I have so much to share, so much experience to drop here for us to really learn from. It will not be out of context to discuss today about life and the need to make every effort to have a better life and have a memorable experience that will live with you when old age come knocking at the door of our lives.
I have heard a lot of personal stories of how people were not able to live up to expectations, responsibilities and their aspirations, also how some people were not able to attain that desired dreams in their lives before living the world.
I want to ask you this important question that you really have to think about. What is keeping you from getting to that point you have ever hoped, dreamt and desired for as you were growing up?. I know most people will give one answer or the other as to why they were not able to achieve and make their dreams a reality. No matter your reasons for not living up to your dreams, I believe those reasons are not important and good enough to withhold you from getting to that place you have wished to be in life.
Often times we allow certain things that are not so important to shift our focus from achieving those plans we may have nurtured in our hearts and minds to bring to reality. In some cases we allow our personal relationships with our parents, friends and relatives to affect us mentally, emotionally, physically and psychologically and when such situations arises, we so much lose focus and the spirit to keep fighting and pushing harder to achieve our dreams. It even gets more worst when it has to do with one having a problem with own self. If care is not taken, the person may not come out of such conditions if there is no help coming from people around.
Some of the failures, misfortunes, disappointments, etc we face everyday of our lives may have happened all because we gave room to fear, doubt, disbelieve in our potentials and the ability to give ourselves a push to make a positive difference with the little opportunity that may have been given to us through fate and chance. The worst thing that will ever happen to a person is to allow himself or herself to be overwhelmed by challenges and problems that comes in our way every day of our lives. The moment you allow your challenges to hold you down and prevent you from pushing ahead, you have already accepted defeat and there is nothing you will ever do to change the outcome. But if you hold your ground and believe that your ability to overcome is above every challenges and circumstances on your way, you are already a winner and before you know it, you have already won the battle.
No matter what you are already facing as a challenge to push forward to your greatness and dreams, once your mindset is filled with all the needed energy to win, you will surely pull through.
I know you may have heard about this words of wisdom which goes this way "the way you make your bed that's the way you will lie on it". Some will also say that "it's better to start in the morning to search for the missing black goat before nightfall". What this simply implies is nothing than doing your best to push yourself in the positive direction to make a better living with your life on time.
You do not need any body to take you by the hand to make your life a better one, all you really need is to tell yourself that you can achieve and have anything your heart desires, then put all efforts and arsenal to work without fear or doubt in your mind, be positive, be patience and believe in yourself even when it seems so tough and rough on the way, and within a short while, you will get result that will put smile on your face forever.
So my dear friend who is reading this right now, don't give up okay, remember that life is too short, you need to ginger yourself to achieve that success you have dreamt for.
Let me use this medium to thank you so much for not dropping on the way so far in this perilous time where everything in the world is sounding like a broken record, I urge you to always stay focused and try giving yourself a chance to make a positive difference in that environment, society and community you find yourself.
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Life is really short. Do whatever makes you happy without expecting anything in return