or her away for a few more days or something very close and related to it. That's very frustrating and annoying if you ask me though i see that irrespective of all these negations arising from the difficulty in raising up one's children, some parents have yet been able to get it right applying all the neccessary measures they deemed fit in order to right the wrong and pick up from some where. In this article, i'd like us to discuss some of those positive moments of raising up children and how some homes have been able to get it right in a brief terms. Some of the key words to look out for when raising your children. (i) patience (ii) plan (iii) listening and respect (iv) time (v) execution. Let's discuss these stated points one after the other so as to be able to understand the angles we are to strengthen incase we are no better to getting it right. A. Plan: by plan, we mean making the neccessary arrangements for a proper service delivery. It could come by the way of drafting a timetable in order to ensure that it works out well given one's tight schedule either at work as an employee or as a big time buisiness big fish who rarely have time for oneslf hence making a proper plan to apportioning duties would do a great deal here. B. Patience: having made the neccessary plans amidst tight schedules however, the neccessary patience is required if the plans are to be executed in so much accuracy after patience is a virtue which when cultivated and applied can events make the worst of a situation appear as very much subtle and easy hence its cultivation at all times. It must be recalled that children need much patience if they are to be taught to perfection and tamed in the right sphere we do expect of them to toe at all times, not by shouting at them for a forceful change as I guess that act won't change anything at all. C. Listening and respect: since these are two persons that brought about the family's existence or two persons that started the family way, action is required here if the family must be made to move in the right direction. "Respect they say is reciprocal", couples at this stage should rather imbibe the act of speaking to each other in such a kind and respectful way especially in front of their children for this is wholesome. Looking down on your marriage mate on this occassion or speaking abusively of them would rather increase and impaire the chances of thinking right in the family. It should be noted that before things are done within the family circle, it should be properly discussed between the parents before action is taken to solving the situation at hand. D. Time: time is very much an essence in everything we do in life and hence that is the case, then, parents are required to buy enough time in order to accord their children much room for making changes in the affected areas they deem fit while this time should be balanced in order to ensure we get it right. E execution: after all the above points are meted, then the last bheing the execution is to be followed as a sum up of all the explained points and ways of making the family line work. Take for example this picture below from last article, "children a blessing or a headache". What do you see, a child disrupting the well arrangeD house isn't? How I handled the situation did save the day for both me and the young lad

Let us Take full responsibilities in other to see it work especially the family way good morning! All images are from my phone