Grow through what you go through.

Life comes with it own experiences and in these experiences we learn our lessons either in positive or negative ways, this is what makes us who we are. Let me it bring down to you reading this article, As your life is different from mine so is your responsibilities and purposes are very different from my mine as well. You go through a lot of huddles and stuffs like that everyday, you wake up and go out to achieve your set goals for each day, during the day's activities you are faced with different challenges and problems even after the day's work, you go home and still face the house issues, my questions to you right now are these;

How do you avail yourself the opportunity to learn from our daily struggles?

Do you take it as it comes to you without seeing the need to learn from them?

Do you just feel less concern about them and less worry of your challenges and setbacks that comes to you? or

Do you allow yourself to grow through what you go through?

Well, you have every right to make the best choice you feel will make you achieve your goals in life as a person, but one thing you need to know about and something that I know will help you more in life if you adhere to it, is to find a way to make yourself grow through what you go through. You may ask; What do I mean by that? Growing through what you go through in your daily life does not mean you should learn and grow to be wicked and treat people that come your way anyhow you feel like just because someone you met out there maltreated you and made you feel sad and in other to learn and grow from your experience, you decide to treat other people you meet on your way badly. No! This is not what I am talking about.

That someone refused to assist you when you needed a help from him or her does not mean you should learn from it and grow your mindset into becoming a stingy person who refuses to help others when they need your help all because you are learning from your past experience with people. This is not what this article is trying to portray, whether you had different bad experience in the past with people you know or with people you don't know, that should not make you grow yourself in the negative way or trying to live and act like them.

But the growth I am trying to explain here is the growth in the right direction, growth in your consciences to live right even in the moment of sadness and challenges, growth in positive direction in your relationship with the next person beside you, growth on how you handle situations and challenges of life when they come knocking at your door. Growth in your personal life, growth in your religious life and growth in your personal contributions to the growth of your community where you belong to.

In as much you pass through a lot of struggles, challenges and issues everyday of your life, that does not mean you should allow yourself to be changed negatively because of the experiences you once had in life, rather what you should be considering your mind to is how to make yourself an antidote to negative energies that comes from the daily experiences in life and try to outlive those bad vibes and negative experiences with good deeds and good lifestyle.

Find a way of making yourself stronger to overcome those forces that can pull you down whether it's from people you know or not, make your spirit stronger by focusing your energy to things that will grow you positively, spiritually and otherwise, never allow what you are passing through to change your real self, rather make every effort to show more strength and courage to your challenges and troubles that you are above them and will make it better than as it was.

Our parents most especially our mothers are the typical example of persons you should learn from, they always grow from strength to strength even when they are faced with challenges and troubles of raising and fending for their babies, they never give up on their babies right from child birth, they always show true definition of strength, love, endurance, perseverance, focus, hard work, courage and any other choice of word you may think of to explain their own abilities and capabilities to grow through what they go through in life. They never accept defeat or allow themselves to be overwhelmed by the challenges of bringing up their offsprings as they go through tough times in life, rather they grow from strength to strength through what they go through in life. I will stop here for now but I tell you this my friend;

Dear friend, start today and try your best to positively grow through what you go through in life and never allow yourself lose focus whatsoever.

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