Being a child from a middle class family , I can feel how someone , of same kind of family , goes through.
"Don't do this , This field has no scope , what are you doing, wasting your time? , Don't do it just just back off , Mann leave this thing it has no use , do you want to bring shame on our name? What have you done till now?"
These are Some of question / comments made upon a middle class child who strives through his whole young aged life to live accordingly. But Nah! Might is right. They choose , what is correct and what not. Society judges you , not from front but from every possible angle. You are taunted about your past , made fun in present and will be judged in future forever , until you leave them. The Society. Everyone’s bound by their laws but we all have our wishes and cravings too. A person who struggles to get up 7 in morning , gets to school / college , learns something and wishes not to carry on that but continue his OR prefers his talent over any other field is useless! Right?
Every day , a boy is burdened about his responsibilities , is reminded of his weaknesses rather than his strengths. No body is there to look after his mental and emotional health. But they all remind him to work hard cause he’s the one who’s gonna earn and pay for everything in near future. But no ones there to comfort him and motivate him, show him his strengths . What you call this? A family or a PRESSURE COOKER?
Every day a girl is pressurised upon her studies , over how she scores. And what we hear all the way up?
Woah! Now these sheets of future will decide how will she live a life! With study pressure and managing her home , she kills every single dream of her to get to see her parents smile. That’s totally fine but do parents care about your dreams?
Seriously , in a middle class family , parents and elder brother/sister are in a need of guidance on how to look after your child’s mental and emotional health.
BECAUSE KILLING OUR DREAMS IS NO LESS THAN KILLING OURSELVES.
So please try to understand your children. And if you are a victim of this. Try to make your parents understand this. Talk to them. There’s no tomorrow. Do it now. Many of us have suicided because of this issue and many are facing suicidal thoughts. Suicide isn’t the option , you aren’t no too weak to give up. You have to fight this issue and thrive.
