My imaginary tree
Ever since I was a child, I have been fond of eating "dried fruits".
The most enjoyable thing about winter, I thought, was the taste of nuts.
Whenever someone asked me about my favorite dried fruits, I used to think, whose name should I take first? Because I liked all of them.
I first respond to "pine nuts, cashews, almonds, walnuts, peanuts, dried apricots," and then I said, just
And I always like to eat nuts while walking.
Whenever my father saw me, he would tell me about their benefits and I gladly listened to all the benefits and hoped that I would definitely benefit from them.
Most of our uncles used to send a lot of dried fruits basket from their area. Once we went to live in our uncle's area at his mysterious call.
They lived in a mountainous area and nearby there was a gardener often planted and protected the garden.
I would go to them and see them planting and working and meditating on how they were planting and protecting them.
I loved planting and wanted to plant and protect the plants myself.
There was a sense of peace and happiness in walking in the garden and seeing the flowers, smelling their fragrance, and eating fruit from the fruit trees.
I used to get information about plants from the gardeners there.
I had a lot of questions about plants but most of the time I would ask and often I would be silent.
One day while walking in the garden, I came up with the idea that there should be a tree with all the dried fruits on it.
I wish there was a tree on which all the nuts had grown and people could eat them all together.
Before Gardner came the next day, I started preparing to plant in the garden.
When the gardener came and saw me, he asked me what I was doing. I said that I was doing something very important.
They looked at me intently to see what I was doing.
I took cashews, walnuts, peanuts, pine nuts, almonds, dried apricots, all of them, and started to grow my imaginary tree.
He asked me what I wanted to do with all of them.
So I told them about my imaginary tree, that I was trying to plant a tree that had all the nuts on it and could eat all the fruit from the same tree.
It is my wish to grow such a tree.
The Gardner laughed at my innocence and his laughed which made me feel strange.
Then He tried to convince me that such a tree could not exist.
They told me that each tree has its own fruit. It is not possible for all the fruits to grow together on one tree.
I was very sorry that the tree I was thinking about could not really grow.
Even now, when I think of that, I laugh, and the desire to re-emerge that I wish I had planted that tree at that time.
***Sometimes a person thinks a lot but it is not necessary that all his desires be fulfilled***
But we must never give up, and try to prove ourselves by doing something new maybe the world can benefit from it.
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Radar
Flights on this route were suspended for a few days in April 2010 due to a volcanic eruption in Iceland. This stalemate shows how much the modern world depends on airplanes. Not only do 10 million people travel by air every day, but the temporary suspension of this air route alone has reduced the output of the global economy by five billion dollars.
Air travel required many inventions. Not just jet engines, airplanes, etc., but many other inventions to make travel possible and safe. And the story of one of them begins with the "death ray."
No, not by that, but by trying to invent it. It was 1935. The British Air Force was concerned about lagging behind Germany in military technology. And the idea of a ray of death was interesting to them. A reward of up to 1,000 pounds was announced for anyone who killed a sheep a hundred paces away. (No one has won this award to date).
Suppose you have four liters of water one kilometer above the ground and its temperature is 37 degrees and you have to heat it to 41 degrees. How much radio frequency power would be required to do this from five kilometers away?
Skip Wilkins was not stupid. It is understood that four liters of blood is in the human body at 37 degrees and if it can be heated so much, the pilot can be killed in the air.
The answer to this question showed that it is impossible, but at the same time, they saw an opportunity. The Air Force had a budget for research and could use it to solve an alternative problem.
What Wilkins considered was that if radio waves could be echoed and echoed, the location of the oncoming plane could be detected long before it was seen. Watson Watts came up with the idea. The Air Force was very interested in that.
What Scop Wilkins suggested was radar. The Germans, Japanese, and Americans worked on it separately, but in 1940 the British succeeded. It was a resonant cavity magnetron. Radar transmitter that was much more powerful than its predecessors. But Britain had a problem. The bombing of German planes destroyed British factories.
In this case, it was not possible to set up a new production facility for this new device. This work could have been done in American factories. There have been talks with the United States on what to get from the United States in return. But the situation in Britain became so bad that Churchill finally adopted a new strategy. He made it clear to the United States that he had it and should help.
In August 1940, Eddie Brown, a physicist from Wales, took a large black metal box and sat in a taxi in London. The box was placed on the roof. It contained about a dozen magnetrons. He then took the train to Liverpool. Took the ship from here. Will the German U-boat sink it? In that case, will the magnets fall into the hands of the Germans? To avoid this, holes were drilled in the box so that it would sink to the bottom of the sea. But that did not happen and the ship reached the United States.
