Learning is earning
We had two hundred boys in our hostel. Some of us were doing FSCs with mathematics, some with biology, some were studying economics and some were doing simple FA. We all lived together but there was a lot of difference in our activities.
Some of us used to do sports, they used to run, they used to run, play volleyball, cricket or hockey, or badminton players, some of us used to sing, some of us used to sing, some acted, painting, and poetry, and some did nothing. Some of us were extremely hardworking. They used to read day and night like a kohl bull, some were aware, read a little and read a little. They did not do any work, they browsed, did sports, or participated in any literary activity.
These buses lived like animals, slept, got up, ate food, gossiped, watched movies, smoked cigarettes, and took money from parents in the name of books, clothes, messes, and sometimes fees. I look back today, and I feel that the hostel is a whole case study. It was a nursery that looked at a variety of seedlings that pancreas flourished in the long run. You must have heard this phrase a thousand times. "Whatever you sow, we will cut it." I look back and see that phrase feels incomplete. Just as we sow a seed and cut a thousand grains or sticks, so we have to reap the fruits of a wrong or right decision a thousand times in life.
If you want to sow a seed and cut a seed, it will not be a bad deal at all. Life is like a field, so it has to be sown a thousand times and sometimes a thousand times. That hostel was one such nursery. It contained a variety of seedlings, and then they started waving the seedlings as crops and the field was cut thousands of times.
The journey of life continued. Those of us who were studying mathematics became engineers. Biology students become Doctors. Pharmacists and Professors. Students of arts subjects also adjusted to their respective fields. Some of them became lawyers, some became judges and some became civil servants by taking the competition test. More work was done in the field. Those who were employed went out of the country, went into business, or went into politics, and those who were zero-interest slipped behind in the race for life. They also became criminals, their houses were broken. They also went bankrupt again and again. They fell ill early in their youth and they continued to fall and tremble in life.
I was one of them, but Allah has done me karma. I fell and reached ma. And Allaah gave me the nirvana of hard work one day. He grabbed my hand and said, "There is only one way to serve kaka on the earth. Techniques are also important. You don't progress until you work with the technique. Now the next question was how to get to the technique? It turns out it's not possible without learning. 'Unless you develop the ability to learn within yourself, you don't reach the technique.' Now the question was, "How is learning?" It is a by-product of training, it is the third and final level of learning. The first floor is talking. People tell you, the second floor is teaching. People only tell you what you need and then you reach the third floor.
You start following what you learned and it's called training, so you don't learn until you train and you don't have the technique until you learn, and you can't work much until you have the technique. The donkey becomes a good donkey through hard work, but if that horse wants to be, then he has to learn the techniques of horses. At that time, his DNA will change. The same difference between street dogs and pet dogs is' We keep a pet dog at home with us Why? Because it learns the technique by sticking with us, while the street dog dies in the streets due to lack of training.
When I understood this point, I went after the training. 'I used to take a course in what I didn't know, I would take a course in it, put his tuition down with an expert every day, and so he would learn. 'You may be surprised to know that I had regular tuition to read Dewan Ghalib.' I used to go to Hafiz Sahib every day and I read and thought of a ghazal every day from them, just as I read the alchemist with tuition.
Similarly, when I decided to come to the field of self-help or life coaching, I used to buy courses from big trainers in the United States and England. It was a period of cassettes. 'Jim Ron ho, Chris Gardner, Jack Kenfield or Brian Tracy' all of them used to get speeches and courses in cassettes. I used to buy these cassettes and listen all day in the car. These cassettes also used to run, life gave me a chance, and when the resources of the pre-weekly courses became available to me, I took full advantage of this facility. Today the world has changed.
Now there is no need to go out of the house and country for any course. You can learn online about nuclear technology, so I take advantage of this opportunity by filling in. My old friends, class fellows, and hostel mates are amazed at my passion for learning. 'Unable to understand how the incompetent and poorest person in school, college, and university, moved on in practical life? Whenever they meet, they ask, "Dude, what did you do, how did you change?" You didn't know the difference between material (Material) and maternal (Maternal). We used to read pocket banks to the Habib bank and oil his head at the university as well. 'How did you change yourself?'.
I laugh and reply, "It's all the grace of Allah." He grabbed my hand and told me that every secret in the world is in the human mind. 'Man is an engineer from the brain, a doctor from the mind, a soldier from the brain, a bureaucrat from the mind, a banker from the mind, a businessman from the mind and a beggar from the mind. 'Man's mind is hardware.' Whatever software you upload to it, it makes you like this. "Man, you're talking about sideways again," I submit to him. "Suppose you're an engineer and you want to be a doctor, what will you do?"You'll read the doctor's As if you'll take out the engineering software and upload the doctor's software there and you're treating or surgery patients instead of building bridges in a few years' What would you do if you think I should do business after that? You will "replace" the doctoral software with business software and thus you will become a businessman in a few years now if you want to become a sportsman, you will upload a sports application to your mind and sports wellness and fitness will also be easier for you.
Although man's biggest asset is his mind, it's his mind. If it's working, and if you're worthless, replace your inefficient software with intelligence software. If you're lazy, take out the cheapness and fit the hard work software, and if you're sick, name Allah and upload health software in your mind. Give, your whole personality will change. The mind of a man is a strange world. If we put Islam in it, it becomes Muslim. If they put Christianity, they put In Judaism, then these Jews put Buddhism, then this Buddhist, and if we make it Sunni, it becomes Sunni, and if we make it Shia, it becomes Shia. These are all software and this software creates and distorts our personality".
My friends don't agree with me, but I tell you a recipe alchemist, 'Learning is Earning' You will cut what you learn, they will earn. It's learning that makes the person in the front seat a driver and the person in the back seat, so cape learning' will not stop your path and it's the biggest lesson in my life.
Sad reality: We are responsible for children future
My son asked me a strange question a few days ago. He asked, "You never wondered why your children respect you." I laughed and replied…!
All children in the world respect their parents. I am a father, and as a father, I have the facility of honor (Privilege)." He laughed and said, "No way, no mother or mother of every child in the world." Father is not necessarily respected by all children, but we do.
I laughed again and replied, "How can I decide that your people's love is genuine and it will not diminish over time?"He also laughed and then said, "We put this issue on the side and I tell you why do we respect you?" I looked at him silently. 'You haven't seen our mark sheet even once throughout our educational career.' You didn't bother us to take low numbers and never clapped at high numbers.
We changed the subject of our own accord. Schools and colleges changed and failed, but you never did badly, while the parents of all our class fellows accounted for half the numbers and put them in front of us.
Whenever our class fellows saw you, they used to tell us, "Man, you don't give us your father for a few days." Can you? We are tired of eating shoes' We realized at this time that you have blind faith in us. You consider us to be above numbers and position.''I laughed and said, "You guys are misunderstood, I didn't care about your career or education." Every father in the world is sensitive to his children. I was also worried about children's DNA, but I didn't Learn to send you to school to take positions or numbers like other parents. The job of schools, colleges, and universities is to instill learning skills in children.
Suppose there are 30 students within a class, 'some of them will inevitably be artists'. Nature must have made the painting, music, acting, interior decoration, or dress designing. What will be the interest in 'Math' or 'Pak Study'? There will be some natural businessmen. They will have to lay the foundation for big companies and brands in the long run. 'Dil Chaspi Hogi' Some people will have to go on to become Nelson Mandela and Abdul Sattar Edhi.
What heart they will take in physics, chemistry and literature and nature must have made some the sportsmen. What heart will be there in these poor lectures? They will score fewer marks in each exam but will we consider them to be failures? Yes, no, although the job of schools is not to grade children based on numbers, one child is big and the other is small, one is not worthy and the other is not worthy.
They get used to learning and their natural talent is nurtured, but unfortunately in our country, both these things are not being done in educational institutions. We are doctors, engineers, or IT professionals in the entire class. We try to create and in this thing much, the learning ability of the students is also killed and confidence is also given. Ninety-nine percent of our students leave colleges and universities with the feeling of ''IM Field''.
These poor people have no confidence and those who survive the remaining 1% are victims of ''overconfidence'' they go to the market with this feeling ''I am a topper' I have no competition' I don't even have to learn anymore'' so the toppers get their ''overconfidence'' and the remaining ninety-nine percent are tagged as "I am unfit".
I was told by every teacher from class I to MA that you were worthless. Even in my working life, my colleagues used to call me "ignorant", even though I knew my children would not get anything from this system.
This system will rub them without understanding them, and if I join it, it will be abuse to them, so I at least made you safe on my behalf. 'You know that even if we fail ten times, our father will not show us.' He will laugh and say, 'You change college' all jackets and teachers, and If you still don't feel like studying, leave college and start doing what you want.''My son laughed and replied, "That's why we're yours.
Respect, you trusted us when no school, no college, no teacher was ready to accept us as human beings. You were our only support at that time. All our teachers used to say bad things to us. All our class fellows laughed at us, but you folded our mark sheets and put them in your pockets, grabbed our hands, walked out of the school gate, and We used to open an ice cream and say, 'No matter what,' we will try again.''You may feel strange about me, but you believe that children are a great gift from Allah.
Allah has made you a great child. 'Thank the Lord and do not make the children victims of the rate race of numbers and positions. 'Allaah sets the destination of man before he is born. We know that there are no teachers in the world, no colleges, and any slabs, so you just focus on grooming and learning your children. If you groom them morally or develop learning skills in them, your work is over.
If you can learn, you easily solve every problem you have, and if you don't have this ability, you lose courage. Learning is the ability that explains to the parrot. If you want to eat the food you want, you have to learn these two words. I have to rub my head lovingly on the hand of my mistress or owner, if I want to take milk, or your pet dog learns that if I walk around or pick up the sir's thrown hair, sir will also stroke my neck lovingly. And will give me a piece of meat.
What does the world need from you? How do you affect the world and how do you maintain yourself in adverse situations? It is learning to understand, but unfortunately, our educational institutions are not able to instill this potential in our children. They send them home with a medal of inadequacy and this is the biggest problem in our system. We are the killers of our children.
Nelson Mandela and our leaders
Nelson Mandela is one of the people of the world who has become history and this history will live forever. Who were they, where they were born, how childhood and youth passed away, how they were in jail for 27 years and how they led the people of South Africa by coming out of jail, and how they liberated the country from the 350-year-old rule of the British?
How did he become the first black president of South Africa and then how did he, while in the presidency, include the oppressed and withered nation among the great nations of the world? All these facts are now available to the whole world, so there is no point in telling and repeating them.' Everything has now been documented, but despite these documents, some aspects of Nelson Mandela's life still have not come to the world and I will put three of these dozens of aspects before you today.
The first aspect was that Mandela was sworn in as the President of South Africa on May 10, 1994. He got up the next morning wearing 'jaguars', opened the gate of the Presidency, and started jogging on the streets. After a short distance, he felt someone running after him. When he stopped and looked back, his security staff was also running after him wearing jaguars. Mandela was surprised. Asked, 'Are you guys jogging too,' he gasped and said, 'Yes, no, sir, we are running after you to protect you.' Mandela laughed and replied, "This is my country and my people. What danger can I face from them? You go back, 'I'll wake up and come back,' but the staff refused to go back.
There was a brief debate and then it was decided that only two security personnel would jog with him and they would also be athletes so that they could be exercised along with duty. The arrangement lasted for five years. Nelson Mandela's presidential term ended in 1999 and he not only refused to take extensions but also retired from politics. The government provided him with lifelong protocol and security as Father of Nation and former President, but Mandela refused, saying,' What danger could I have from my people'' the other side of his caste was that he continued to live as an ordinary citizen after retirement.
He shifted from Cape Town to Johannesburg and spent most of his time between his village of Keonu (Qunu) and Johannesburg. He roamed alone in the city, was similar to people, and ran away. 'Most of his time was spent reading and writing.' Whenever the government asked him about security protocols or necessities of life, he had the same answer. "Thank you, If I need anything, I'll tell you," he said, while also campaigning against HIV.
The book 'Loneliness' continued till 2005 until Nelson Mandela announced one day "I'm retiring from retirement") He announced "Don't call me I'll call you (you don't call me") and then he appeared at every international forum. Nelson Mandela also lectured at universities. He also met and addressed UN sessions. Nelson Mandela's tenure continued until December 25, 2013, and was the third surprising aspect of his life. He is one of the few people in the world who retired from retirement.
He was also a man, and this same world walked and breathed on the same land, and the people, as well as the whole world, respected him. Why? There were three reasons: 'First, his forty years of continuous democratic struggle, and the second reason he did not stick to power.' He could have been president for life. He would give himself an extension. 'Who could stop him, but he once became president', completed his term, and separated himself from the chair forever for which he was in jail for 27 years. If he had not shown this high visibility and preferred the chair over honor, the time would not have been far when the slogans of Go Mandela Go would have been raised in South Africa and the police and army would have been forced to charge tear gas and sticks to protect them from the people, and the third reason was that Nelson Mandela refused to be a burden on the nation after retirement.
And he didn't follow protocol. He started living a normal and simple retired life. He wore normal cheap pants and a shirt and lived in the house normally. His cheap c-shirt later became known all over the world as the Mandela shirt. 'Suppose' He would have respected himself even after retirement if he considered himself president and took to the streets with full protocol! Would people have liked them? No way.
We now come to Pakistan from South Africa' Justice Gulzar Hussain retired in February 2022 after being chief justice of the Supreme Court of Pakistan for two years and a month. Four days before Justice Gulzar Hussain's retirement, the Registrar's Office wrote to the Ministry of Home Affairs requesting that Justice Gulzar Hussain be given the security of the Chief Justice even after retirement. The retired Chief Justice also requested the Rangers' security squad while traveling for himself and his family. And the government accepted the request and thus justice Gulzar Hussain will now be given the same security and protocol as the Chief Justice.
