In life, a lot of things can happen but there is this one moment in our life where we will stumble upon one person who's bound to meet you to leave either a lesson or a heartache that will change your life forever. It will be a big part of your life and it's up to you if you will face it bravely or just cower in fear. Yeah, maybe some of you here already encounter yours and maybe some is just still in the process of picking the pieces that once was scattered. Maybe some already moved on. But the process of moving on, it is really hard right?
You know, you are just sipping your coffee in a coffee shop, then suddenly a man pass by in front of you. You were mesmerized by his looks and build that it shocks your brain and that made you crazy. Just kidding, anyway someone will suddenly show up in front of you, who will shutter your world like your in some kind of post apocalyptic movie where you are hit with a big tornado. He will make you fall crazy inlove, will make a lot of promises, you will a build a dream together but in the end it will only leave a scars on your heart.
They will shower you with sweet nothings, created a lot of pick up lines just to make you fall for them harder but in the end, it will be all for nothing. There are guys like that, there are girls also. They saw love as a game that when they say "Let's end this!" They expect us to nod at what they want. Like we didn't pour all of our love to them and now that they want to end it, they will just give a very "Mababaw na rason!" Like duh, "Give back the time I spend loving you! If you didn't show up in front of me, we will never be in this kind of situation anyway."
I'm not mad guys, nadadala ako ng emosyon but I'm not affected. I never been in this kind of situation yet and I don't want to experience it, as in. So I'd rather keep my love to myself than to love and get hurt in the end. It's just that, it is what's "In" now. I read this kind of stories in books and ebook but this happened in real life too. How many people do you think have suffer in this kind of heartbreak. A lot I think, I don't want to do some research basta for sure madami yarn. Some can't even take the pain and the heartache that's why they ended up crazy.
For sure they also have this thought on their mind, "Why do I have to meet you only to get hurt later?" "Sana di nalang kita nakilala." This lines, when you heard them say it or even read it, you can really feel their pain. No one wants to be dumped. They love because they thought it will make them happy. Yeah, for a short time they become so happy that they thought it will never end, they thought it's a happy ending. It ends yes, but there's no happy in it. All that's left is sadness, tryna move on but it's hard because the memories together is still in there and cannot be replace even if they want to.
That's why I don't invest too much in love on my previous relationship, I'm actually hodling back and I don't want to give my all. Maybe this is the reason why it's easy for me to let go of my ex. I'm afraid to get hurt if ever I invest a lot of feelings for him, and then he will just dump you like a hot potato 🙄. Nahh, having crushes is more safe for me as I can move on agad, tho masakit din kasi you liked him but you got rejected. But it's for the best na rin, I don't have the right to like someone if I'm not ready to commit right? If I'm not ready to give my all.
Anyway, getting hurt is only natural in a relationship, di naman mawawala yon. Even if we fight for our love if our partner didn't make an effort to save it, it will just be for nothing. It's better if we will just move on and forget them. I know, It's easy said than done but you can only move on if you accept it. It's hard at first and the process is bloody as what I've read somewhere that moving on has some a long process before you can finally move on. And we're not even sure if it will be effective, what if it' is you who doesn't want to move on? Then you'll be forever hunted by his memories? You'll be forever in pain?
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Well, I never saw it coming
I should've started running
A long long time ago
And I never thought to doubt you, I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know
I'm slowly getting closure, I guess it's really over
I'm finally getting better
And now I'm picking up the pieces and spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together 'cause
The day I thought I'd never get through
I got over you
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For me, happiness is a choice, so choose to be happy. Try to let go, throw all of those memories that you're keeping in your heart and memory. Give your heart a rest, don't get hurt anymore. It's hard yes, but you'll get over it for sure IF you really want to move on. Forget, Let Go, Move On and Love Yourself 🤗.
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"Time heals every wound," as what they say. Sa buhay, we may struggle by storms but the choice is still ours to decide, either we choose to move on and be happy again or stay right there and still feeling its pain.