It surprised the Americans. He was years behind in this research. MIT received funding to build a new laboratory. Industrialists took part in it.
This laboratory was very successful. The work of ten researchers won the Nobel Prize. This led to the development of radar that could accurately track airplanes and submarines. He helped a lot in the war. The war ended in 1945. With the end of the war, work on it also slowed down.
The number of passenger planes in the sky increased. Radar could have been used to prevent accidents, but it was slow. It has been installed at some airports. Not at all. The pilots would tell us in advance what their flight route would be, which would indicate that it was someone else's. And the protocol to prevent a collision in the air was simply "look and show yourself."
On June 30, 1956, two passenger planes took off from Los Angeles Airport with a three-minute break. One was to go to Chicago, one to Kansas. The two had the same route on the Grand Canyon. The only difference was the height. Storm clouds came. A pilot radioed to get permission to change altitude. They were allowed to go a thousand feet above the storm ...
No one knows exactly what happened. At that time there were no black boxes in the ships and neither of the two ships survived that day. From the debris scattered for miles, it was estimated that when the two collided with each other, their angle would be twenty-five degrees. The death toll was 128.
Accidents happen. The accident prompted an early action. Within two years, air safety laws began to be enacted. Radar began to be installed in the world. Air traffic in the world today is much higher than it was then. At major airports, planes take off and land every thirty seconds. But air collisions are extremely rare, regardless of weather conditions. There are many factors behind them but the biggest of them is radar.
The question of airborne accidents is being raised again today. There is also the arrival of drones in the busy sky. These drones are being used for many tasks, from filming to spraying crops. Companies like Amazon believe that they can also help deliver goods to people's homes. Drones have sensor evasion technology and it's great. But is that enough? Will new innovations be needed for safe air travel? New innovations, new needs, new technologies, it all goes hand in hand.
***Deadline radar is an important tool for saving air travel and saving lives.***
Secrets of the human psyche
Do you consider human personality to be a riddle and a mystery?
Do you consider the human brain to be the black box of the human body?
If so, you may want to take advantage of the writing of this article.
The understanding of human psychology has changed dramatically in the last century as medical, scientific, and psychological experts have made significant advances in this knowledge. I will try to present the complex ideas and complex ideas of these experts at your service in plain language. Your comments and questions will help me improve them. The first episode is about Sigmund Freud and the unconscious.
A new revolution in the history of human psychology began when a patient in Vienna, Europe, told her doctor, Joseph Brier, that she was not only pregnant but also the father of her child. Hearing this news, the hands and feet of this doctor became swollen. He knew he had no romance or sex with the patient. The doctor was a good man at heart and could rarely do any harm to anyone except his wife and children. He was so frightened by the notoriety that he closed his clinic and left the city, but before leaving, he referred the patient to Dr. Sigmund Freud. Freud successfully treated the patient and proved that he was a patient I am known by the pseudonym ANNA O) who was not pregnant but was suffering from hysteria. While treating a patient with hysteria, Freud was introduced to the human subconscious and learned that hysteria is related to uncomfortable sexual feelings and contradictions in the patient's subconscious.
Freud told us that one of the most important basic psychological problems of human beings is anxiety and anxiety is related to psychological contradictions. To understand human psychology and its contradictions, Freud proposed a theory.
**The human mind has three parts:**-
**ID** which is related to human instincts
**SUPEREGO**. Which has to do with human moral traditions
Ego Of **EGO Ed** and **Super Ego**. Internal and external life. I try to strike a balance.
Ego in a healthy person. His base And. It manages to balance its superego, while in an unhealthy person the ego does not balance that and it pushes its contradictions into the subconscious and becomes a victim of psychological problems.
I try to illustrate this contradiction with an example.
A woman carries her six-year-old son and 36-year-old husband to lunch in her car. The naughty and cuddly son says he has to go to McDonald's to have Big Mac French fries and Coke lunch while the husband says it's not good for his son to eat junk food. He wants to go to a restaurant where he can find fresh vegetables, fruits, and juices. She does not want to upset her son or her husband. So she falls victim to a contradiction. Ad in Human Psychology. He is a son himself. Superego A responsible but oppressive father. And Ego is a compassionate mother. When the mother cannot resolve this contradiction, she becomes anxious.