I am surprised That Justice Gulzar Hussain needs security in his own country after retirement! They are free from government job captivity. Now they go to markets, parks, streets, and markets, meet friends, enjoy tea, coffee, and food in coffee shops and restaurants, and stand in queues and enjoy a normal and free life. People will certainly go ahead and kiss their hands.
They will bow down and salute them and salute their just golden age. It seems strange why they don't want to enjoy these salutes and salutes. Why do they still want to live a prisoner's life? I don't understand this. I can't even understand why every powerful person in the country is imprisoned at home after retirement.
Why doesn't it pay fees to the public, why doesn't it appear in the public, why does it need security whenever it comes out, and why does it feel insecure in its own country even after retirement?' 'I'm unable to understand this. 'It's not like there's nothing but a chair in their lives and they've sat in a chair. Have you given people nothing but pain and suffering? Make a decision yourself.
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Son of cobbler became king
Abraham Lincoln's father was an artisan, a farmer, a weaver, and a cobbler, who used to go to the homes of The Cardinal County nobles when he was young and sit in his family's shoes. In 1861, Abraham Lincoln became the President of the United States. In 1861, Abraham Lincoln became the President of the United States.
Abraham Lincoln belonged to the Lower Middle Class, although he was fighting for working-class rights. 'Abraham Lincoln became president and he abolished slavery in the United States.' He freed the slaves of the rebel states and joined the army. 'The American elite was directly affected by Lincoln's reforms, even though they turned against Abraham Lincoln. He also damaged Lincoln's fame and missed any chance of portraying him.
These people usually mocked Abraham Lincoln in the Senate session, but Lincoln never felt hurt by the joke. He always said that a person like me becoming president of the United States is the answer to thousands of millions of objections from all of them, so why do I need to answer? How strong of a nerve and courage Abraham Lincoln was, you should guess it from this incident. He entered the Senate for his first presidential address. He was heading for a seat reserved for the President. Suddenly, a senator got up from his seat and addressed Abraham Lincoln and said, "Don't forget this after becoming Lincoln President, your father sat in my family's shoes." The Senate laughed.
It was a satire that shook the roots of the world' We are all afraid of our past. We always hide it from the eyes of ourselves and others. You must have seen thousands of people in life who become fathers after development. Those who progress become rich or reach a higher position in social life On the go, the first associate their family's pandas with Hazrat Abdul Qadir Jilani, Ahmed Shah Abdali, Nadir Shah Durrani, and Taimur Ling and also take pride in this change in their lineage.
I have seen very few people in the world who have been very fond of 'mochi' lohar' tarkhan' and remained oily even after development or who allowed their father to remain a laborer or poor man even after development. 'After development in the world, especially in Pakistan, people's fathers usually change.' A Businessman from Karachi writes Siraj Teli with his name' I have never met him from his business I am not even aware, but whenever I see him called Siraj Teli on television or read Teli with his name in the newspapers, I bow my head uncontrollably and salute his greatness.
These are great men who have not made him malik Durrani mir Makki or Madani who let his father remain oily even after development. Greek businessmen and politicians are also great people in this sense. This minister, despite being an advisor, ambassador, and MP, writes Teli' Jolaha' Mochi and Tarkhan with his names and is regularly proud of it. 'I had the opportunity to meet a Greek minister seven or eight years ago. It was a caste cobbler and he wrote a regular cobbler in Greek with his name. It was the greatness of his character that our society is empty of, yet Abraham returns to Lincoln.
The noble senator stood in the Senate Hall and said to Abraham Lincoln, "Don't forget that your father sat in my family's shoes after becoming Lincoln President." The whole hall laughed at the phrase, 'Lincoln smiled and went straight to the dice and addressed the noble senator and said, "Sir, I know my father sat in your house, your family shoes and yours. In addition, the shoes of other nobles in this hall continued to sit, but you once thought there were thousands of cobblers in the United States, but your elders always made shoes from my father. Why? Because no cobbler could make a good shoe from my father all over America. 'My father was a great artist. His shoes were not just shoes. He used to put his soul in these shoes. 'No one in my father's entire career complained about the shoes he made. 'If you still have my father's shoe tight, I'll be present too.' I know how to make it, But I'm sure none of you will complain about my father's work because there was no one better than my father all over America.
He was a great artist, a genius, and a great workman, and I am proud to be the son of this great cobbler.' Abraham Lincoln finished the speech and sat in the chair of the presidency. 'The whole hall smelled a snake.' The senator who used the phrase on Lincoln bowed his head in shame and no American politician called Lincoln the son of a cobbler.
We are usually afraid of our past. We were poor in the past, we were worthless, and we didn't know things. We started wearing socks at the age of twenty, and we put on our pants for the first time at the age of thirty, etc. We usually keep these things hidden from others, but we forget that we will cover up the faults of the past as much as we want. Our past is like a shadow. The more we run away from it, the more powerful it runs ahead of us. It is much taller than our height. 'We forget that the only way to get rid of the past is to stand in front of the light of facts. You stand up to reality like Lincoln' The shadow of your past will go to your back and it will not be visible to you and the people standing in front of you.
If you are an ordinary person and there is no Gilani Zardari, Leghari, Durrani, and Tatar among your past and your ancestors, you need not be ashamed or upset because no one in the world has ever been able to make any positive change.
From the invention of the wheel to the iPhone, ninety-nine percent of the world's inventions and from jeans to canons shows, from bullock carts to escapes, and from joshanda to cancer medicine, all the world's greatest inventions are the perfection of those who had no good family burden on their backs. They were blessed with guidance, knowledge, and vision, and they continued to make life easier for people like them. They continued to open their ways. No matter how big the king becomes in the world, no matter how rich he accumulates wealth, and no matter how big the army commands, these people take command of shoes, shirts, pants, fragrances, laptops, and mobiles. The car and bedroom are needed by people who are the sons of some blacksmith, tarkhan, jolaha, tailor, or cobbler.
No king in the world has ever been able to make his garments, and no nobleman has been able to produce a comfortable shoe for himself. This honor has been conferred on the common people in any case and no powerful person in the world can take away this honor from these people. You may also be on the list of these great people, but for that, you have to stop running away from your past. You have to admit that your past was like Lincoln's father or you were a middle-class student like Steve Jobs and Bill Gates Or you started life by selling bottles of Coca-Cola like Warren Buffett.
Unless you accept your past like Lincoln, you won't be able to enjoy progress completely because when we try to cover our past loose legs with velvet, our legs are also left naked in this sai. 'Our time is also wasted.' We also lose the joys of life and our past is full of height. 'Stands before us with' We become shrines of our self.
Experience
This experience took place in an Old People's Home in the United States and changed the psychological form of the whole world. 'Most of us are not aware of this experience and its consequences, although peace in our lives is not work and happiness.' If we understand this tragedy of aimlessness today, the shape of our lives will change.
In an Old People's Home in the United States, elderly people with dreaded diseases lived, these few months of guests were old. All the guests who came to this Old People's Home knew they would no longer be able to see the beauty of the world. The Old Home staff was also aware of the destination of these guests. It also cares for these patients in their hearts and lives, but then a university professor said. He had a psychological experience with the guests, 'he arrived at home with a few pots of plants. He formed two groups of older patients and divided them into two groups.
The professor told a group that it is their responsibility to water them, keep them in the sun, compost them, feed them, tect them from cold and heat, and protect them from insects, flies, and birds. Pick up, don't pick it up if you don't want to. The professor handed over the plants and started reviewing the activities of both groups. The old men of Group One started taking care of the plants. In some of these chapters and mothers started watering the gums. Some used to dig them, some used to compost them, some protected them from the seasons and some protected them from flies, mosquitoes, and birds.
The professor also saw the physical condition of the sick elderly change. 'He saw that before they found the plants, they spent the whole day in bed.' They were irritable and ill-tempered, and they were also angry at the slightest of things, but after getting the plants, their mood changed. Their mood became pleasant. They spoke politely to each other and with the medical staff. 'They started feeling hungry more than before.' They got out of bed and walked, and their dependence on medicines decreased.
Their pain also decreased and they became physically fit, while there was a difference in the lifestyle of the other group compared to them. They were likewise bedded all day and quarreled with medical staff and fellow patients. This continued for a year. The professor was surprised to see when he made the sheets of both groups later in the year.
The professor noticed that 30% of group 2 patients died sooner than group One patients and the elderly. It was a shocking study at the end of which the professor concluded that the old men of Group One had found purposes in living in e while group two patients had no purpose in life but their medical and psychological conditions did not change. The professor said that when life carries the burden of another life, its strength, endurance, and courage increase, and the first life becomes happy and strong. If you put your life into this study, you will find answers to all your shortcomings, 'defects' deficiencies, and depression. In our lives, when a goal comes around, our immunity increases.
Our body is empowered and our mood becomes happy, and if we become aimless, we begin to feel that we have done what we had to do, then we begin to consider ourselves as burdens of the earth, and This thought leads us to bed death. Lack of purpose or goal creates space in our bodies, our hearts, and our minds. This gap gradually hollows us out from within, and this hollowness later becomes home to various diseases and various disorders.
You must have often seen government employees, military generals, and high-ranking police officials growing old rapidly after retirement. They are happy and smart till the last day of service. They laugh and wake up every day, but if you see them a year after retirement, it becomes difficult for you to recognize them. Their backs are bent. It's done. They have undergone two heart operations, they take five tablets in the morning, afternoon and evening, and they are scaring the youth by referring to the verses.
Reciting the Qur'an praying, 'performing more, having a beard, and wearing a shalwar kameez is a very glorious activity, but it is not necessary to wait for retirement for this glorious activity. You should start all this at the age of fifteen or sixteen, but ninety percent of our bureaucrats, army officers, and senior officials of civil departments, realize it after retirement. Why? The reason for this is escapism.
These people are active till retirement, but after retirement, they feel useless and aimless, although they start visiting hospitals and mosques to avoid death. 'They are under the control of doctors and clerics.' In this part of their age, if they find stubborn scholars, their hereafter swells, and if it is at that age, When the semi-mature world is controlled, they do not find peace even in scholarships and acts of worship.
They get even more narrow in life but you won't find this kind of depression in people like Bill Gates etc. 'These people are also old, but as they get older, they become healthier and more active than ever before. Why? Because as they get older, their purpose becomes young and this goal gives so much energy to those who soften old age on them.
The biggest problem in our society is aimlessness. If we are young, our lives have no purpose. We grow up, we grow up, and we get old, but there is no goal in our lives. We spend our childhood and youth in education. This education gives us a degree and we get a job based on this degree. But this job, this degree, and this education also do not make our lives purposeful. This body does not instill passion in our mind and our soul, even though we continue to get bored in life because of this aimlessness. We get upset and irritable.
You must have seen a certain kind of apathy on the faces of most people in this country. 'This version is ll empty from within and this gap has made us a patient of depression. We are also confused with each other. 'We have also gone to the support of bullets and doctors. 'Pakistan uses the most medicines in the world. Each other person is suffering from some bullet or the other and somebody is drinking syrup and most of us are getting older before age and the only reason is a lack of purpose.
We have not set any purpose in our personal and national life to date. 'I am sure if we set a purpose in our lives today, even if we have to grow flowers and clean our environment or make crying children laugh, the shape of our lives will change tomorrow and we will avoid doctors. Even from the pin. Our lives will no longer be tormented.
True story: I wish
Today Ami John is missing a lot I don't know how she will be--- she was sick in the past few days a lot -- I don't know how it will be now -- it's been a long time since she hasn't even called me---
she has a lot of problems she hardly hides from her other husband and calls me Uncle doesn't like Ami's call to me - I wish I had my mother like Sana How good it would have been—
Baba thinks I have forgotten Amy now and am happy in my life now but he doesn't know that I still miss Amy every time -- everything in my room misses her, my bed, mine, pillow, my blanket, everything, I wish Baba didn't divorce you mother--- something before you divorced Think of me—
If Baba had married Amy by the choice of grandmother, don't even bathe this marriage---- If Baba remarried Nazia Aunty after grandma's death, then he would not have left Her mother ---- second marriage is not a crime, but does any such wife throw the children out of her life? Someone does as Baba did to me----
Baba was my father before marrying Nazia Aunty now he is only baba of Sahil and Manahal, not me --- he no longer loves me as before--- talks only when needed ---- not even baba---- is Baba had to change after the second marriage, I would have left my mother—
Separated from my mother and changed herself--- as long as Amy was comfort in life, there was love---Ami kissed my head before I woke up in the morning -- I loved it -- now You open my eyes with Nazia Aunty's scolding -- how sweet things my mother used to say after picking me up -- I used to laugh at my dreams coming at night—
I used to laugh at my mother. How happy it was— but the joy was very short--- at the age of seven, Baba separated me from my mother— Amy left this house forever---- the walls of the house were crying along with me that day -- Amy wanted to take me with her, but Nanabo and mama didn't let it happen --- they were harshly erased from Baba then her daughter Why keep her home----
Soon after the divorce Nana Abu got Amy married again and she left the country with her husband--- Now I have only phone contact with Amy and that too is not equal--- Ami has her own family--- Baba is happy with her family -- my parents are complete with their own families and I am absolute without my mother I'm incomplete -- All the damage caused by baba and Ami's separation is only mine--- my heart drops dying after being separated from Amy. I'm dead from within, but what does Baba feel? If he had realized my incompleteness, he would not have done it all--- If only Baba had not done so—
Today my sadness has gone up to an extent– how many times Have I cried unknowingly since morning – today is New Air, Baba Nazia has gone for a walk along with aunty, Manahal and Sahel--- he also wanted to take me with him but Nazia Aunty said to Baba, "If Ayesha goes with us, Then I will not go—
Baba can't offend Nazia Aunty. He said, "I'll take you around tomorrow, but I don't even know tomorrow, I won't even say to Baba now--- he's not my father. If he were, he wouldn't have treated me like a step-daughter -- he sees Nazia Aunty's abuses with me, but he doesn't say anything—
Nazia Aunty has made me a maid. She makes me do all the work. Baba doesn't care--- Baba doesn't care -- and from the top, Amy says, "Ayesha, you're too scared, girls who don't have mothers and their daughters are as timid as you, so don't ask how scared they are to be brave, so don't be brave--- Mother asks me to be brave, but how brave I am-- I'm a Broken family. I am the daughter of the one whom everyone has looted all over her life, not life, no life—
if someone calls out loud, the heartbeats--- if someone speaks loudly, the heart is satisfied--- even if someone abuses her--- she has to drink tears because she says shoulder on which to cry--- shed all tears---- If only Baba ever thought that it was because of him. I wish Baba --- what had happened to me----
Baba has fixed my marriage with his friend's son but I am not happy with Baba's decision--- I am very scared. I am afraid that you should not be like a mother with me and no Ayesha will be born again--- heard that daughters are born with the fate of mothers.
