We ain’t picture perfect but we worth the picture still.

How do I go about this? and where do I have to start from?, anyways, I think the right place to start is from you. Yes! you of course, and it's obvious that you think you are not good enough to be admired or called up for something important. You have degraded yourself and your self-worth just because you think you are too inferior and can't measure up with people that matters in the society or association where you belong all because you dont have money or look good enough like them.

You have totally taken it up yourself to hide your potentials and abilities to make a great difference in your community just because someone in your community won an honourary award of excellence which you were supposed to win and for that reason you hybernate yourself in self-pity and regrets. You torture yourself all day and night long feeling hurt for disappointing yourself and those that trusted and believed in you.

What about you that worked so hard to achieve your dreams and after so much effort and energy been put together to achieve a positive result, yet, at the end of it all everything went down the drain and because of that, you start to look down on yourself and hate yourself.

You my friend that have done all your possible best to please your partner or your spouse who  you have been in a relationship for some times now, for these period of time you spent with your spouse or partner, you have virtually gone out of your way to try giving your partner the best of love experience he or she has never imagined or had since your spouse started being in a relationship, and at the end of the day, the same person you have been working your head off turns back at you to make you feel bad and even break your heart without regret or remorse. No matter the effort you make, still you will end up feeling hurt just because of the negative vibes you are getting from your partner.

Why will you allow someone or something to make you feel less of a human?

Why look down on yourself?

No matter how you think that the next person beside you is better than you, you are still special and unique in your own way, there is no way that person beside you will be 100% perfect more than you, there are things you too can't have in common and that is what makes you special and unique, you should hold unto that as your strength and appreciate the much you have been able to have.

For sometime now, I have been writing about human life, personal relationship with your self, and others, and if it's not important to human life I will not be discussing it and bringing it to this platform for you to read and understand the need to do everything possible to find what gives you peace, makes you happy and hold unto it. Everything we do in this life revolves around us and if we are not prepared physically, emotionally, psychologically and otherwise to face what comes to us as humans, we will end up not having the best of experiences and moments in our life time.

So always remember that in life no one is perfect, we all are striving to get to perfection and it's only when you have it at the back of your mind that's when you will stand on your ground and never accept or allow anybody or anything bring you down. Always tell yourself you are worth more than gold even in your lapses and shortcomings, always see reasons to encourage yourself, push yourself to where ever hight you want to attain.

Yes we ain’t picture perfect but we worth the picture still. Whether you feel bad about me or not, whether you want me or not, whether you like to associate yourself with me or not, the truth still remains that, I will always be myself, appreciate that person I have always been and do my best to always be amongst the best.

Don't ever look down on yourself, indeed you are so special in your own way.

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