What If? Life and Regrets

I do have lots of what's if. I can only agree to do your best now for the future because no one can't bring back time. Pasts were made to learn from and not to sit and stay stagnant in to, have some courage, self confidence and self esteem to try get out of our comfort zone so that when tomorrow comes you wont say what if again. Instead say, I did it💪

A lot of what if's . What if you can change all that? Would you? But then, you won't be the "you" of today. Will you be okay with that?

But memories can be changed. As a matter of fact, memories are always altered. You may be remembering things certain ways even though they are not like that. Our brains are not like storage devices such as CDs DVDs hard disks or USBs. Our brain's fragile and more complex. Unless you are diagnosed with a photographic super memory, your memories won't be as in tact as you might think.

dami ko din what if sa buhay. haha. yung iba parang yung sayo din. what if nag aral ako ng mabuti at di inisip ang pagiging mahiyain ganun. when I was studying grabe talaga hiya ko though di naman sobrang mahiyain pero pag di ko sigurado talagang di ko gagawin. haha. but that's life we can't try all options and possibilities kasi we only have one life and isang panahon. Di naman tayo makakabalik sa nakaraan kaya move on na lang tayo. hehe

Sa tingin ko lahat naman tayo may regret sa buhay dahil parang life lang yan. Hahaha. Though may mga bagay na pinagsisihan natin ngayon dahil hindi natin nagawa noon, mas better na mag focus nalang tayo sa meron ngayon at sa ating future, ngayon na natuto tayo, wag na natin hayaang maulit na mapuno tayo ng pagsisisi, grab na natin agad ang opportunity. Para hindi na magkaroon pa ng what ifs sa buhay, magkaroon man siguro ulit pero hindi na ganon sa nakaraan, at least you give your best na for those things. Kaya ate, wag mo na alalahanin yun, kasi hindi na natin maibabalik, I mean yun nga focus tayo sa anong meron tayo ngayon at para sa hinaharap. It's not too late pa naman. :)

I'm happy na nakilala kita dito sa online world ate, you are one of a kind and generous. Marami ka pang napapasaya. Iniisip ko kung wala kang what ifs, kung mas naging active ka sa school, baka nasa malaking company ka nagtatrabaho o kaya may business ka na. Pwede pa naman yan mangyari ngayon, sabi ko nga it's not too late. Ang akin lang baka hindi ka namin nakilalala dito :( so focus ka nalang sa mga positive na nangyari sa kabila ng what ifs mo ha. Labyuuuu atee. I hope someday magkaroon tayo ng chance magbond sa personal. 🤗

You are absolutely right. Life has many paths. The important thing is not to walk them with fear but to walk them knowing that if we make a mistake we can retrace our steps and start again.

Ang daming bagay na parang gusto nating balikan na sana pinakinggan nalang natin no? Pero no choice tayo mismo kasi tayo rin yung pumili nitong inahak natin.

Everything happens for a reason.. true.. we have to just pass through the thick and thin of life..

Hahabol ako sa prompt na 'to. 😅

I have a lot of what ifs too. As in, pero hindi ko nalang iniisip kasi alam kong masasaktan lang ako dahil andyan yung word na 'Regret' at ayokong isipin yan. 🥲

I am sure all of us has regret doing what we have done before or what we have not, that it made us what we are right now. But here is the thing, if you are starting to noticed these things that you regret not doing or have done, I congratulate you friend! Because you were early, and everything is still possible and you can enjoy and things as you please!

Here is a motivating story for you dearest ruffa, it was one of the fiction I have read, but who knows, its happening on others. The story was about this girl, who consider everyone around her before herself, forget about love, gimmicks, and she saved more money to travel only to find out one day she has a stage 4 cancer and only has 10 days to spend her days. So what she did was write all the things she can do. And did it. She wants to go back and look back. She thanks all the people she forget to thank and people she is thankful for. She cries. She eat a lot of food. She went on a date. Had a courage to admit her love for her neighbor. Had her wild fantasies. And after 10 days she was happy doing all those things, that she refused to do, while shes young. But still regret that she cannot do that anymore and regret that she should have done it early.

I want to remind you that all of these what ifs are just barricades for your happiness! Start changing your why to how as immardary says sino nga yuuuun yunh iam basta yung may article ng change why to how. 😆😆

Sin importar nada mi paso forjo mi futuro y mi carácter gracias a las experiencias vividas son un versión mejorada

We can go back in the past pro pwd pa mabago ang present.. What if mag aral ka ulit? Kaht vocational lng matapus.. . At yung pagsasalita mo.. Until now ba ganun parin,?