What will I do if I am also treated like a mother? Where will I go? I was still a mother, I still have no house of my own---- When she told Her Mother about this, she said badly, "Don't speak nonsense, think well, Inshallah will be all good--- but how do I think well I don't know how to think well." I wish Baba had ever realized how much you have done wrong to your daughter--- I wish Baba ------
My life was more or less the same as it was after marriage. If my daughter had not been a haiku, she would probably have died--- but now there is an excuse to live--- everyone is very fast in the in-laws and where do I cope with all these low-minded girls--- there is only a mother-in-law who cares for me like my daughters------ my husband Hamza is a strange man.
Even stranger, I still don't know what shortcomings and shortcomings have made him feel like --- he objects to everything I say. The first objection was why I am all the time. They like girls who speak snobbishly, and I like these girls----- and when For Hamza I like these girls. When she started living, her mouth became famous---- when she made these complaints to Amy, she said, "Good daughters try to settle down --- but how do they ÷?
Don't tell me---- Everyone here makes fun of me and just cry except cry and nothing comes to me There's only one thing in life I do very well and that's crying -- I don't know anything else to cry who learns I don't have a life--- I didn't have a father but not equal to---- I now have a thousand ha in myself Flaws are visible sometimes You think Hamza is in his place Okay I am not able to --- be --- a highly educated and very successful businessman and I cry dabo CF-A-Fail girl - My and she said joint-----
Ami and mother-in-law say, "Be prepared with nick suk at the time--- such a woman wins a man's heart and motivates her to do so." And it goes Shayla--- but my experience said that if a man is insensitive, he is not able to persuade again---- Hamza has changed a little after the birth of Hayka, and thank Allah, Hamza loves Haiqa a lot, but Baba also loved me a lot until there was a Nazia aunty in his life, so where did baba go?
Today---, if I have no respect in hamza's eyes, how can all these daughters deserve respect because of baba whose fathers make them orphans when they live --- daughters can never live with in-laws whose father never calls them on any festival--- if there is no canopy on their heads, then the sunburns---- I am very tired of all these situations --- no one supports---- neither courage---- no kind affection--- no one ----
if only Baba you knew where your daughter had lost because of her separation from an app's mother where how many sensations have been collected -- I wish Baba you could have known something--- I wish you could----
Common but strange incident
The incident I am going to hear about today is a common phenomenon but it is considered that there is a lesson in this common event from which everyone can learn that lesson without any fault. This incident took place in 2001. We were living in Defence View, Karachi, on an afternoon of extreme summer when I was living in a flat in defense view separate from us.
I went to his flat for some work but my brother and sister-in-law were not present in the flat. Since I went to my brother in the scorching heat and I was somewhat angry to find my brother and sister-in-law home that I came to my brother here in such a hot sun and there was no one here and here the lock was teasing my mouth let's tell you that the flat under the brother was empty and I was in an unknown rage.
when I saw the lock on my brother's flat. Getting down and descending, I went unnaturally towards the empty flat with all the gates open. And looking inside the empty flat, I came out of my tongue unknowingly (and how to be habeas and came home in anger.
At night I fell asleep and at night I dreamt of going to my brother's flat in a dream, and as soon as I passed by the empty flat, some people came out of the empty flat and started following me, and in fear,r I started running upstairs to my brother's flat, and in fear, r All Akbar came out of my tongue and those who followed me replied.
That he is, and when I went upstairs, there was no one in the brother's flat, and all the doors of the flat were open, and in fear, my eyes opened. I was full of sweat, and I was in a state of fear. In the meantime, I prayed to Allah that my master is the house of my brother there and I will have to go there again. I was walking past the same empty flat in a dream. That some people were going down from the same empty flat.
I asked what happened and then I replied that we are going now and they got down and my eyes opened and now my fear was gone by the grace of Allah. I request all friends to avoid saying anything unknowing in any vacancy.
Fate
Today was my first day at university. I was very nervous. Why was I so intimidated by my cousins when they found out That I took admission to the university."See what happens to you there, where new admission takers are very harassed. They are made to be in front of all. The first one lowered his eyes and said, And what would you see, you ran away in two days, so I didn't take admission, where I'll do my MA privately now? I have a bad mind that goes there and is a taste of others. The other tried his best to overact, but I didn't come to his words. I knew it was rotten. If I didn't have burning pebbles, I understood all his tricks.
Well, it would have been all good there. You people told me, "I repent, who I go to university now. They both were happy to see my real acting. I smiled in my heart and started preparing to go to university yesterday, and I thought I was going to be surprised to see his surprised chirping and smile which was going to surprise me to go to university yesterday."Acquisition! Would you tell me what's being called a history part one class? "The girl looked at me from head to toe, "Yes, why not go straight from here and get right, then left your class will be seen in front of you," then the girl turned to her friends and started to cry. "Today's goat was found," he said in a voice so slowly that He could not hear. It was the Punjab University of Lahore and it was so bad that I had to ask someone. There were so many blocks, let's know which blocks had to have his class.
Well, when she reached the place she told her, she remembered what she said when she saw the writing "Toilet for Women" in front of her. What is the use of standing and listening to this girl? She was to cry, so someone called out to her." You look upset," said a soft voice, echoing in his ears, and he raised his head and saw a boy standing in front of him. Which looked decent. He liked him at first sight with a soft kind smile on his lips.
The heart is to seek help from this man, and the mind said, Do not trust anyone "Miss, I'm shocked with you," she said, smiling and then asking, "I'm not worried, and I don't want anyone's help. You don't want any help." So much so that two tears slipped on her cheeks. "Hey, what's the matter, son," she looked at her son in surprise. "What happened, Arhan!" She was just about to say something, so a girl came and asked her."This girl worried us. We were asking them what the problem was, but they didn't tell us, you help us and ask them."۔ "I ask," said Mahamaal affectionately.
Then Haniya asked him about his class. Arhan and Mahamaal had also seen him all the classes and told him to tell us whenever there was anything to ask or any problem. She was very happy to meet both of them and thought there might have been some good that both of them got. But when he remembered the girl, let him keep one under his ear. Well, e had gone to get her class now."Arhan seems to have taken a contract to help everyone," Mahamaal said to Arhan. "It's not like that now we saw that if you didn't have tears in the girl's eyes, she probably wouldn't have told her anxiety and would have been just as upset." Arhan said thoughtfully, "That was what made it easier for everyone to have a place in everyone's heart." More than half of the girls here were mad behind him, but no one could replace Him.
Arhan had a small heart that could not see anyone in trouble. All of them there respected him very much because of this habit. The teachers there also loved Arhan. All the teachers and students called Arhanaai. Because of everyone's say, Haniya also started saying Arhan Bhai.
She soon became a close friend of Mahamaal and Arhan. Arhan too had become as dear as her younger sister."This is him, he is, brother, this," Said Hania as soon as she saw Sweti, even if she didn't remember her, but she could never forget it. "Who is that Kako" Arhan used to affectionately call Haniya Kaku. Brother, this is the one who told me the wrong way that day. You come with me. She took Arhan's hand to him. The back of the suite was sitting towards them. "Oh, arhan, how are you?" She came before them with her hand raised, and when she saw it, Shetty said with mixed expressions of surprise and joy, "Why did Arhan rarely come to his group, since he found out that Sweti liked him." It was not just The Suite, but more than half of the girls in the university died on them. One was the handsome one, and the other was very good."Thank Allah, Sweety, how are you?" Arhan replied, "I am as beautiful as before." Sweety said, "She was like that, she considered herself to be the most beautiful girl in the world.
“ Who is this girl Arhan," Sweti asked as soon as she saw Hania, "This kako, iman, this is Haniya and why did you harass our sister? When it was their first day, you saw the way to the toilet instead of telling them the class. So the friendship between all of them deepened, they used to meet and study together every day. And one day, In The Hanaya and Arhan canteens, sat with a bottle of samosas and Pepsi, and they were talking about a lot of things, and they were enjoying the samosa party.
Kako Bhai asks you one thing. Arhan thought of something and said to him, "Brother, ask what? Whatever happens, is that Diya care," Said Hanaya, smiling in loving life, "What does Kako find the best girl here? "Not A Swati," Asked Arhan, wondering what he did not know." No" his samosa eats his hand, and he is still there for a few moments, but he does not recover again." Why?" wally looked at him questioningly."She keeps doing arhan arhan all the time, brother, he should stop doing arhan arhan there is nothing wrong with it brother" They laughed loudly when they heard him."You're laughing. And when she does it, I am irritated.
Brother, if you don't get married, get engaged so that all the girls know that Arhan can't be theirs anymore. "She left Samosa and sat down in series ho, now in chair. Kako now mama also says get married, but brother is not getting married yet. Yes, if Kako finds a girl for their brother, he will do it. "Wali said mischievously ."True brother? If that's the case, are you perfect? "He gladly named his most favorite, Your son. Apart from Kaku University, where there is a kachori, the brothers will get married. Arhan said, "He went up and went away, requisitioning. Brother Mahamaal is good. "When He saw them going he turned away and said unto Him with displeasure.
They're very good, Kako! Brothers know, just say that she can never be a brother. Let us go now, hoping Kaku will not talk to his brother about it anymore. Wali lovingly explained to him as he went away and left that he loved Mahamaal very much. He tried to say this to Mahamaal many times, but He always had to say something that would have left it in the middle. Arhan felt that he would have done so to John Boj, so he would have suppressed the heart of his heart. But Hehadya understood the condition of the hearts of both of them and she wanted her love to be sidelined, otherwise, it would wander in the heart like the waves of the sea and destroy the peace of the heart, and keep the stirring
Then the annual paper started and everyone was settled in their exams. I don't know how two years have passed. Everyone's exams were very good. Even after university, Hania had contact with Arhan and Mahalia on mobile.
On February 23, 2017, When she fell asleep, she was the first to find her mobile in a stupor. After some time, the mobile got into his hands, his lips were slowly blocked, and he turned on the monial and checked the inbox as usual. "The first message was that of the mahal aapi. He quickly opened the massage. "Bear, I have to make a very important point to you, freely call or message me," Mahamaal used to fondly call Haniya. He saw the rest of the massage and placed it on the mobile said table and went to the bath to freshen up. Fresh, she went for breakfast. When he returned, he thought of mahamaal and quickly picked up the mobile so that the Female could talk to him and there were two more messages on the screen.
When he opened them, it was a message from Arhan Bhai, she smiled and started reading. The smile disappeared from the lips of the one who read the massage."How are kako? Brother, Kako is not right! Brother, stay a lot yesterday. " This was a massage which she read and then she began to see another one."Tell Kako the one thing you want the most. How would it feel if he was able to Agenor you every time? How would it feel if he did not give importance to anything you say She read this massage and immediately began to answer. During this time she had forgotten the massage of Mahal."What has happened, brother? And why have you cried? And who are they who have given you a light?
“ Kako We don't know why she does it but we know so much that she can never be ours anymore. We are going out of work and we come and talk. Take great care of yourself, Allah Hafiz. “All right, Brother Allah Hafiz.
She was upset to talk to Arhan, thinking about it when she thought of Mahamaal, and immediately massaged her. After a while, his mobile was based. She was sitting in front of the dressing making hair, then she picked up her mobile and saw that she had a message about the campaign and opened it quickly."Well, yes, I had to say, "Yesterday I asked Arhan if he would like to live with me for his whole life." It was a day of surprise for him.
He thought there was something special between them but he would love."So the brothers were talking about you?" She asked herself, "She put it on the brush sided typed the message. Your brothers were very upset today. Do you ignore them? And when you asked them, what did they say? She typed the massage and made hair and sat upon the bed." Why didn't you say it before," said Bhalu Arhan, "a slap to the heart, with your force. And they began to live. Bear, tell me, I said as a girl, Why did he not say: And I used to make him grow, and I have never done it long ago.
When he saw the mobile being bumped, he had a massage."You talk to me now, brother, don't worry about you." She massaged Mahmal and started calling Arhan now, but the call was not attended. She then massaged him. By then the massage of the mahamaal had come.No, bear no more, And Ethan's relationship is ripe with his uncles. I'm late, bear! Nothing can happen now, they love their mother very much. They will never break their hearts in this relationship. " She immediately started typing the answer after reading the message."You know I've made them miss them. Talk as soon as They're free, I've called and not attended. I know the relationship, they will never deny it, but I will talk to their mother.
Don't worry, " Hania smiled and began to answer. A few moments later his mobile was based. I'm coming to see the boys, then it'll be a matter of care. When Arhan's message came, tell me, "Hania got up and left the room, and she was afraid of the room. On the other hand, during Arhan Drive, there was constant talk of campaigning. "Will Arhan live with me for the whole life," the words echoed in his ears, and he could not hear anything.
It was the darkness of the night that was filling up. Tears were bathing his face. He whom he loved silently met him when he had fallen with someone else. His existence had become a sieve. The heart was being torn apart by pain And suddenly there was a bright light before his eyes and the sound of a sharp horn, he put both hands on his eyes and then there was a loud explosion took a few moments for his senses to be strengthened. The first feeling he felt was pain. He was suffering from severe pain throughout his body. He felt somethinginggerhaps he moved his arm to see, but what arm was under something weighty. His whole existence was not shaken, but his eyes were moving.
