Fine rotten apple!

The journey of love and relationship is something one need to really ask himself or herself if he or she is truly ready to start. I will not waste time but to go straight to hit the nail on the head.

I have come to conclusion that the journey of relationship is not an easy walk. How would you digest this situation where you have someone you truly love and have shown her so much attention, on the other hand she professes the same love to you but her actions is the opposite of what she confesses to you.

Each passing day because of her weird attitudes towards you, you begin to wonder if you are truly getting it right with the way you show her how much you truly love her. When you approach her to know what could cause her weird attitudes towards you, Instead of her to really calm down and understand where you are coming from, she begins to talk down on you, blackmail you emotionally, get you confused with so many awkward statements and make you feel wrong for even coming to her to complain about her weird attitudes towards you.

In some cases she begins to accuse you of always listening to outsider, friends and allowing them to feed you with wrong information on how to run your relationship, the most painful part of it is when you try to make her understand that she is getting everything all wrong about her thoughts towards you, instead of her to see reasons and truly accept what you are trying to say and make correction or redress her statement, she rather insist that what she is saying is the truth and that you are trying to dodge from the truth.

She does anything she wants without communicating with you, Infact you get to know  her Intentions and plans when she has finished carrying it out. She feels that she does not owe you any explanation towards any thing she wants to do. She does as she likes and feels it's okay that way and you can deal with it if you don't feel good about it. Nothing that she takes serious with you.

She keeps friends that are so wayward in their mode of dressing, lifestyle and character, when you want to tell her about the type of friends she is keeping, she gets offended and start to defend them, cover them up and make you look like the bad person when you are trying to make her see reasons over the type of friends she is keeping. Sometimes these friends of hers will invite her over for parties at late night hours and even make her sleep outside her house all night till the next day, when she comes back you complain about it she gets offended. In all of these her weird attitudes and behaviours, she still pretends that everything is going on well with you and her in the relationship and that you are the one that is really working yourself up.

When you have such woman or man in your relationship, what do you think will be the state of your mind, emotion and heart in this type of relationship? The answer is confusion, pain, sadness, heartbreaks and all the negative energies that are not healthy to your body system, heart and emotions. When you see yourself in such type of relationship, it will be difficult for you to really make the best out of your relationship.

It's even worst when the affected person is so much In-love with this person portraying all these weird attitudes and character, it will be very difficult for the affected person to really make the right decision either to quit the relationship or not.

It's an unhealthy relationship when you find yourself in such type of relationship. One thing for sure is that gradually love starts to fade away, hate and other negative feelings starts to occupy that heart that once loved and cared. I am really talking out of experience because I have been in such situation, I was so helpless and never knew how to handle the situation not until my heart that was once filled with love started changing to heart filled with pain, sadness and hate due to her constant weird attitudes she never wanted to change for better.

If you are in such condition in your relationship, please do all you can to make it work for better, but if you try and nothing changes please, try and walk away from such relationship because the more you are in such relationship the more you cage yourself and mortgage your heart from meeting that right person that will give you  that desired love and peace of mind. Once you make a bold step to move on my dear, you will surely find that joy that knows no bound in another person.

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