Sigmund Freud gave many gifts to the knowledge of human psychology. He told us through his treatment that when a person's consciousness cannot cope with a painful experience or observation, he pushes him into the unconscious. After going into the unconscious, the experience either comes in dreams or causes mental illness. Sigmund Freud taught his students that psychosis can cure many mental and physical ailments. Sigmund Freud's psychotherapy became very popular in Europe and North America in the twentieth century.
Over time, that is likely to change. Some of Freud's theories were proved wrong and some were confirmed, which is typical of any medical, scientific, or psychological tradition.
Sigmund Freud told us that we need to protect the mental health of human beings
**DEFENCE MECHANISMS**
Can be tested. They compiled a list of these precautions and divided them into healthy and unhealthy measures. Freud outlined only ten precautions, followed by his daughter Anna Freud, friend Carl Young, contemporary Alfred Adler, and fan Victor Frankel. So far, about 30 security measures have been identified. All of these precautions are related to human consciousness and unconsciousness.
When a person suffers from a mental problem or mental illness when he goes to a traditional doctor, he treats him with medicine, but if he goes to a non-traditional doctor, he treats him with medicine. Also recommends therapy.
A therapist teaches the patient mental health and introduces him to conscious and unconscious factors and teaches him how to live a healthy and calm life. I just want to point out in this column three unhealthy and two unhealthy precautions so that you can know some secrets of human psychology.
**Acting Out**
These precautionary measures are taken by young people with psychological problems. When they are angry or angry with someone, instead of expressing their anger to the person they are angry with and find a satisfactory solution to the problem through dialogue, they go elsewhere and express their dissatisfaction and destruction. Do work This method is harmful to them as well as to society.
**DENIAL**
This precaution is used by those who cannot see the facts. They deny the facts and live in a world of dreams and fantasies and when the negative consequences of their actions come out, they are either shocked or blame others for it.
**MAGICAL THINKING**
In this unhealthy precautionary measure, people seek out magical solutions to real problems that do not solve them. An example of this is couples who do not have children after marriage. Instead of going to a doctor or a specialist, they go to the poor who treat them with a punk amulet, which deceives them.
I have mentioned only three unhealthy precautions here. There are many other unhealthy precautions that hinder the mental health of human beings. Here are two healthy precautions against them:-
**HUMOR**
Humor is a healthy precaution. Many people also do their catharsis with humor and find their problems. That is why I advise people to read the writings of comedians so that they develop a sense of humor. Let me also mention here that some people also make jokes and sarcasm under the guise of humor which can make friends sad. The difference between humor and satire is psychologically important.
**SUBLIMATION**
This is also a healthy precaution. An example of this is the people who had excessive aggression and became boxers or wrestlers. Now they express aggression in the arena like Muhammad Ali Clay or in the arena like Gamma Wrestler.
Another example is men who wanted to drive fast and became ambulance drivers. Now he fulfills his desire to drive fast and also serves the nation like ambulance drivers.
The third example of this is the writers and poets, journalists, and intellectuals who solve their problems in poetry, drama columns, and novels. This keeps them mentally healthy and makes their nation Christian.
Let me also mention here the fact that when a few people become the social, religious, or political leaders of a nation, their words and deeds can affect the people of the whole nation. Leaders and leaders who are mentally immature and suffer from mental health problems due to unhealthy security measures can harm the nation and those healthy and mature adults can lead the nation in the right direction. ۔ Like humans, families, and nations use unhealthy and unhealthy precautions that show us how mentally mature and wise they are.
**Intelligent political leaders play an important role in the evolution of nations.**
Wedding anniversary
When people celebrate their wedding anniversary with great joy and enthusiasm, it encourages them also the joy that they will spend the coming years together with love in the same way. And it is important to strengthen your healthy and beautiful relationship.
Today I have been married for ten years and I am very happy to say that I have had these happy years of my life.
Still today we are both bound together in a bond that we have bound with true love and sincerity.
And I hope that we will continue to live this relationship with the same sincerity and love until we die.
Many people are surprised to hear that we were both eighteen years old when we got married.
My husband taught me, true love, taught me everything I didn't know. He always loves me and cares for me that's what I want from him. And in many places, I did my best as I can, with my husband. I have always been with him where I was needed.
He wished he could continue his education after marriage which was his parent's dream. I respected his wish and fully supported him and I am happy that he completed his 18 years of education after marriage.
And I pray that he will continue his education as he wants.
