What should really matter most in a relationship

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Friendship, families courtships, we all get entangled with one relationship or the other. Relationships are the way we interact, behave and talk towards each other in different ways.

Kinship relationship are the connection with our families. A romantic relationship is the connection you have with someone you love with the intention of marriage or not.

In our state of relationship with each other what's really the most important. So many relationships are been disengaged nowadays, friends breaking each other's trust and promises, lovers betraying each other, families fighting over one thing or the other.

What should be the most important, you know it's okay to fight sometimes, misunderstanding occurs sometimes and it's inevitable, but what happens when this preoccurs so many times. You see friends and lovers fighting over the same thing over and over again, or fighting over things that are irrelevant.

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Love

Love prevails over all mistakes and failure. To love, it means you care for such person, you are dedicated towards each other. It means you value your relationship towards each other. But is love really the most important. Does love erase all doubts and mistakes?

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Understanding

Another point is understanding, that's an ability to know people's behavior. You have the knowledge and ability to understand people's behavior. For you to understand your friend or your partner's behavior, that means you have learnt from each other, experienced things in common, and you must have had your opinion about each other.

Understanding comes with sympathy and tolerance. You are endowed with the full knowledge of who this person really is. And you know absolutely everything about him/her. You have the mental ability to assimilate, comprehend and be tolerant with your partner's behavior and their way of doing things.

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Trust

Do you trust your partner completely? So many relationships are broken because of lack of trust. Someone has come to tell you what your partner has done and you have failed to confide in him or her, then there's no trust. When there's trust, then your relationship can withstand any form of gossips.

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Respect

Is an attitude or feeling of high regard towards another. You have the right to respect each other in any form of relationship you are in. When there's respect, then the person is important to you, that means you actually value the person. It's a state of being esteem. That means you appreciate your partner for who they really are.

Conclusion

Relationships comes with a lot of definitions and theory, what really defined your relationship is what you really think its important and prevails. The same way relationship has its ups and downs the same way it has its harmony.

Thank you reading.

What is your own view about what's really important in our relationship and dealings with our dear ones? I would like to see your view and opinion in the comment box.

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Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That’s why it’s a comfort to go hand in hand.

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2 years ago

Two are better than one.

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2 years ago

I believe communication is vital. Those who can communicate effectively without hassle would always find ways to love each other, trust each other and then respect each other.

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2 years ago

Nice point. You are right also. Thank you.

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🤗🤗

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2 years ago

For me, the most important thing in having a relationship to our family ,friends and to our special someone are trust, communication, respect and understanding😊🤗

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2 years ago

Thank you. You are right?

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2 years ago

Money is the most important. It does all the work but love takes all the credit.

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2 years ago

Hmmmmmmm.......

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2 years ago

If you want my opinion i will give main focus in relationship this is trust and respect.

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That's your opinion which is very much correct.

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