Before his eyes came his mother's face, and he cried, and he saw the smiling face of The Mahamaal and he smiled at him. After a while, he heard the mixed voices of the people. "It's alive. It is alive: " There was no one screaming, and then darkness fell before his eyes. A few days passed and Arhan had no idea. He would repeatedly ask Hania for a call, but both of them did not know arhan's call, and then they asked Sweti, but Sweti was also unaware of her absence. The mahamaal will massage it every day but there is no answer. Arhan was not like that he must be a difficult man who does not answer. At the same time, The Relationship of Mahamaal was also cooked up, but Arhan had no idea.
On March 14, when Mahamil returned from his engagement shopping, he came home and saw his mobile phone, and was surprised to see Arhan's smile on it. He quickly began to read the massage."What is the missional? On 23rd February, I had a road accident. I got a straight arm and backbone and neck injury, the operation on the arm was successful. But the backbone and the neck today are to pray the operation is fine. “He immediately called the number off. He also told Hania that both of them had prayed for his life. Both Mahmal and Arhan can never be one now because the word of the dungeon is ripe. How compelled man is by fate that he cannot fight him.
Smiling is life
A small process can lead to a great change in life. Once upon a time, the owner of a mill who was very angry and proud was famous. He was an under-god. Whenever you talk, either to scold or to provide the necessary information. All the workers would be afraid to talk to him. A new laborer came to the mill. When he heard things about the master, he was no longer there. He said to his colleagues, "We should not distance ourselves from the owner." His nature may not include humor. It was the birthday of the son of this laborer.
This laborer was also called the owner on his son's birthday. He did not come the next day. The laborer came to the owner and said very happy morally sir, you did not come on my child's birthday yesterday. I brought you something. Can I give you that? The master looked at the laborer seriously and said, I don't need anything. If you want something, speak up.
The laborer smiled at the owner and said, "If you do what I want, it will be my son's birthday gift." The owner was surprised. He asked the laborer.
What do you want me to give and what do you want me to do? The laborer took out two white ribbons and saw the owner. The owner asked what these were. The laborer said: They were ever given to me by someone when I was away from others. The giver said. This one's for you. For you are a man who is very important in my life. This second white ribbon is for the person who is very important in your life. I have also brought you this ribbon and the other is for him who you love or value the most in your life. You give this ribbon to him today. The owner laughed when he heard the laborer's words, but he remained serious.
He allowed the laborer to tie the ribbon to his hand. What he wanted. When the second ribbon was given to the master, he began to wonder which man he valued most. He was on his way back home until work time was over when he got the idea of his son on the way. He was given little time by his wife for being busy after passing away. Whenever he spoke to her, she would be either a reminder or a scolding.
As soon as he entered the house, he took off the ribbon that was on his wrist and walked toward his son's room. Who was lying on the bed? The father knocked on the door and tried to come in. The boy opened the door. He was very surprised. Why did his father bother to come into the room himself instead of calling him? He was thinking. That his son grabbed his wrist, looked at him, and repeated what the laborer had said. I said that.
That being too busy, I never gave you time properly. I am sorry. He took out the second ribbon from his pocket and gave it to his son, and said, Tie this ribbon to his wrist. Whom you love most, and which is of the greatest importance in your life. The boy burst into tears.
He grabbed his father's wrist and said, "I'll tie it to you." I thought you didn't love me and I had been thinking of committing suicide for a few days. Your little talk gave me a reason to live. I love you, papa. The owner of the mill also had tears in his eyes. He put his son on his chest.
The next day, when he went to the mill, he called the laborer who had given him a ribbon. As the worker entered the room, the owner had a smile on his face. The laborer smiled when he saw a smile on the owner's face. The master asked the laborer what he had to give me the ribbon.
The laborer smiled and looked at the master and said. I read in a book. I understood when I saw the hardness of your face. For years you have not expressed love for anyone nor has anyone expressed love for you. Expressing love is very important. Sometimes a small process changes the lives of others.
Real story: Patience and prayer
"O believers! Seek help with prayer and patience" (Quran)
The cold of January has been heard everywhere. Everyone would sit in their rooms in front of the heater, either enjoying peanuts or having coffee or tea. Today, the light-drop bandi confined everyone to the house, but a soul was shedding tears sitting on the roof regardless of the cold. Her tears flowed with rainwater. How long would she sit on the roof looking for her, if her mother had not come to find her?
"Why are you sitting here, Saira Son? You're crying, are you crying? She looked up at her mother. His eyes were turning red, which was too much to describe his present heart. Amma picked him up and took him to the room. Wearing a blanket, his head was placed on his lap and his hair began to caress, the room was hot because of the heater.
Why doesn't he value me, Mummy?, why has he tightened his heart for me, Mummy? What's my fault, Mom? She kept her head in her mother's lap for a long time and took comfort in it. She came to see My mother today. He had never strangled him today. "Mom, she's worried, I know she's having business problems. She's very upset, but is it because I'm Mummy? What's the matter? My daughter said, "Amma groomed her hair and said, ",,,, Mummy, she has trouble in business. Someone gets very angry with me, Mummy, tell me just shut up, your silence gives me peace. Saying this, she started crying.
Why did she say there would be such a reason? Mother said thoughtfully, that her health was bad. I just said go to the doctor, she told you from now on if I would have felt like you wouldn't have said, "You'd end my problem. "Mother, I realized that the doctor said, "Whatever I talk to, he talks to me angrily. Have you been bored with me when I say please talk comfortably?
Then he said, "You think nonsense, you speak nonsense, keep quiet." Mother, she never thought that when my tone was biting, she thought wrong on her own, who forces me to think, Mummy? she started crying. I couldn't even talk to him, mother let him cry wholeheartedly, Mother, when I strangle her tone of anger, she would say, "You won't get used to speaking nonsense." Your language made me away from you.
What is its language to strangle my lover?, after crying for a while she said again, isn't my heart Mummy? I ever thought of her attitude when I was her Wet, she listened to me affectionately and held me by the hand, and sat next to her. Listen to all my complaints, she never does that. He hugged her. It knew a mother's heart about what was going on with her.
No, Mother, don't stop today, let me cry, if not, otherwise, my heart will burst. I listened to everything she didn't like and took her, she was not happy with me. Why isn't she as happy as me?, why doesn't she get angry with her mother, when her heart throws me out of the room, Mother Just waits for my daughter to patiently ask for help from my son Allah, my daughter, waiting for a patient blessing, amma, why can't she see my existence?
Why doesn't he see me?, he tries my patience Amy, just Saira and how much will she cry just and everything will be fine. Ask Allah for help my daughter dua changes Fortune
"O believers, seek help through patience and prayer, Allah supports the patient, Allah has said in the Qur'an, "Be patient, son, why have you forgotten the good days you spent with him, amma kindly explained to him as if a little girl was explained when a doll is lost.
Mother remembers that day, I'm with him yet, but now he's no longer the same, he's done another thing, look son when we make a mistake ourselves, don't we stop loving ourselves, son na? She raised her head at her mother's words and saw that she was right. She just kept thinking negatively.
Amma got up after a while and left, after a while, Amma appeared with a glass of milk for her. Amma took her water and died after celebrating her lakhs. For a while she fell asleep crying, why did she add sleeping medicine to the milk, Amma, other than she would cry all night, she sewed it and Amma herself went to attend to the Lord to pray for her.
Failure and success
This is the story of a man named Kerali of 1938 who was in the English Army and was the best pistol shooter in his country as much as the National Championships he had won kerali in this country and this time also everyone was sure that the Olympics that were going to be held in 1940 would be won by Kerali. He had spent two years training and his only dream was to make this hand the best hand in the world. I have to show the world how precious my hand is and that I can beat the world.
In 1938 an Army training camp was going on. When he was in the army there was an incident with him in the same hand with which he had to win a gold medal. He got a hand grenade in it and the hand that was his dream was all over. He had only two ways, one was to cry all his life and to be quiet, and the other was to focus on the round goal, not on what went away (severed hand) he focused on what he had (the other hand) a hand with which he could not even write.
He started his training a month later and returned in 1939 after a year of training. There were many more shooters in Hungary where he went there and congratulated him. He said, "I'm not here to boost morale, I've come to beat you. No one knew he'd been training for a year. Well, all the shooters were playing with both hands and they won with one hand..who won??? He was a one-handed Kerali! But he didn't stop here. He had decided that I had to make this hand the powerful hand of the world.
He picked up all his focus and put it on the Olympic games in 1940 but those games were canceled due to the World War he again put all his focus on the 1940 Olympics but unfortunately too World War He picked up all his focus on the 1948 Olympic Games in 1938 and was 28 years old in 1948 and new people who came It was becoming difficult to fight and win with them, but the difficult word was not in his dictionary. He went and started competing with the best shooters from the world who were playing with both hands and who won? Kerali.
But he still didn't stop competing again at the 1952 Olympics. Who won the gold medal this time? He is a Kerali. No one in history had won two gold medals before Kerala in this event and so it changed the history of the game and opened the eyes of the people at the same time. Now go to a loser (failed person) he will have a list because I failed in life because of this, so I couldn't do it, and so on, go to the other side A successful person will have a thousand reasons not to do what he wants to do only one reason to do and he does.
The fact is that we want success, but at home and I have never heard of it in my whole life or seen that a servant has achieved success at home and without hard work. Get up, wake up from the sleep of neglect, fight this world, and take your share of this world. Surely a million troubles will be jailed from this world, and millions of difficulties will come, but you have to ignore them and get out. You only have to keep an eye on the place where you want to reach what is your destination.
People will laugh and make fun of all kinds of accusations but remember not to come to their words just to go to your destination, and yes remember you are doing what those who make fun of you just remember not to come into their words and to go to the elders like Kerala. Often when a man stands on the stage in front of us and sings, we think that when this man can stand on the stage, it means perfect.
Remember that no man is perfect. Everyone needs a push. See, the one who loses, the one who breaks, and whoever has tears in his eyes prostrates himself and the same necklace brings you closer to Allah. When you fail, you know how valuable success is. I want to tell my siblings who are afraid of failure and are ashamed of failure. Failure is not a bad thing.
Failure makes you human. I keep it, failure makes you learn, repeated failure sings design your future Some things we imprint on our minds that can't happen to us. One day a group of young men was sitting with Ashfaq Ahmed and he asked the jawans which animal was brought to the zoo as a child. When an elephant is brought to the zoo, its feet are tied to a rope that is more strong than its power. He tries to run away, but he cannot run away, because he is bound, then gradually he grows up and the size of the rope is also enlarged, then one day when he is young.
But the rope is not opened from his feet but the other end is left open, and the elephant does not run away. To remember fear is the rope that binds us in the past, the take life, etc., and if we do not save our lives from it, believe me, it destroys our lives.
So my brothers and sisters make the purpose of your life from today and work day and night to achieve it Some people put forward new objectives for themselves every day and say that they have to achieve them. The man is left empty-handed, and the one who is after the same thing succeeds, work hard as much as you fail.
Significant Story: Prayers are always fruitful
His name was Dr. Ahmed and he was a well-known physician in Saudi Arabia. People would wait for several days to get advice from him. His fame grew. An International Medical Conference was held in the capital to which it was also invited. Given his services, it was decided that he would not only read the key thesis at the conference but also give him an honorary shield and certificate on the occasion. Dr. Ahmed left his home for the airport.
He was very happy and calm. This evening he was about to be honored and honored. He became even more comfortable thinking of it. He boarded the plane immediately after routine checking at the airport. His flight flew over time. After a half-quarter of an hour, the air hostess announced, "We apologize that we are landing at a nearby airport because of a technical fault with the aircraft." We have no choice but to do so.
The flight landed at a nearby airport without any interruptions or accidents. Passengers got off the plane and went to the lounge. Dr. Ahmed also waited with other passengers for the technical fault of the aircraft to be corrected. After a while, the Airport Authority announced: Ladies and gentlemen! The engineer has stated that there is no immediate possibility of a technical glitch being corrected. So, alternative aircraft are being arranged for passengers. When will this plane come? No one knew.
After a while, a new announcement was made that the replacement aircraft could arrive only tomorrow. We apologize for this suffering. You will now be delivered to the hotel. For Dr. Ahmed, the announcement was very painful and disturbing. Tonight was a very important night of his life. How many weeks had he been waiting for the night when he was to be reunited. He got up from the chair and approached the top airport officer, introduced himself, and said, "I am an international level doctor." I have precious. I have to read the thesis in the capital tonight.
Delegates from all over the world are coming to attend the seminar and you are telling us that the alternative aircraft will arrive after 24 hours. The officer concerned replied: "Sir, we respect and value you. We are aware of the difficulties of you and other passengers. But it's not just about us and it's not up to me to provide a new plane immediately. However, the city where you have to attend the conference is only three to four hours by car. If you are too early, get a hire car from the airport and drive yourself to the city concerned. ‘‘Dr. Ahmed did not like to drive. But now it was a compulsion that he had no alternative. He liked the advice of the concerned officer and hired a car from the airport and left for the city concerned. Just a few distances had been covered when suddenly the weather started getting worse.
Dark clouds grew in the sky. The strong wind was on him. It started raining heavily and it was dark everywhere. He had no idea in which direction he was going from the weather. For two hours he walked continuously, eventually convinced that he had strayed from the path.
Now he began to feel hungry and tired. He thought: It's only three or four hours, so he didn't take anything to eat and drink with him. Now he was looking for a place where he could find something to eat and drink. Time was passing fast. It was dark all around. Passing by a small village, he unconsciously stopped his car in front of a small house. His hand was knocking on the door of the house, when the voice of an old woman from inside fell into his ears, saying: Whatever it is, the door is open inside. Dr. Ahmed entered the house and saw an old woman sitting in a dynamic chair. He said to the woman: Amma! My mobile battery is gone, can I charge my mobile?
