"All my experience with you since we started this relationship up till this moment have been sweet, with so much wonderful experience, memories and beautiful stories, but right now I don't think I am seeing that again after what you just did, you are not really that man I want to spend my life with anymore, you could allow yourself to be controlled by your friends to test the love I have shared with you for years, this shows you never loved me enough to trust me nor even believe in me. You have really made me lose all that I have worked for, my self respect and worth you have placed them all in the hands of my mockers to laugh at me. I regret ever giving you my heart, my love, my time and everything. I am tired of this relationship and everything, please I hate you Johnson! I am done with this relationship, please I am living you and this relationship, it's over between us okay!" These were her words as she was living Johnson's house with her bags in anger!
These words woke all the entire neighbor up including me this morning as one of my neighbors were having a serious quarrel with his girlfriend. All of us the neighbors gathered to find out what was going on between them and to find a way to settle their differences. All our efforts to calm the situation down was fruitless as they continued to shout at the top of their voices in anger and rage.
There is this saying that goes this way, when two persons that are so In-love shout at each other on top of their voices during a fight, it's assumed that their hearts are so miles away from hearing each other even when they are so close at a particular place and time with one another. It's obvious even when we try to separate them from further fight, they continued to exchange words with each other and before you knew it, the girlfriend packed her bags and left the house and swore never to have anything to do with the boyfriend again as long as she breaths.
These two couples were before now two love birds that always disturb all the neighborhood with their love play and romance every moment they are together in the building were all of us share different apartments as neighbors. They have dated ever since I packed into my apartment for three years now, they loved each other so much and somethings I get jealous of the both because of the way they loved and treasured each other any time I see them in the compound. There were envy of all in the compound and the boyfriend told me of the days we were discussing that he was making plans on taking the relationship to the next level which was making her his wife, I was so happy and wished him well, I was waiting patiently to receive a wedding invitation card from him any moment so we can dance, drink and celebrate with him.
After the girlfriend left, I called Johnson so we could discuss what really happened that will warrant this beautiful love life all of us have cherished and envied between them in the compound just crash within a twinkle of an eye? He started explaining that he caused the whole misfortune that befall him and his relationship, he continued that he allowed friends to deceive him into believing that his girlfriend was not who she told him to be, that he should try her out with some test to be sure if she was really In-love with him and if she is faithful to him, so they agreed to place a bet on her girlfriend without her knowing that she is been tested, he allowed his friends to plant a young man to start toasting her for friendship and before you knew what was going on the young man started disturbing her for friendship which she told the young man that she has a boyfriend she loved so much and can not cheat on him for any reason, but the young man insisted and kept on trying his luck on her.
Johnson said that his girlfriend came to him and complained about a certain young man disturbing her for friendship, instead he pretended that he was not aware of what was going on. The young man continued and eventually found his way to her heart with every opportunity he could grab in order to make her give him a chance for a date. Before you knew what was happening, the young man they planted to test her bridged the contract by opening up to his girlfriend and told her everything they planned right from the beginning, Immediately the girlfriend got so angry and confronted him to really get the truth from what the young man told her, and questioning Johnson her boyfriend , he admitted that the young man was saying the truth.
His girlfriend after hearing his explanation got angry more, she felt disappointed and betrayed by the one she loved with her whole self, she decided to end the relationship.
This incident got me thinking and I began to really think in this direction. Maybe I should say this as an advice to you reading this story.
Never you allow your friends to put you off and push you to do things that you will live to regret later.
Why must you test your relationship and your partner? It's not necessary to do that, remember you are human and as human no one is perfect and you should not expect a perfect love from anyone.
Not everything that happens in your relationship that you need to share with friends, I tell you this you may not know who thinks good about you and your love life.
Do not expect much when you are in a relationship from your partner. He or she may have his or her own flaws.
Finally do not give room for third party to decide for you on how to run your relationship with your partner. Most failed relationships today have been attributed to this particular reason.
I know you will learn from Johnson's love experience and never allow yourself to make such mistake tomorrow in your own relationship.
Thanks for reading my article 🙏 Rafd9828
Lovers must know their priority, we need friends but most of the time if there is a problem within a relationship it often results in them wanting to be with their friends instead of solving it together. We are born in this imperfect life we need to do good decisions and balance them to have a good harmonious relationship. nice article it feels that my past relationship had flashbacks in this article