Forgiveness

How many times have we gotten sad and people messed with us and made us feel less important in this life? This happens a lot and people all over this world face similar issues and different problems but one of them is getting sad, and being hurt from someone can be bad and you somehow don't want to forgive the wrong doer, but forgiveness is one great way to move on and to let your mind rest in peace.

People are good and bad

A lot of people in this world are great and have great personalities and amazing stories to tell and you can have them as friends and sometimes they will be similar to a family member, and those are people you should be around, and you should hang out with them more often. Bad people on the other hand tend to hurt us and make us feel less important and sad and maybe mess with us or our reputition in a negative way which leads us into madness or sadness or even frustration but again, forgiveness can be the key to success in a lot of cases, and forgiving someone will put you and your mind to ease and you will rest and sleep better at night, because forgiving someone means that you are stronger than them and forgiving a person means that you understand way better than them and you are more mature than them so that's better for you to forgive and move on as it also puts you in a higher position. Forgiveness can be the solution to your problems because if you hold urges against people for a long time and for little problems then you should start forgiving which you should see improvements in your life very soon.

Do not take revenge if possible

Taking revenge on someone because he did something bad to you is not always a good idea and can put you and maybe your family or friends in trouble so avoiding trouble at all costs is the way to go and forgiving someone that acted bad towards you puts you in a stronger position because you are better at mental health and mentally stable and you are able to control yourself at times of anger. Speaking good and avoiding combating evil with evil is a lot more likely to work in your favor and know for a fact that every bad person when he hurts a different person that means he have a problem with him and if the other person did nothing wrong that puts the bad person in a negative way for the public and for the people view. Always try to be the positive one that knows what he's doing and uses his brain and intelligence rather than his muscles or anger , that puts you in a greater position, in people's eyes too.

Forgive your enemy and be friends with him

Try to forgive your enemy and solve the problem between you two and maybe start being friends because he might be a good person from the inside if you help him in his problems and therefore you can have a new friend that you can add to your list. If you show your enemy that you care about him he might turn in your favour and start being your friend and stop making trouble for you. Friends were once strangers and enemies can be good friends as well, and with smart good moves and good heart you can win people's heart and become friends with them. Everyone makes mistakes and we should forgive as much as we can and move on in our life because life is too short to hold grudges against others forever.

If you cant forgive them

Sometimes you simply can't forgive someone for whatever reason it is and you might be thinking if you want to forgive them or not it's depending on how bad the situation is but if the situation is very bad then you might not be able to call him or her and talk to them about it, then at least for the time being cut the communication with them and move on in your life until you are ok with it so try talking to them again and forgive them because whatever they did might be out of jealousy or sadness, maybe they have some good in them so you can try one more time before you give up on forgiving them. Stay positive and look for the bright side in people.

Conclusion, always forgive and forget because life is too short to stay upset forever, and to forgive means you are strong enough to overcome the situation and keep moving forward.

Thanks for reading this small post and I hope you have a good day.

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