The old woman smiled and said: What phone are my sons talking about? You don't know where you are at this time? Hama ray yes there is neither electricity nor telephone, this is a small village where there is no concept of urban amenities then he added! My son has tea and food on the table in front. You seem to be hungry and thirsty. The path has strayed. You take food first and then talk. You seem to have come a long way.
Dr. Ahmed thanked the old lady and broke down on food. He was feeling very hungry from the fatigue of the journey. Suddenly the woman moved to the cot next to the chair and an innocent man started crying. Khatoon sat down and sat down the child and began to pray to him. She was praying long enough for the child's health and safety.
Dr. Ahmed ate and said to the old mother: Amma, Jaan! You have won my heart with your morals 'Karma and Table Founder'. You are asking for long prayers. I hope Allaah accepts your prayers. "My son! She was old. My Allah has heard and accepted all my prayers. There is only one prayer left that is not filled by my faith You are a traveler, pray that he too will be accepted.
Dr. Ahmed said: Amma Jan is what prayer is not accepted. You tell me your work. I'm like your son. If Allah will, I will do it. I will help you. The woman said: My dear son! That prayer and desire are not for me, but for the orphan who is my grandson. His parents died some time ago. He has bone insurance that prevents walking. I have given him great treatment from the nearest hakims and guests, but all the children have been humbled by his treatment.
People have suggested that there is only one doctor in this country who is the mother of the treatment of these bones, its fame is far and wide. He is a large surgeon. He can treat him, but he stays from here very hard and then hears it is very expensive. It's not an easy task to get to. You see my condition, I'm an old man. Calls can come at any time. I'm afraid there will be no one to care for this child after me. I pray to Allah all the time to give him some reason to treat this child with this doctor. This orphan child may be cured by the same doctor.
Dr. Ahmed could not control his emotions, he cried and said: Amma Jan! My plane got damaged, had to get off the way, hired a car, there was a good storm. It rained and rained, and I forgot the way. Allaah sent me to your house. We have also accepted your last prayer. Allah has provided the lord of honor with the reasons that the great bone doctor himself has come to your house. I will now treat your grandson. ‘‘When Allaah hears of one of his servants, he also provides himself with the reasons for fulfilling it.
All creation of the universe, whether living or lifeless, is bound by the command of Allah and his will. In this incident, you can see how Allah put the different forces of the earth and the heavens into action and put into the fulfillment of the prayer of the old mother.
Allaah says
(أَمَّنْ يُجِيبُ الْمُضْطَرَّ إِذَا دَعَاهُ وَيَكْشِفُ السُّوءَ وَيَجْعَلُكُمْ خُلَفَاءَ الْأَرْضِ ۗ أَإِلَٰهٌ مَعَ اللَّهِ ۚ قَلِيلًا مَا تَذَكَّرُونَ)
Who accepts the request of the bead? When he prays to him and removes (who) hurts him, and (who) makes you successors on the earth (all this is done by God), is there any other God with Allah (never at all but) you rarely consider.
Real story: Offspring
Today, outside the maternity ward in the hospital, he walked around like a burnt-foot cat. His mother and sisters used to call him to sit down again and again. But the cycle of his feet was not coming to a halt. Today his wife did not come to the maternity ward for the first time. Rather, he was the father of four beautiful, healthy, and Tappan daughters. But he was going crazy to get children. Despite doctors explaining that his wife's life could be at risk from becoming a mother. He put his wife to the test further.
He has always looked down on every woman except his mother and sisters. He used to blame his wife like a fraud on the minor complaints of his mother and sisters. Suddenly the door of the maternity ward opened and a nurse put a form in front of him and said:
Normal delivery is not possible so the operation will have to be done. He signed quickly. At that time of trouble, I remembered Allah. When he raised his hand to pray, the face of the great prophet came to mind. She remembered all her abuses and was never liked for being outside the community and being written. He thinks that a woman is devoid of the ability to settle down.
But because of his desire for help, they had to bring him to his fore. When the news of the happening with the hope of the wife came to his ears, he started saying again and again that he was eager to play with his wife.
Once, The Behbhi laughed and asked, "What if it is a matter of fact?"He got up with his mouth as if he had chewed Cronin's bullet. He remembered that his repetition had left him mentally stressed for nine months.
One day I got a call from a friend of the world. I'm congratulating his daughter on her birth. When he turned up, he put a team on his mustache and said: "You are also strange, wishing daughters birth and distributing sweets."He remembered his eyes in surprise. And Allah showed him that Allah made the same wife the mother of four sons. Where every time there was mercy in his house, every time there was a blessing in his wife's house. His heart was moved by regret and regret. Suddenly he wondered if Sakina would be able to raise five children alone if something happened today.
The heart answered in a powerless negation. The face of his loving spouse was exposed to his eyes. My children insist that I want a son at all costs. Although he was well aware that the child's sex was determined by a man's chromosome, his spontaneous manhood stopped him from admitting that. He remembered his partner Akbar, who had four sons, but all of them were drunkards and gamblers. Akbar was being handled by his daughter and son-in-law at this late age.
She remembered her bubble-like chirping daughters who were happy to take off her shoes. For the first time, he realized that good child were the religion of Allah, whether it was a son or a daughter. Allah did not keep him childless. In his mind, he creates an empire of earth and heaven, whoever wills, gives daughters to whomever he wants, and gives whomever he wants, sons and daughters, and infertile whomever he wills. "Malik Safdar Hayat felt that he had descended from the top of his soul.
He was satisfied and put his head in prostration with the belief that his spouse and child or daughter were all in the trust of Allah.
Hate from evil
In life, we learn a lot of things too late. Something similar happened to a friend of mine. Anum was crying bitterly when she told her granddaughter. I was silent on hearing his story, too. Sometimes words seem less comforting. Listen to the story of Anum orally. The difference between good and bad is said to be in our homes from the very beginning.
Some parents explain the difference between good and evil as an example of a good and bad man. The same was the case with me, but the difference was that I did not learn to distinguish between good and evil. That's why, as I grew up, my thinking started to distance me from the people around me. Even if a friend of mine had done evil to someone, I would have separated from him in an intangible way. As I grew up, I felt that my family was also suffering from many evils. My father, my mother, and all my siblings seemed to be suffering from some evil. I began to suffer from loneliness slowly. I saw in every human being the evil of good.
My parents began to be disturbed by my thinking and way of life. My mother tried to explain to me, and I insulted her instead, saying that she was lying and being hidden.
How can a person who practices relationships tell others how to build relationships? Mom walked out of the room with tears in her eyes in sadness. I felt no remorse for what I did. I have done my BA(postgraduate degree). I had no friends. My parents saw only one way to get rid of my rudeness, they fixed my marriage. Seeing the parents' stubbornness, I agreed. But the same problem came to pass on to my father-in-law.
One person after another opened up on me with his evil. I started hating him again. The worst thing that happened was that my husband started hating me. It was evil that he would treat me with great respect and love in front of others, but in one case his tone would have changed, I interpreted his evil as hypocrisy. He was a braggart, he wanted to confirm to me by expressing his goodness to others, I told the truth and started insulting him in front of everyone. Things were very small, but they grew. I was angry and came to Mecca. He was not ready to sit in, nor was he ready to turn into.
Six months later, my daughter was born. My husband divorced me and gave me a daughter too. My parents were extremely upset because of me. I find their anxiety meaningless. My mother tried to explain to me the extent that man's sins. Every man has some faults. Complete salvation from evil is not possible. But I said angrily to my mother. Man makes excuses to put a stop to his evil. You always told me that because of your father's harsh nature I lie. Look at me, I have not compromised on evil. Mom said sadly. That's why you're sitting in the same house today. Took away his father's love from his daughter. I thought I couldn't bear it on myself, so she's saying that. I proudly said, "I don't care.
Time doesn't stop for anyone. My daughter was ten years old. I wanted to make it like myself. Therefore he would be extremely strict, lest he is afflicted with any evil. I started teaching in a school myself. So I didn't even have a problem with the expenses. My believer was a simple girl. And he would have accepted everything I had said immediately. She thinks I used to think so. She would come to school with me and go home. I was calm on his part. I had some headaches so I went to the kitchen in the staff room to make tea and drink it. There was no one in the staff room.
In this case, Ms. Sadia came to the staff room. Behind them was Maryum. As soon as I saw Maryum, the staff sat down with tea on the sofa behind the cupboard in the room. Maryum was crying. I sat quietly so that the teacher would not know that she was my daughter. Because Sadia was a new teacher. She didn't know Maryum was my daughter. I found out from Maryum and her teacher that the teacher had caught her with a stolen card. He had stolen his fellow students. Her teacher was explaining to her, so I was sitting there. I felt as if someone had slapped me on the face with a lot of snares. She was not my daughter. His teacher said to him affectionately. Let the son of Maryum take his hand out of his face. If you don't look at me, you'll understand what I'm saying. Maryum did not know that I was sitting on the other side in the staff room. The teacher asked Maryum, "Son, why did you steal?" Maryum said sadly, I wanted to see how Papa expresses his love, ma'am. Maryum cried again. The teacher hugs him affectionately
Where are your papas? Maryum cried and said, I do not know. But my uncle says they are not good, but ma'am she does not know how bad she is. Disrespecting others, they never realize that this is also evil. My uncle is very bad, I hate him a lot. When I heard Maryum's words, I hid my falling tears in my palm and buried my hiccups in my chest. The interpretation of his personality from his ten-year-old daughter's mouth was as open to me as a secret. His teacher patted him affectionately and said, Son. Hatred is done not by evil, but by evil. If your uncle is a victim of any evil, do not hate them. But try to remove this evil from them with your love and attention. Maryum cried. She does not listen to her grandmother. What will I hear? They just love themselves, for in their eyes they are free from all evil.
You found Mary's papa card in my bag and you didn't say bad things to me in front of the whole class, but here when there is no one in the staff room, you asked me. But if I had a mother here and she saw that I had stolen the card, she would have slapped me in the face of everyone and screamed and told the whole class that they had caught me stealing. She doesn't try to figure out why I did it. Such is the noble secret of my mother. I wish someone could explain to them that covering up, not breaking the hearts of others. It is also good to have good manners. Mary's teacher said to her affectionately. Son Shahid did not come to distinguish between your uncle Kobrai and bad, which is why he hates a bad man while a bad man has the status of working for a good man. They should attract him to good with his hard work, love, and effort. Momina cried. So why didn't my uncle attract my papa to goodness? She considers herself to be the center of all good. Maryum was crying. Her teacher was silent. I did not know how to answer Maryum.
My mother could not explain it to me today, my daughter explained it to me. I finished the sweetness of relationships and knew that no man is completely out of evil. A man who thinks that he is away from every evil, then understands that this is also evil. Allah does not like the one who walks with a stiffness. Allah likes cover-ups. I didn't like the cover-up. Show your heaven your mother's heart forever.
Today, when I showed my heart, I realized how my mother would feel about what I said. I did not feel hatred for my daughter. But I felt that he said the word "correct" correctly. I hid like a thief behind the closet. When Maryum and Sadia left, I had come out of the shell I had made over the years. When I came home that day, I cried a lot. Maryum did not talk to me and I spoke to her about it. What I had been doing for so many years. That is, disrespect to all on the face, I was afraid that Maryum should not do the same.
Today, for the first time, I was thinking that my daughter should not be like me. I never even mentioned that day to Maryum. She wasn't like me, she never expressed her hatred for me. Shahid didn't want to show off her heart.
If I were the same as before, I would have thought that he was a hypocrite like his father, obviously and in the inner self, but now I know that every human being has something evil and that we must hate evil and not man.
Who is responsible for it?
My sister is involved in the education department, and is serving in a school that is located in the center of the city, where girls from different villages nearest to the city also come to study.
My sister often comes from school and tells her that today a mobile phone came out of the bag of a girl of such and such class, sometimes she says that today a touch screen mobile was recovered from the girl of this age, once she said that a girl used to go to the washroom again and again when she was investigated, a mobile came out of her which contained indecent material.
Once the girl came from home wearing a school uniform but she did not come to school. She sat on a bike with a boy from the school gate and returned at the right time of vacation and went home. There are many girls who have gone and never come back. Many such incidents are taking place in every city and every town.
The era in which we live is the latest and fastest period now it's time to write letters, now just the girl or boy has to write the number on the small chit and throw it away just then the story starts with text messages and ends with video calls and video calls from WhatsApp and whatsapp meeting in isolation and then going to nude videos or pictures.
In some stories, a character has to commit suicide.Why do parents take mobiles to our girls who are not mature yet and are studying in small classes? After all, what is the compulsion that phones running high speed internet are given as gifts to children and girls? Now, if you say that there are online classes, you have seen many parents who give their mobile phones to children for online education and withdraw after the requirement is met.
If you have taken the baby or the baby with the mobile, have you ever checked the gallery of their mobile? Ever check the inboxes of their social media accounts? Ever checked their Google search history? Sometimes he asked them where did such a high balance come to you?
If we parents continue to give complete freedom to our children by giving them complete laxity, the day is not far when our children run away from home in the same way and that will be what is happening to Dua Zahra or other girls like her. All writing friends on social media should tell their followers about the dark web and educate them who actually play the brutal and bloody game that is being played on the dark web?
Why are young and innocent children and girls cut off their hands and feet after sexually assaulting them? What is the compulsion that sexual predators target innocent children in a society where a partner is easily available for 500 rupees for sexual satisfaction?
The dark web is also behind Dua Zahra and the kidnapped girls like her, if not today, this real story will be revealed to everyone tomorrow.We will continue to write social media writers as far as possible by participating in public awareness campaigns, but parents themselves should also take their eyes off their mobile screens and focus on their children's mobile phones.