I think It is very important for the joyful wedding anniversary that you are taking good care of the marital relationship.
Every wedding anniversary that came into our lives also brought us a full sense of happiness when we get each other forever. We also celebrate this day with joy because it brought all the happiness in our lives that we were wished for.
We had a hard time getting to each other because our parents were afraid that we would both move on and leave each other because we were so young.
But every year we spend more time together with more love and extra care.
And it's happier too for all the people who were worried about us.
Because our children were born late, We celebrated the first five years of our marriage as happy as children.
But in our happiness, we always wished we had children too.
Because we used to wait for them to come every year and the rest of the people also prayed for us that God would soon grant us a blessing of children.
It's our trust that, God does not disappoint His servants. He gives them what they desire, and we ask Him repeatedly.
And when we celebrated the sixth anniversary of our marriage, we were blessed with a beautiful daughter with the mercy of Allah Almighty.
And so for the rest of the years to come, we felt happier because we had the blessing of having children. And it is not enough to give thanks to Allah because He has blessed us with both sons and daughters.
Now we can add our children to our happiness. And the joy of being a parent is greater than any other joy.
On the day of our wedding anniversaries. We look at the mistakes of the last year and promise not to bring them up in the years to come.
I wish to cherish this beautiful relationship with love and sincerity and honesty in every moment of my life.
Our efforts continue to make our relationship stronger and more reliable.
And my heartfelt prayer is that all those who want to enjoy life with their partner, May they get all those joys soon. And let them always keep their happiness strong.
*"In order for a relationship to last longer, Love, trust/ confidence, and full sincerity are essential"*
You must also share the joys and celebrations that come into your life. Because of the relationship of humanity, the happiness of other human beings also feels like their own happiness.
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Reasons, why hands often tremble??
Have you ever felt your hands tremble during employment interviews, meeting a crucial person, or at the other time, but why is that?
In fact, most hand tremors are the result of certain lifestyle habits.
These habits are as follows.
Thyroid diseases
The endocrine gland could be a small gland within the neck that helps control a range of bodily functions, including the center, digestion, and metabolism. Yes, bodyweight starts to decrease while hands start to shake.
Effect of medication
Many times the consequences of medicines cause the system to send incorrect signals to the muscles. There are a variety of medicines that may cause this effect, including sedatives, pressure level medications, and asthma medications If your hands start shaking, consult your doctor.
Lack of sleep
Excessive sleep deprivation causes the hands to tremble an excessive amount of. consistent with physicians, lack of sleep greatly increases the body's tremors.
Too much caffeine, nicotine, etc.
Too much caffeine can increase physical tremors, as can nicotine, which may cause the center rate to extend.
Anxiety
If you're a speaker somewhere and you see your hands trembling like leaves, it's not surprising, mental anxiety is sometimes the cause. The system moves to regulate physical discomfort, causing tremors within the hands.
Depression
People with depression also face this problem, the reason for which is currently unknown to scientists.
Parkinson's disease
The disease affects only a few people, but when the hands begin to tremble an excessive amount, it will be an indication of degenerative disorder, especially in adulthood, the disease isn't seen in adolescents.
Is there a cure?
I have seen this kind of disease in some people. I had an aunt I know her very well. She also had this kind of disease because she could not sleep. She could not sleep for several weeks and took a lot of medicine to sleep.
Health is a great blessing of God. We should be thankful to Him every moment that He has made us a complete and healthy human being.
But there are also many people in the world who suffer from some kind of disease.
*Any of you who have read about it or have suffered from this type of disease will definitely tell about it in comments. Of course, our knowledge will increase.*
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Why divorce happens and what happens after that?
Most people are also afraid of marriage for fear of divorce. And that's why divorce is a big issue in the world. Divorce can make life miserable. Divorce is not just two lives, It separates the two families. All your relationships with this marriage end. Even good moral relationships that have no guilt. People who have felt the separation of their relationship, such people give birth (family planning) late so that the lives of the children will not be ruined by the separation.
When a tree is uprooted, it falls down with its fruit.
If a person decides to separate before having a child, he still accepts it, but after having a child, this decision becomes very difficult for him. After having children, parents should think more about children instead of themselves.
There are many reasons for separation. Sometimes the separation is only from the man and sometimes only from the woman. But if the decision to separate is made by both. It means, So the limit of tolerance of both is over.
