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EARN A FRIEND FOR IT'S A SACRED MAHOGANY
A good friend is like a greese that lubricates and enhances good performance of an engine machine. Most of people in life have had one or more experiences in life either in positive or negative way because of the type of friend they have kept in their lives. When one makes the wrong choices of friends in his life, it must surely not favour him at last and regrets will always be his companion through out the time.
I have seen and heard most people go about to ask for friendship and at times go extra length to throw themselves by force at the next person in other for the person to accept their request, and because of the way the friendship was built, the survival of the friendship surely may not last for a period of time. Have you ever wondered why most friendships crash within short time of starting?
One can not stay all alone and expect to excel and be successful in life, we all need someone who will always give us a helping hand to lift us up to our greatness. You may not need so much people to build your friendship, all you need is that one person that will always stand with you and help you push those walls that have been set before you to prevent your success from coming through.
Most of us have been lifted up so high to that success point and greatness all because we were able to align ourselves with that true friend that saw their selves in us and made our problems their own. You may not achieve that if truly you have a negative understanding and approach to life.
There are several factors that surely enables one to really earn a true friendship that will warrant one to give all within his reach to his friends at any particular time.
Charisma.
Self control.
Upright attitude.
Mental reasoning and understanding.
Temperamental control.
Mode of dressing.
Personal relationship.
Personal sense of humour.
Unbiased mindset.
The ability to be steadfast in all you do.
The level of your love towards the next person beside you.
Your ability to control and manage issues.
The effort you put on others more than to yourself.
The ability to give listening ear to people when they need your opinion.
The ability to make sacrifices.
All of these factors and many more that I may not remember to mention in this article are the things that makes one to earn true friendship, you may be in your school, office or community where you meet people every day and the way you behave to your friends and colleagues and also the way you handle issues that come your way may attract someone from afar who may have been watching you closely and seeing the way you handle things to become interested to be in friendship with you.
You will not earn that true friend that will stand by you with your bad character and attitudes towards other people you meet on your way. In other to have that person that will speak out for you when you have lost your voice, in other to have that friend that will stand as your eyes to help you see far, you need to live right and be good to people and to yourself, and by so doing you already have earned for yourself a friend that will stand till the test of time.
So dear friend, always do your best to always allow your character to speak loud for you and attract those people that will help you reach that point of success you have prayed and hoped for. Also, don't go for those people that will not add value to your life, do not look for those people that will always come to you when the coast is clear and when there is stormy weather they turn their backs on you and leave you to your fate.
Finally, earn a friend, for it's a sacred mahogany.
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