Michael Jackson: A man who wanted to defeat death
A man who wanted to defeat the system of nature hated four things: he hated his black, and he wanted to look like whites.
He hated anonymity, he wanted to be the most famous person in the world. He hated his past, he wanted to separate his past from himself.
He hated dying in seventy, or eighty years, like the common people, he wanted to live for 150 years. He wanted to be a singer who danced in front of millions at the age of 150, sang his last song, kissed his 25-year-old girlfriend on the forehead, and left the world in the presence of millions of fans. Michael Jackson's future life was fulfilled by these four desires. He launched his second album 'Thriller' in 1982, which was the highest-selling album in the world.
It sold 65 million copies in a month and became part of the Guinness Book of World Records. Michael Jackson was now the most famous singer in the world, he had defeated oblivion.
Michael then decided to beat his black skin and started plastic surgery, hiring 55 top plastic surgeons from the United States and Europe, until 1987, all his appearance, skin, images, and movements of Michael Jackson changed.
A beautiful Michael Jackson, the owner of the blonde cheetah and feminine motifs, replaced by black Michael Jackson, came to the fore. So he defeated his dark complexion.
Then it was the turn of the past, Michael Jackson started running away from his past, he cut off from his family. He changed his addresses, got white parents on rent, and also got rid of all old friends. During all these steps where he went on getting along, he also got caught up in the circle of artificial life.
She married Elvis Presley's daughter Lisa Marie Presley to make herself famous. He also installed his great statues in Europe and he also produced his first son Prince Michael from a nurse, Dby-Ro, through artificial reproduction. Dabi-Ro's button also led to the birth of her daughter, Paris Michael.
His effort was also successful, he largely got rid of his past as well.
So now it was his turn to last wish. He wanted to live for 150 years. Michael Jackson did interesting things to get a long life, for example, sleeping in oxygen tents at night, would shake people's hands while wearing gloves to avoid the effects of germs, viruses, and diseases. He would put a mask on his mouth before going into people. He ate a certain food and was employing twelve doctors permanently.
These doctors examined every part of his body every day, his diet was also tested daily and his staff would get him to exercise daily, he also arranged for his spare lungs, kidneys, eyes, heart, and liver. These were donors, all of whom Michael was born, and the donors had to donate their organs to him when needed, so he believed he would live for 150 years.
But then came the night of June 25, he had difficulty breathing, his doctors gathered senior doctors from all over the country at his residence, these doctors tried to save him from death but failed and took him to the hospital.
The man who had planned 150 years, who did not walk barefoot on the ground, who would put up gloves before shaking hands with someone, whose house was sprayed with antibacterial drugs daily, and who had not eaten anything for 25 years that doctors had forbidden him. The man died at the age of 50 in just thirty minutes. His soul flew from the body during a pinch period.
The news of Michael Jackson's death was read by 800,000 people on Google in ten minutes, a record of Google's history, and this heavy traffic caused Google's system to sit down and the company had to apologize to its users for 25 minutes. An autopsy by Michael Jackson revealed that due to excessive caution, his body had become structured, he was bald from the head, his ribs were broken, and he had excessive needle marks on his hip, shoulders, ribs, and legs.
He had needed "pan colors" because of plastic surgery, so he injected dozens of injections every day, but these injections, this caution, and even these doctors could not save him from death, and he quietly left the place one day and thus his last wish could not be fulfilled.
Lesson:
Michael Jackson's death is an announcement that man can conquer the whole world. But he cannot defeat his destiny. He cannot resist the writer of death and death, so be it a rock star or Pharaoh, he cannot escape the burden of two tons of soil. He cannot defeat death. But we wonder if we consider ourselves steel men even after the end of Michael Jackson, we think we will deceive death, we will live for 150 years.
May Allah bless us with the preparation and good deeds of the Hereafter, and you keep us in order(Ameen).
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Children of the poor
Today was a little time, so Saba wondered why I should not go round to her neighbor Sadia. Saba often realized that we were so engrossed in our engagements that even our right and left did not have any sense. When she went, her friend Sadia was very happy to see her and met her with great love. Both of them were engaged in their words when Sadia's husband entered the house. The younger son Ahmed was him who would hardly be three, or four years old.
Ahmed had a small toy car in his hand that he threw on the ground as soon as he came into the house and started crying, I have to take a big car, I don't want this small car. Ahmed was constantly being stubborn and crying badly. Sadia fell in love with him. He tried to shut up. But he looked at his mother with a very sensitive look and said, "Mummy! Abu didn't give me a big car. I won't play with a small car. I'll take a big car.'' Sadia said to Ahmed's Abu, "You'll get a big car, how long has it been stubborn?
"Saba heard Sadia's husband speak lightly in the room inside, "Where did Sadia get it from? I had only a hundred rupees. He took milk for Ahmed and was adamant, so he got a car worth Rs. 50, but he was insisting on a big car. She was four hundred rupees from where did she get Rs. 400? Household expenses are hardly met, the electricity bill has to be filled now tomorrow is the deadline. You've got some money for it. Where do I get 400 to buy a big car now?.
In the meantime, Saba took permission from Sadia and came to her house. But there was a burden on his heart. When I came home, I kept thinking about the situation in Sadia. He's a great friend of mine, so Why didn't I ever think about it? Ahmed's cry was calling him out. Let his life fly away and fulfill the will of this innocent, and then he did so. He did not even have a rail peel of money, but al-Hamdallah was not even a hardship.
She went to the market and bought a toy car of her choice. In the evening she went back to Sadia's house and called out to Ahmed and he came to her shyly. Saba took out the car and gave it to her and loved her. Prayed to be happy. Sadia looked at Saba with a very grateful look, then said, "Why did you suffer?" Children are stubborn? Saba looked at him with a smile and pointed at Ahmed.
He was very happy, repeatedly turning his hand on the car and sometimes driving fast, sometimes light, his lights lit and clapping happily. The joy saba was having to see Ahmed happy is beyond a statement. Sadia cried uncontrollably, "Why did you suffer so much? Children are stubborn.'' "Hey, nothing has been done for you. I did all this to please Ahmed, so that Allah may be happy with me. I did you no favors. You are ashamed of your desires.
I know Sadia! When we please a servant for Allah, peace, and tranquillity come down within us. The lamp we light for others makes light in our own house. Our grave is illuminated and our inner light is filled with light.''' Yes, you're right, Saba! May Allah reward you for this good. Saba returned home shortly thereafter, thinking about holding Rachel in her arms. Our tragedy is that we only consider our children to be children.
Although children are children, whether they are themselves or their loved ones, rich or poor, everyone has a heart. Moves for small desires. But our hearts may have been emptied of the pain of humanity, and we have lost our love somewhere.
Months pass and we don't get the news from each other. We have become accustomed to using we have moved away from the golden teachings of our religion, the religion that teaches us to eat sacrifice and sacrifice and share. But in the same religion today the brother is separated from the brother.
May Allah guide us and give us a heart that feels the pain of others. Saba hugged a smiling Rachel to her chest. It appears to be a minor but true event. Just a small message to please your children as well as sometimes a poor kid. When shopping for your children, take a couple, a toy, some food, or anything else for a poor child. Remember! Allaah loves generous people. Allah loves those who are generous.
Mom
My number was last among five siblings. But there was a difference of twelve years between me and my elder brother. Being the youngest in the house was Darling. Sleeping was normal in the middle of Aba Amy. Mother was hard, sometimes if she made a mistake, she would be hit with a pipe.
But at the same time, there were very loving mothers. It was their routine to be concerned with children, taking care of everything. One day the school van broke down and I was late home. At that time, there were no mobile phones. When mom saw me then she was happy.
Two years after The Death of my father in 85, we shifted to Lahore by calling Islamabad Khairabad. The two sisters were married, one brother had gone out and the other stayed almost outside the house because of the job. Stay at home with my grandmother and me for a few years until they live.
During this time I had done matriculation and college had become a share. The elder brother's job was now in Lahore. Now there were four people at home.
Bhabi was very good but it was not nice to share her bright son with her daughter-in-law and every day the atmosphere of the house was spoiled. I was married after two years of my brother's marriage.
Mother was old now with bone pain. The brother had three children. He was married for nineteen years, and one day suddenly, his heart failure would lead to the baby's death. Just then the whole house system was overturned. The children were also young. Now the brothers and children and mother are left. We were married as many sisters as we could go but obviously how many days can one stay leaving their home. As the days passed, mom I became more vulnerable. The grief of the children of the mother was broken by all of them, and the loneliness of the most. When we were gone, we would cook in their house, otherwise, thou shalt bring from outside, and sometimes you would cook the masi.
Now the mother whale was in the throes of old age and along with the disease of arthritis. Could not even go to the bathroom by himself. We kept full-time mass which we used to do all their work. But when she went off, it was difficult for any of us to go and stay, or a mother would have to go to her daughter's house until Her aunt returned. Similarly, six years passed after Bhabi(brother's wife).
The last year of 2,19 is was in this world. Masi was discharged for ten days. Her village mom had to stay at the house of the older sister for a few days but the sister herself was very weak and was sick. She could not take her to the washroom alone so whenever I had to stay more and more, I had to stay with my mother or bring her home. This time ten days have not passed. When Mother came, I would be with her. Mian was good, he didn't say anything. There was just the problem that my two daughters would sofa in the drawing-room for granny's sake as long as My mother stayed with me.
All of them would support me in this case. But when it was more than ten days and the aunt did not come, my husband began to suffer from sleeping uneasily on the sofa of his daughters. On the day I realized, I cried and prayed to Allah that My God should give me a room for my mother in my house. So that they may live with me, and that there is no disturbance, because of them.
It was a time of acceptance that within a few days I was booking a flat with the same bill. Within a few days, we took the flat by God's command. The wall of the room that Amy found was found in my children's room, that is, Allah accepted my prayer, and took out the room in my house.
Brothers and children and mother had shifted. Everyone was at peace like me. I was looking at the house and My mother comfortably. The food was also cooked at home. But she probably came here to drop her children, for she would suddenly leave the world exactly two months after she came here. The room which he asked for them is now empty from Allah.
Do good and put it in the River
It was a long time ago that I was traveling in a bus that was quite full but because I boarded the initial bus stop I got a seat and I was sitting comfortably reviewing the surroundings and also wondering how I would get off at my desired bus stop in such a way
The man who was standing on the bus seemed to have a lot of depression due to the approach. There were very young and intermediate students, so it was not difficult for me to stand on the bus and travel, so I emptied my seat for this old man and he sat in my place.
I stood near him. It was only a while ago that a speed breaker came on the road and just hit this old man because he was loud and jerky. He bumped into the angry man and said loudly that blind Abe can't stand properly.
He also forgot that a while ago I gave him the seat. You must be thinking that this behavior of theirs may have angered me, but nothing like this happened because I had heard from my parents and elders that man should not do good for any worldly benefit, but should do good to the good of God. After all, if Allah is happy, man will succeed.
This can also mean that if the river of life sinks for some reason, these good things will come to help as boats. If we are unselfish, we will only work for the good of God, and hope will be only for the purity of God, who is the doer of the universe, the Giver of forgiveness, then our success is certain.
Lust or real love?
Did lust hide in the veil of love or love?Yes, yes, you heard the truth. I had to listen to such cases and I had to take the pen in my hand for a long time. He was talking to him. Everything was going well, so what happened suddenly today, how did it suddenly come from the soul to the body?
Do the limits of our love end just on the body, just get a body bath, so go and then it will be someone else's, and they will no longer be anyone else' s eyes, just fall into their own eyes and die?
This is the love I think there is no difference between you and the dogs in the street. They do the same thing. Then the male does the male and the female, then the male, the matter of his juice, was very difficult to get into the hands of the pen, hearing the sighs of the little buds, and I caught the pen in my hand.
Today I will fly your people's rags. I'll wake up and leave. Hey, you too get some sense and listen to the news day after day, so that the boy robbed the girl of her honor and killed her. The boy threw acid on the girl's face for not fulfilling the desire of the house in such a place.
Is it not enough to bring all this on the right path?
Will you understand only when you sit with you on your head? Why do you not think of the honor of your old father's turban and the smell of the honor and dignity of your mother's movements before you open your tool? I believe boys have a demonic mind, and can easily trap a judicious girl, but does he pick you up in a hotel room? Did it all happen without your consent? I don't believe that if a boy, without the consent of a girl, wires her honor, even touches her and shows her that the fault is the share of boys, but to some extent, you share the same amount of abuse.
Hey Ibn Adam, don't you see your mother and sister before you put someone's mother and daughter in the eyes of the house? You don't see your sister laughing at a young man's face while snatching laughter from his face. Don't your conscience tremble when you stake your honor for the pleasures of the bridge?
Hey, forgetfulness, don't you listen?What is there has to be borne, whether it is in the form of a sister or as a daughter, it is a debt and the loan that is taken once has to be repaid.
Desist, Ibn Adam, if you are young, return to marriage so that your senses may be fulfilled, and no one's life is spoiled, but your senses are not repentant for you, but a reward for you. In this world, you may escape by secretly covering up your sins. Did the Prophet cry for our forgiveness?
I believe that this is a demonic act, but does Satan penetrate you and do all this? Roatan just provokes you to act yourself.
Now take the example of you having to go somewhere and stand at an intersection. You know 50% that where you have to go, it is the front path but there is no confusion. You stop going away and ask if I have to go to such a place. No, because you know it doesn't go there. It goes to the wrong place, it doesn't go to your destination.
Then, knowing all, Satan is our enemy, whose job is to distract us, to take the path out of the way, so why should we catch the path he has shown, not even Satan's fault, but our dirty mentality is also very much involved.
May God recover, ask for Forgiveness of God for what you have done, and be unhappy with your deeds before death will bring you down, and you repent without repentance.
Need to root out this vision
Wrapped hands around her knees, sitting on the ground, she was in tears in her empty eyes.
Just completed her third wedding day!. She met her mother yesterday!. Three days later it's Eid!.