Dami niyo pala regret sa life haha...okey lang po iyan kung mali ang inyong napiling decision you can still change it and learn a lesson from you fufture😊

Okay lang naman po mag-enjoy sa high school, it is the best stage of everyone's life I guess so we should enjoy it. I think sa college mas magandang magseryoso, naka graduate ka pa din naman po yata as IT diba? Not sure though.

Sa dami ng what-ifs ko, yung iba talagang nagsisi ako pero yung iba hindi na kasi siguro kung hindi nangyari iyon, hindi ko matatagpuan ang sarili ko sa pagsusulat. Kung hindi dahil sa mga past decisions ko wala ako ngayon dito.. Inisip ko nalang na Everything happens for reasons

There is what-ifs and regrettable decisions but for me, we should accept them and focus on our present to have a better future. Yung mga pagkakamali na hindi na maitatama pero maiiyos pa rin. :)

Sa ngayon naman masasabi ko na super nakaka admire ka talaga sora-chan. I'm so happy na nakilala kita talaga dito😉😍💜💜💜 Isa ka sa tumatayong gabay sa katamaran at mga problema ko hihi. Isa kang happy pill for me. Isa kang friend, ate, nanay, shipperist of all time din hhaa. Lovelotsssssss.

Sorry na din kung hindi ako madalas mag comment pero binabasa ko pa rin naman hahhashahhashhaa hindi ko maipapangako na magsisipag na ako ng todo pero susubukas nag best😍💜💜💜

Ate I am telling you na sana imbes nagpaka subsob ako sa pag aaral, sana mas naglaan ako ng time sa enjoyment kasi at the end of the day, taong madiskarte ang lamang e hahaha. From elementary hanggang senior high naging overachiever ako na dapat chill lang. Ngayon ko palang naiiisipan mag enjoy kung kelan college na at kailangan magseryoso hahhaha

Questions after questions. The point is to avoid regrets do your best and leave the rest. Its better you have a good thing to remember of your decisions, to avoid regrets.

The thing that always get me through the moments where I get stuck on what-ifs is what an amazing teacher told us. She told us that there is not use for regrets or entertaining what ifs scenarios in our minds because at the tkme, we did our best. The other options did not exist that time so the path we took is the best one even if it does not seem like that in the present. So everytime, I do something, I know that I am doing my best at the moment and it does not necessarily mean the best I could be but rather, it is the best I could be right now. So cheers to us letting go of our regrets. Without the stepping stones we had taken, we might not have even ended up where we are today.

That's right. We can't change the past but we can always change the present to have a better future. I have a lot of regrets also, but I think if those things didn't happen, I wouldn't be where I am today.

I can relate to this one .. So many questions in our minds.. Hayaan nalang natin na yung question na magquestion sa mga questions.😁. Enjoy life lang po , Future millionaires .

Okay lang yan at least may BCH tayo ngayon 🤣

Okay lang po yan. At least naging masaya kayo 😁🥰

Di mabilang sa daliri "what if's" ko sa buhay baby gerl...hehehe pero di mo naman na mababago ang nangyari na...acceptance lang kailangan,,..

Ganun yata talaga d ata nawawala ang what ifs sa life

Madami din akong what ifs pero diko na iniisip pero gagawan ko yan ng article Bukas hahahaha. Basag Kasi utak ko ngayon.

Ayan kasi di ka nakinig 🤣 Kung sinipag sipag ka sanang maglinis edi di mahihirapan yang ilong mo ngayon.

Ako naman ang what if ko aside sa sana one and only daughter ako ay, what if? Tumama ako sa lotto ng di tumataya? ,😂 So nasaan ang ticket? Naubos na sa pag iimagin ko ng mga bihilhin hahaha

Dahil dito napa what if din ako about sa mga pocketbooks na binasa ko nung elementary.. hahaha.. grade 5 or 6. Ngrerent pa ko ng pocketbooks noon.. hahaha.. 😅😅😅

Tapos, high school, naaddict din sa mga movies. Nauso na nun F4 and mga taiwan idols. Ang tanda ko na.. hahaha... Tapos, nainlove na, tapos nsaktan, umiyak nabaliw sa pag ibig.. hahaha. Akala ko di nako iibig ulit pero buti nlng umibig padin.. wait, what ifs lang tong pinag uusapan bat napunta sa pag ibig . Hahahaha