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All in due time my dear frenny.. all in due time! One step at at time :)

Good article

:"( This happens when parents treat their child as their puppet. I have saw it coming that they wanted you to achieve the dreams that they never accomplish for themselves and now you are suffering from what they want you to do for them. You are your Main Character in your story but other people wanted to create an ending for you. I know that you are not fine but I'm looking forward that you will be okay soon.

Ako po lumaki na medyo mahigpit ang parents kaya yung mga gusto ko minsan hindi ko talaga magawa. Hirap pag strict ang parents po dahil mabait ako iniintindi ko nalang talaga :) pero ngayon naman okay na sila konti haha

I am happy that I grow na hindi talaga controlled lahat ng parents ko, yong may say ako sa mga decisions ko. Pero I do honor them.

Ang intense madam. Ang hirap kapag kontrolado ng magulang no pero may nabasa ako dati dito before na Yung mga magulang nya nagdecide for her at napabuti Naman sya .

Sometimes leaving the shadow of our parents/hometown and going somewhere far from home is the best choice.

I can't relate. My life, my rules kasi ang peg ko. May mga opinons sila and suggestions pero kung gusto ko yung nasunod. Kaya napapaisip ako na kung sinunod ko ba sila ay magbabago kaya ang kapalaran ko? Kaya frustrated sila sa nagiging takbo ng buhay ko.

We have a voice to speak out our concerns and opinions too. Proper communication will lead to better understanding to both parties.

Suddenly miss LP. I haven't been listening to them in a while.

I’m glad you finally got to courage to speak up even though it wasn’t easy. I wish you the best in life🥰.

Is this your story sis? If so, I am sorry... it's a difficult situation indeed.

I have a cousin who experienced the same. She did everything her parents wanted and then when she graduated with the course they wanted her to take, she broke free saying "now that I have fulfilled everything you wanted, please let me do what I want for once" and then she left for overseas. Sometimes, we need to communicate what we want and not suffer in silence.

I'm more lucky ate ruffa na hindi na ganyann parents ko. before ramdam ko din yung kadena sa leeg at para, that all your movements was based on their words. But now we can move freely but still we know our limitations po. And we become more responsible kaya hinayaan na Nila kami

Grabe 😢 relate nanaman ako. Huhue hays ang hirap talaga kapag control na control ka ng parents eh. Ang akin lang naranasan kong masumbatan parents ko but i'm not proud of it guilty pa nga. 😭

This issue happens a lot in my country especially when it comes to education. You will see parents pushing their kids to follow a particular career even when they know that child won't be able to cope with it. They end up ruining the child's future just because they want them to study a popular course

Firstly congratulations in advance...I can't wait for you to get there, indeed you are an icon here.

I actually related to your story so well, sometimes we really feel like opening up but we still lay low.. I could feel the idea behind it.

hala ba't ako naiyak? poooteeekkkkk ini imagine ko lang sana ang mukha nang singer nang linkin park pero bat mo ko pinaiyak aguy ka...pakurot

me reading your article title: inner me: "I've become so numb I can feel you there!!" HAHAHA

pero kidding aside, I feel so sad na may ganyan talagang mga anak na halos lahat ng kilos nila ay kinokontrol ng parents nila na feeling nila wala na silang freedom sa sarili. :'<

When you learn to be an independent person you do as many things as you can because you take responsibility for your life.

Parents must guide their children but not to the point that they'll control them.. they should allow them to raise their opinions and let them have their own choices.

Parents should always guide kids in a right way but allow kids to do right things in their own way... too much rules and stress result nothing but frustration at both the ends

On a separate note, you stand at 992.. I'm actually excited to see you hit 1000 now :))

Emotional stress can be very killing and it has what it takes to dampen one's spirit so much

ouch ang sakit mare parang para sakin to mare😥 Yung tipong walang freedom to decide kasi takot sila magkamali ako kaya ang way nila is to control me.

TIC Tac. 992. Almost! In one more week you will be reaching number 1000. Have a party for your wonderful achievement! Yupi! 🎉

Sakit madam...yung wala kang freedom coz you like being chained by your parents..like a yardstick of the family that you need maintain a reputation.. And follow what they all want for you.. It's such a pressure.. And suffocating.

That first thing came on my mind when I saw the title is 'Linkin Park'. I miss the voice of Chester. 😔

I hope this isn't the title of a song😂 . Bit sincerely sometimes i think of saying these words out to my parents but when i think of what is out there, i prefer staying with them😂

There are really parents who force their children to do as their told. They think that would always b ethe best for their kids but no. You can only do that to children to young adult, let the adult decide for themselves

Being obedient to our parents is good as long as they are not holding by our neck, that seems to absurd passing the responsibilities to their child to achieved what they don't in the past. Children has their own life to mold, parents should be the guide not the director.

Once in a while we need to be selfish and think of our own welfare and happiness as well.. We are just humans.. We also get tired..

Human will always be human, wanting you to always do their thing,go their way,do their want and never cares about what you're going to be what they want.they are always selfish. I love the way you think and yes you should GET UP and be selfish for once because you worth more than what you think of and what others think of you.you should always be you.