A young new bride with the henna left in her hands got married just three months ago and her world would be uprooted in just three months. Who didn't know who thought the wrongdoers shot the poor husband on the way, finally another target of the blind bullets that went on in the city of Karachi!. The lamp of the house followed the life of a three-month-old bride. I went out dark.
What will happen next to this poor man?.
Thousands of such questions echoed around him, but he! No. In what sense was it to know! Perhaps she had gone to leave her husband to heaven herself, silent, lifeless, and helpless. We all saw the joys in their house after a long time. Allaah! The mother had found some peace of mind.
After the ups and downs of the situation, he had now had these joys. She stepped onto the threshold of her father-in-law with a cup full of high hopes and dreams, just as she was wrapping up the clouds of grief. She wondered how my happy life could be so short. I was just decorating my senses with my thoughts, it felt as if the eye had opened and the dream was shattered.
What happened? What was my fault?.
Why was my happy life so short?.
There was not so much suffering that it was found that there was a living and growing up inside this unfortunate one. Time changed its curves! Days changed into weeks, weeks into months, and months into years!. The clouds of grief were overshadowed over time. In some time, a little fairy came into her life and repainted, and she forgot all and became busy raising her daughter. Mother's mother's mother was excited and forced to think about what would happen to the daughter after me, who is traveling with her to the life of Saiban without taking another daughter with her.
Slowly!..slowly!. All the children are getting busy in their own lives and the life of this unfortunate daughter of mine is still deserted. In the meantime, there were many relationships, but people would say in awe that they were ready to marry, but you should have children because they are not our children.
The idea was that the daughter was just a beautiful and educated 22-year-old girl, so some good people would meet, but after years, it died in the mother's heart in hope. Just the mother began to worry that before my eyes closed, she would find a proper courtyard that would be adopted by her daughter.
The tragedy of our society is that people are ready to adopt this mother but no one is ready to adopt her child. Ready to marry their daughter but not willing to adopt her children. No one wants to put their hand on the head of this little girl. Without understanding the delicateness of how much one's emotions will be hurt, where there are two mothers, and the third is that you keep her children because she is not our children.
I wish the thinking of our society should change that the family should adopt a child or an innocent girl, who cannot live without their mother, and this is often said by our devout people, while they understand religion very well. Know that the stepmother also holds the status of a father.
You also know how many women in our society are forced to become single parents, alone and lonely in this world, and so do we...If this ignorant thought of the people of our society is over and the mother is ready to adopt this innocent child, no child will be deprived of his parents, and such forced women who need a companion and have a dignified life. Can spend.
Today, if even a single house is changed by my words, I will be in the presence of Allah because we are in dire need of this change!.
Taste of life
****This story is for people who try to run away from them rather than add color to their colorless relationships, and many times we're too late to understand whether it's more right to have new relationships or to add color to old relationships. It must be decided by you, but it may not be that you cannot decide on a time, and the hands are left empty forever in this delay.****
We keep cheating even when life is cheating us, and when reason makes a return ticket, we have lost a lot. It was early this morning, as usual, her whole focus was on decorating plates while eating, and my eyes were fixed on her face. I held her hand with joy and she was shocked.
"I want to say an important thing to you." After much courage, she finally came out of my mouth, sat quietly in a chair, her eyes focused on the table, but the rising from them felt well in pain, my tongue was locked for a bridge, but it was very important to tell what was going on in my mind, "I want to divorce you... " My eyes bowed.
Contrary to my hope, he did not express any surprise or anxiety, just asked so softly... "Why?"I ignored his question. He had this attitude of mine. She threw a spoon in her hand on the floor and started shouting, saying, "You are not a man. "We didn't talk to each other all night, '' she cried. I knew it was important for her to know what had happened to our marriage after all. I had no satisfactory answer to give, what would tell him that someone else had replaced him in my heart, now I had no love for him, I was sorry for it and there was a regret, but now it was necessary to stick to the decision I had made.
Before submitting the divorce papers to the court, I stopped a copy of it which said that she could own 30% of the house, car, and my business after divorce, ran a look at the papers and threw it to the ground the next moment, The woman I told ten years of my life with became a stranger in a bridge. I was sorry that he had wasted his precious emotions and precious moments on me, but what I would do was that someone else had filled my heart to such an extent that the idea of losing it was impossible for me.
Finally, she broke down and was shattered in front of me. A sea of tears came to his eyes. Perhaps that was what I wanted to see after this divorce, The next day, with my new love, when I arrived home tired, she was busy writing something on the table, I didn't pay any attention to it and fell asleep on the bed as soon as I left, she was still writing something late at night when my eyes opened, I still didn't question him, ......
When I woke up in the morning, he placed some divorce terms before me. He didn't want any of my wealth and property. She just wanted to be with me for another month. In this one month, we had to live like a good husband and wife. The main reason for this condition was our son, who was about to undergo examinations within a few days. The divorce of his parents would not have a bad effect on his education, so I was ready to accept his condition, ...... His second and foolish condition was that I would wake him up in my arms every morning and leave him at the door of the house. As I used to in the early days of marriage. When she started going out to work, I would pick her up in my own body and leave her at the door. Although I was not ready to accept this, it didn't seem appropriate to break his heart in those last days, so I accepted this condition.
When I mentioned his terms with my new love, she laughed, "No matter what he does, he has to divorce one day or the other."My wife and I did not mention this to anyone else orce case. As a condition, when I had to leave it at the door on the first day, those moments were strange for us. Hesitantly, I picked it up and he closed his eyes too. So a buzz of applause echoed in the ears of both of us, "Papa has picked up Mummy. Hahaha" our son was swaying in joy.
His words caused a pain in my heart and
His words caused pain in my heart, and my wife's condition was almost like mine, "Please! Don't tell her anything about divorce," she said politely. I nodded in response. After leaving her at the door, I headed to my office and walked towards the bus stop.
It was a little easier for me to pick it up the next morning, and his reluctance was also lacking. He put his head on my breast. After a while, the fragrance of his body hit my senses. I began to examine it carefully. The deep wrinkles in the face and the silver in the hair of the head were a testimony to the fact that he had lost a lot in this marriage.
Four more days passed, and when I put it on my chest in my folds, the intimacy between us that had been lost somewhere began to return. Then those feelings of intimacy increased with each passing day. The moment took days away and the month was over.
That last morning I was getting ready to go and she was in trouble with clothes spreading on the bed. Because all the old clothes were beginning to open on his body. At that point figured out how weak she had become.
Perhaps that's why I picked it up easily. I walked up to him, reluctantly seeing the pain in his eyes, and put my hand on his shoulder, "Papa! Take mummy around outside. Our son's voice fell in my ears, and he thought it was necessary for me to somehow shake his mother's heart. My wife turned to her son and put it on her chest. I turned my back thinking that this moment would not weaken me, ..... The last time I picked him up in my arms, he also put his arms around my neck. I held it in a trance.
The day of marriage began to circulate before my eyes when I first picked him up and brought him to my house and promised to hold him to my chest every day until he died. My steps may have gone from the floor to the gym, so I barely reached the door. Taking it down, I whispered in his ear "perhaps we lacked intimacy.
"She looked into my eyes and I left her there and walked towards my car. A fear was repeatedly burning in my heart as I drove at high speed so that I might not get weakened, and change my decision. I braked at the door of the house where the new destination was waiting for me. The door opened and she smiled and came in front of me, "Excuse me. I can't divorce my wife." These words that came out of my mouth were nothing short of an explosion for her. She came to me and put her hand on her forehead and said, "Maybe you're not in good health or you're joking". "No! I'm not joking.
Perhaps our married life has become colorless, but love for him is still alive in my heart. All that happened was that we forgot everything o do with it. I remembered everything on the same day. And remember the promise I made to him on the first day of my marriage."After breaking each new bond, I returned to reconnect the old bond, with a bouquet in my hand that read on the slip, "I will come to leave you every day in my arms to the door.
Only death could stop me from doing so, so I entered my house and started climbing the stairs. I had the greatest gift of life to give to my wife. When I was a few moments away from him, the string of life slipped out of his hands. She had lost while battling cancer for months. He never mentioned his pain to me, nor did his busy life allow me to ask him.
When he needed me the most, I was finding love for myself in someone else's heart. She knew she didn't have much time. Lest the effect of divorce before his death sow hatred for me in our son's heart. So in a month, she painted my look as a very loving husband in front of her son.
**This story is for people who try to run away from them rather than add color to their colorless relationships, and many times we're too late to understand whether it's more right to have new relationships or to add color to old relationships. It must be decided in your hands, but lest you can't decide on a time and the hands are permanently empty in this delay.**
History doesn't forgive!
There is a saying that if you don't stand by the truth, history has nothing to do with whether you were praying in a mosque or raising its nose on a prostitute's coat. History is history. It doesn't forgive anyone. It says that there is no heart in the chest of history.
Now no one believes, doesn't believe, looks for excuses, makes lakhs of excuses, confuses it with a gorkha tune of words or Whether you know the skill of making lies true and truth a lie, or being able to change the context of events, it doesn't matter because truth is a great force.
Truth can be suppressed in time, but the only thing that is different is that the world lies around looking for fragrances from paper flowers. Socrates drank a cup of poison with his hands, Jesus was crucified, The prophet's dentist Mubarak was martyred, he says, Sarmad had taken off his dress, Mansoor also remained convinced.
In fact, the truth has always been treated the same way in the world. People listen, understand and see, yet most people don't like to support the truth. The environment has become so dominant that the truth is so dominant that the facts are getting distorted. We are not the courage among the worldly people to listen, speak and tolerate the truth. The truth is that we are all afraid of the truth, we are afraid of the truth, we don't know which hour will break.
Today, the world is ruled by lies, the business of lies is on the rise, lies but white lies are good.
From time immemorial, lie. Fight against truth. Well, the battle for evil is going on. Whatever the situation may be, whatever the result, pick up the pages of history and see that victory is always true. Allah commands you not to hide the truth in the veil of lies. But there is a rule of lies everywhere. False witnesses and false cases are in the courts. Rulers, judges, lawyers, lawyers, lawyers, plaintiffs are helpless knowing everything.
This exploiting system has kept the system tight in such a way that no one can kill, but the liar has become a true and true liar, and it has become fashionable to attack it. In this society, a politician who is considered as successful as he lies promised the nation a few months ago that I would tell the truth, even though some have sworn that they have not to tell the truth.
Speaking and supporting the truth Is the tragedy of this country that politicians lie day and night and they are not ashamed of it and political activists seem to defend every true lie of their leader. It is an even greater tragedy that they do not hear the truth when a person constantly makes it his hobby to lie. Then his heart and mind are sealed. While white lying has become the source of the rulers, false promises, tall claims and displaying green gardens are in their hands.
Bureaucracy, military dictators, bureaucracy, most opposition leaders, often religious politicians, many capitalists and traditional landlords are second to none. All of them have filled this country. Looted with both hands and transferred billions of trillions abroad, it has also been proved to invent money laundering, anonymous accounts, overpowering and anti-corruption methods, and the irony is that their supporters still dance around them with slogans of 'Live', but one thing is that perhaps the standards of the people have changed or we have reached such a level of faith that the bad has been destroyed. It's bad to say bad, and that's why the conscience doesn't reproach anymore, but the conscience wakes up when they see the notes.
They don't even care if a girl doesn't scatter the stain of dignity by saying ''Aoy', ''No one returns to the crowded market.'' But such leaders are certainly afraid of their own inner selves that they may not be exposed to their faces , perhaps that is why they are reluctant to talk with their eyes together . There is no doubt that lies over truth are so dominant that facts are getting distorted. We are not the courage among the worldmen to hear, speak and tolerate the truth.
The truth is that we are all afraid of the truth. Now think about what will happen to rulers whose standards are to invent scientific methods of money laundering, anonymous accounts, overpower and corruption, and those who shout slogans in their favour. Where they stand, they should guess for themselves, because if you don't stand with the truth, history doesn't care if you were praying in a mosque or raising your nose on a prostitute's coat. History is history. It doesn't forgive anyone.
How many more suffering parents will have to suffer from online games?
There is a lot of concern among parents all over the country these days about teenagers fleeing from their homes and getting married.
"I am a resident of Lahore, we had contact for the last 3 years, Dua Zahra came from Karachi herself and came out of my house and messaged me, she came to Rent's car," Zaheer Ahmed said.
This is not the first time that teenagers have run away from their homes and gotten married through online games, but many online games have taken the lives of young people.
The question that arises here is how much more parents will have to suffer from online games?
Sports are very important in human life, says hospitals are deserted where the plains are settled because sports is a great exercise which helps in maintaining overall health. Regular engagement in different sports protects a person from various chronic diseases. Games also help in controlling weight, improving blood circulation, and controlling stress levels.
The trend of online games Pakistan, the trend of online games is growing rapidly rather than physical activities, not only young but also small children are seen playing online games on smartphones.
Many games also have various fictitious prizes and funds to keep the players engaged, which keeps their interest of the players.
Violent and aggressive games in today's fast-paced age, it is most difficult for parents to find time for their children, so parents think that they may have made it easier for themselves by engaging children, but that is not the case in reality.
Often parents are informed about what activities their children are engaged in on smartphones, often resulting in unpleasant results.
Children often choose games to spend time with which has a very negative effect on their mental development and in some cases even children suffer from deadly mental illness.
Distortion of society:
While online games have put humans away from misery, they have also caused many mental disorders. If you remember, some time ago, there were reports of several young people being killed around the world because of an online game called Blue Whale. There is another such game pub G where many people can play together and interact with each other.
Dua Zahra and Zaheer Ahmed, who recently went from Karachi to Lahore and got married of choice, were also introduced to each other through the PUBG game. In addition, online friendships are reported to have developed on Lodo these days, while in many games people are also given options for interaction.
Surprisingly, the ad is encouraging regular girls to talk to them about downloading the Ludo game on YouTube.
Problems for parents:
Violent games often make children's attitudes extremely bitter and aggressive, and in some cases children don't even shy away from taking extreme steps by treating these games as reality, as seen in blue whales, while often children escape from their homes through online conversations or get sat's hands on the spot, leaving parents with nothing but suffering. Not found.
Therefore, parents need to take time out for their children, monitor their activities, and also check their smartphones so that they can avoid any serious harm.
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Chose a right person
Never choose a man who knows how to do only and only to make a living. Who stood with their heads bowed at the right decisions of their parents as well as the wrong ones. Who dares not to say wrong.
Let me make it clear that I am not asking to disobey my parents here, it is not correct to say humbly while choosing the appropriate words. If a man does not have the courage, he will advise his wife to continue to endure for the rest of his life.
Not every woman even wants her husband to stand up to her parents.
Sometimes the only woman wants is for the husband to say wrong. Well, teach tolerance, speak of silence, but the one who advises wife twenty times should ever do justice once or not, mom, you are doing this injustice. It was like this, whether it was wrong or not. Let's make it more clear that there is not just talk of taking action on what you hear from your wife, the woman, but what you see with your own eyes, which is in front of your eyes or what is happening in your presence.
Here I am talking about doing justice. Just like that, a woman who receives all the commands and advice from McAy and follows them. Such a woman can also be dangerous because a mother-in-law is not only traditional. Mothers are also traditional and are busy explaining new ways to control their daughters to husbands. He exhorts his daughters to become the Prime Minister of the family by doing well in family politics and the daughters follow these orders instead of acting wisely and consciously. They either destroy their house or destroy their in-laws.
My mother can never be wrong. Not my father, don't miss calling my brothers, etc. So a woman who, given everything, reads the stories of the father, mother, or brother, in such a place. Don't have the impression of miscalling the wrong. Such a woman is also dangerous and she is devastated by many generations.
A man is the one who knows which woman to deal with? How to keep an eye on the politics between mother and wife? Instead of being in any woman's words or being a part of a women's quarrel, a man knows how to do justice, conscious of making a difference.
Fatigue: How to deal with it?
Fatigue is said to be used in different senses. It does not point to a certain feeling, but indicates the work and its different effects. These effects usually arise from work excess and prolonged work. For a while, the condition is removed by relaxing and getting cheaper. It is impossible to highlight the positive aspects of the household without mentioning the fatigue and its effects in the management box.
The main objective of the management of the family is to rid the women's family of undue fatigue. According to expert opinions, doing more has four types of effects. Which are as follows: Depression , Gradual decline in working capacity, Weakness.
You may have noticed that axillary women seem to be affected by this type of effect during fatigue and the presence of one of them shows fatigue. Fatigue can be both mental and physical. To consider the physical and psychological aspects of fatigue, we examine the events and situations that occur daily that can lead to fatigue, and these events are accompanied by feelings of anxiety and fatigue.
Working longer in a tight space and uncomfortable state. Staying up for a long time. Use of a seat for a long time. Hard work, even if it's for a short time. Unwanted work. Something that has to be done with great attention and utmost diligence. By working under some kind of pressure. Work done without insufficient information and expertise. Working in the face of emotional stress.
According to a report, fatigue does not arise in different individuals in the same way under the same conditions. The individual difference is also significant in this. It can be subjected to different situations and in different ways.
The effects of fatigue can be minimized by removing the special causes behind fatigue and fatigue so that the ability and speed of work is not affected. If the women's box implements some of the suggestions given below, it can yield positive results. If you rest for a while at work, it reduces fatigue. Place items that are used during work in a place from which to bend to the minimum to pick them up, unnecessary stress on the body also leads to fatigue.
Use equipment that is less used to use energy and energy.* Working lightly after hard work can also prevent fatigue. For example, if things like cleanliness, washing of clothes and iron are done at the same time, these hard fatigues are made. If you rest for a while after cleaning, it will reduce fatigue.
If more people work together, it is also possible to prevent fatigue, in which case the work is divided.Therefore, proper planning of time and energy can prevent fatigue to all extent. With the help of facilities and equipment found in the present day, a lot of fatigue prevention has been made possible.
Part 2: Treatment of depression
Depression can also be treated through psychotherapy, both through antidepressants and simultaneous use. Given the nature of your depression symptoms, their severity and your conditions, it is advised that it is better for you to use medications or psychotherapy. The use of psychotherapy in mild and medium depression can cure health, but if depression is more severe, it becomes necessary to administer the drug.
(psychotherapy)In depression, most people feel better by sharing their feelings with a confident person. Sometimes it is difficult to share your feelings with relatives or friends. In such a case, it seems easier to talk to a psychologist. Treatment through psychotherapy takes time. Usually you have to meet a psychologist for one hour every week and the duration can range from 5 weeks to 30 weeks.
If your depression is severe or has been going on for a long time, your doctor may prescribe you antidepressants. These medications reduce sadness, improve life and improve their ability to cope with situations. Remember that the benefits of antidepressants do not start appearing immediately after starting the drug but can take 2 to 3 weeks. Some people feel that after starting the drug, their sleep improves within a few days and the nervousness decreases, but depression takes several weeks to subside.
There are several chemicals in the human brain that deliver signals from one shell to another. Depression is believed to be deficient in two special chemicals called serotonin and noradrenaline. Antidepressants help in increasing the amount of these chemicals in the brain.
Like all other medicines, depression is also harmful but usually they are not severe and are eliminated in a short time by taking medicine. SSRI antidepressants cause nausea and discomfort in some patients in the early days. Taking tricyclic antidepressants can lead to complaints of mouth dryness and constipation in the first few weeks. If these harmful effects are not very severe, it is likely that your doctor will tell you to continue with the drug because continuing the drug in most patients reduces or eliminates these effects.Taking certain antidepressants leads to sleep, so they are instructed to take them before going to bed at night. Avoid driving and using large machinery in case of drowsiness.
Some medications may have reactions to some other medications, so inform your doctor about every medicine you are using. If you continue to drink along with taking antidepressants, you will get a lot of sleep and the medicine will not benefit fully.After starting the medicine, keep showing your doctor regularly to see if you are benefiting from the drug and it is not having harmful effects.
Antidepressants have to continue for at least another six months even after they are in good health, otherwise there is a risk of disease symptoms returning. Antidepressants are slowly switched off. Do not stop medication suddenly from yourself without your doctor's advice.
Most people are worried about getting used to antidepressants before they start and then they will have to take these medicines for the rest of their lives. This idea is not correct, humans are not used to antidepressants as people get used to sleeping drugs such as valium, alcohol or nicotine. Unlike these intoxicants, they do not have to be increased or severely sought to maintain the benefit of antidepressant sedation. However, if you suddenly turn off antidepressants, there may be complaints of panic, thin stools and nightmares. These complaints are rarely made if the drugs are slowly switched off.
Many depression patients are cured by the treatment of their family doctor. If you are not in good health, you may need to show psychiatrists. Psychiatrists become doctors and have since undergone further training in the treatment of psychiatric disorders.
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Depression is extreme state of mind
Last I got mail from Quora...! A lady was asking a question, that why I feel depressed all time. So I got idea to write about depression because, now a days, I am also much depressed don't know what is reason. But, I tried to get out of it and got the reason behind it.
Sometimes, we all suffer from sadness, frustration and disgust. In general, these symptoms heal in a week or two and don't matter much in our lives. Sometimes this sadness begins for some reason and sometimes it starts for no reason. Generally, we fight this sadness on our own. Sometimes talking to friends only heals this sadness and does not require any treatment.
But depression is sense of sadness lasted for a long time and did not end. The intensity of sadness is so high that the day-to-day routines of life begin to be affected by it. The severity of depression is much deeper and more painful than the general sadness that we all feel from time to time. Its duration is also much higher than normal sadness and lasts for months. If you have at least four of these symptoms, it is likely that you are suffering from depression.
Be sad and depressed all the time or most of the time. Lack of interest in things and things that, I was interested in before. Feeling physical or mentally exhausted, feeling too tired. Not being able to pay attention to day-to-day tasks or things. To lose self-confidence. To keep blaming yourself for the small things of the past, to consider yourself worthless and useless. Despair of the future. Suicidal thoughts. Sleep loss and loss of appetite.
Some people may or may not have a particular cause of depression. Many people who are depressed and suffer from depression do not understand any reason for their sadness. Yet their depression sometimes becomes so severe that they need help and treatment.
It is common to be sad for some time after some painful events, such as the death, divorce, or job termination of a close loved one. For the next few weeks we keep thinking about it and talking about it. Then after some time we recognize this fact and return to our daily routine life. But some people do not get out of this sadness and suffer from depression.
If we are lonely, we don't have friends around us, we're stressed, or we're very physically tired, in which case the risk of developing depression increases.
Physically ill people are at an increased risk of developing depression. These diseases can also be life-threatening, such as cancer or blood pressure, or can be very long-lasting and painful, such as joint pain or respiratory diseases.
Depression can occur at any time, but some people are at risk of developing depression and more than people. This can be because of our personality and also childhood situations and experiences.
Sometimes it is not known whether a person has become depressed due to drinking alcohol or has started drinking more due to depression. People who drink too much alcohol are at a higher risk of committing suicide than the general public. Women are more likely to have depression than men. Depression is more frequent in some families. For example, if one of your parents has depression, you are at risk of developing depression and eight times more than people.
People who have severe depression also have fast seizures when they are overjoyed for no reason and are working more than normal. This rapid seizure is called meenia and the disease is called bipolar disorder. The rate of this disease is equal among men and women and is more in some families.
Solutions
Don't keep your emotional feelings a secret. If you heard any bad news, share it with someone close to you and also tell them how you feel from within. Often repeating, crying, and talking about grief in front of someone close to you lightens the burden of the heart.
Keep exercising something, even if it's just half an hour of daily walking. Exercise also improves the physical health of a person and sleep. Keep yourself busy with something, even if it's housework. This keeps a man's mind away from painful thoughts.
Eating a balanced diet is very important even if your heart doesn't want to eat food. Fresh fruits and vegetables benefit the most. In depression, people stop eating and eating, which leads to vitamin deficiency in the body and makes the health worse.
Some people think that drinking alcohol reduces the severity of their depression. In fact, drinking alcohol makes depression more intense. This may benefit for a few hours periodically, but later you will feel more depressed. Drinking too much alcohol further increases your problems, you can't get the right help and your physical health also starts deteriorating.
Don't worry about sleep not coming. If you can't sleep, still lying down comfortably watching TV or listening to the radio will give you peace.
Try to correct the cause of depression.If you think you know the reason for your depression, writing it down and considering how to solve it can help reduce depression. Keep reminding yourself that:More people have gone through the experience you are going through.One day or the other you will end your depression even if you don't feel like it right now.
In my very next article I would write about cure or treatment of depression, stay tuned! Thanks for reading!
What has anyone got from wars?
What has anyone got from wars, but this "superior and in fact, worse" dimension has only fought wars throughout history. Millions are killed in every war, millions live but to live worse than death. Man is forced to fight war, his instinct has been made like this, that is, he is the "inbuilt" and then the sinner, who has shed blood.
Well, I was asking from his god gives an answer to these questions!
No one dies, no one kills. That is, all the story is of "one" the same "one" which is just the same.
That is, what is the last dream of the end of the night of life?
What are its ingredients?
Memories of many other than rails. Many sufferings, many victims if man was weak. And many of the atrocities he wanted to do, but the power not to do, and if powerful, a long list of atrocities and the immense peace that came after every atrocity, the longing for more oppression. The greatest capital of man is the tyranny that nature is built on "inbullet" oppression. If he is not a wrongdoer, he is nothing but a man who has no chance of oppression, no power.*
The period of the past was more, now and. Earlier countless stories were dissolved in languages, many were left unheard of. Now is the era of electronic espionage and digital reflection. So many incidents are recorded that if you look at it, the name of man begins to be abused. Everyone's a victim who is in the bus of someone, and the most oppressed are children and women.
The women of western societies are also oppressed, but slightly less, this atrocity has come in abundance in the women's section of the subcontinent.If you have a daughter, if you are a daughter-in-law, you are a wife, and you are a widow, and there is a mother. A novel was published famous a long time ago and made readers go on a resin. Now, it is not even known to most that the novel "O woman, your name is weakness" was read from house to house and not read from readers.
To poison his "poison,"the author wrote another novel, "O woman, your name is Shah Zori." But this novel was actually a picture of the heart-rending dominant idea being good.* Watched a video of a Syrian child yesterday. He was eating grass.
Russia's continued bombing demolished houses and also uprooted fields. The food was just grass.
No one has ever written a book on how many children die from the forests and bombings and how many are destroyed alive. There are many children in normal society apart from happy children. Children cutting beggars in brick kilns, jerks and beatings working in workshops and tea houses, children picking garbage from streets and peering inside under restaurant glasses, children serving imprisonment as domestic workers on a salary of 6,000 months sometimes suddenly "death penalty" whose story ends.
Children suffering from the tyranny of stepfathers, children begging at traffic signals and children gathered suddenly outside marriage halls, Syrians, every facility of life, deprived of every happiness, helpless children in the trap of jealousy, children who died before they came of youth, o children, your name is also weakness.* The planet is surrounded by oppression and suffering like a dark shadow from all sides.
Wars and destruction slay millions of people and live, and so many individual persecutions. This count never stopped, with the population increasing. Man is not able to change his DNA. Greed and anger, vengeance, and desire for supremacy enslave him, and his world does not let him think that life is too short, cannot bear the burden of all that he is doing and wants to do.
These short-duration random questions, which run in the brain, are actually the eye back before landing in the inks of the night.The "inbuilt" of oppression and oppression is about to be forked.
Why is this "inbullet" so? Why is the night of a double grave, more than millions of years long, in return? Why is there no balance of oppression and oppression through justice and Peace….!
@Rehmat