Lack of endurance
Most of the people in the world endure adversity, But when husbands and wives get involved in domestic disputes on a daily basis And as they fight back and forth, their endurance diminishes. It is very important for them to keep calm after every problem. Because the trouble will come and go away, But the bitterness created by the quarrel will grow inside them. if they put it on their inner permanently, it could have an effect on something else. And when they begin to accumulate a great deal of bitterness, they turn into a whirlwind. And that storm could ever get out, And when the tolerance limit is gone, there will be nothing left in the relationship, then all that is left in their minds is that we will not be together anymore. And that very moment the alarm goes on. When the thought of separation comes to them, they erase all the good memories from their minds. Except that they are in a very difficult situation right now and If they keep going that way, the problems will increase.
Maybe it's their selfish thinking that separates them from each other.
I think It is a failure after which very few people are able to regain success.
Grief and anxiety after divorce
Often, even after a divorce, a person does not remain completely calm. Divorce not only breaks the relationship but also can break the person from inside.
Most people in the world look at divorced people with strange eyes. The strange style of looking makes a person more anxious.
Maybe the Men come far out of their failures early because maybe they are stronger or they don't feel much grief.
Problems are also increasing for most women. Because a woman is weak on the inside, but after making a strong decision, she begins to feel strong. But some people don't want to see a woman strong. Often questions are raised that make a woman weak. The love with which she decorated the beautiful house. people always reminds her, the beauty of that house and that love. But when she wants to forget everything and move on. She wants to erase all the marks on which she was in trouble.
But sometimes she regrets that she made the wrong decision in a hurry. She should have endured more.
That anxiety was still acceptable, but now it is even more difficult to bear the world alone. The world begins to look at her with narrow-mindedness or sympathy.
People who consider themselves weak after divorce may not be able to achieve further success but those who strengthen themselves after their divorce will be able to achieve further success.
When it comes to separation, both should decide with their heart and not with their mind
*Most people make an emotional decision but regret it all their life. Such people must make a decision by thinking from the heart and not from the mind. Please Don't let a wrong decision ruin your life.*
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Love Marriage Or Arrange Marriage
Marriage is a very important human need and all religions give it the right to marry.
But most people think that we will marry the one we like and some of them think that we will marry the one that our parents like.
Similarly, some parents leave it for their children to marry as they wish and some parents decide for themselves that they will marry their children.
The benefits of love marriage and some issues
Love lives like a force inside a person and also gives him a feeling of happiness. Love is very important to human beings. When you love someone and someone loves you too, it becomes a love relation. And when a person promotes this love relationship, So he adds the person of his choice to his life, that is, marries him so that he can live with him all his life. If a person finds a truly loving life partner, what greater reward could there be for his life? By marrying for love, the two understand each other better. They are like two birds chirping together in a tree. They eat together and fly together to enjoy life.
Man marries for love, but it is also very important to maintain this marriage. Because if you can't handle it, your success will be a big failure. And in the eyes of other people, you will see everything of a failed man. If you bring your love into your life, under the pretext of your love, then all your life spend with love. Because true love is made by combining many things.
Your faith, trust, confidence, sacrifice, sense of responsibility all combined in love
When you marry your love you have to take care of all these things that along with love, you give him the rest of the facilities as well. When your mate needs trust, trust him or her, and don't let doubts get in the way. Because when you have given your life to Him, what greater faith can there be?
You must also be prepared to make every sacrifice for your life partner. Because there is nothing more precious in your life.
Your trust and faith build self-confidence in your life partner. His confidence in you grows as much as you give. And because of their trust and confidence, you treat each other as your best responsibility.
If you want to be alone for a while, your partner will not let you be alone. He will be with you like a shadow... just kidding
Arrange Marriage
You will need a lot of hard work for a marriage that now takes place without knowing each other without love. Because you made that marriage out of someone else's choice, you have to know a lot more about it. By the way, while living together, the habits and morals of each other are gradually assessed. But the personality will take some time to recognize the truth and then love it. And if you do not understand this person, then you will surely complain to your loved ones because of whom you have been included in your life. Because man gladly accepts his choice, but if there is a mistake in someone else's choice, He is immediately ready to complain. You have to think before you trust each other. Sacrificing for one another will also bring fear. Both of them will be waiting for the initiative to come from the other side, then I will respond. It is important to give each other time. So that a good reward may come to him. But not giving time will not achieve anything special.
I have always loved a love marriage
It feels great when the man wants someone and when someone wants him
In a love marriage, the man lived his life happily
The man had to do, his own choice
He can never blame anyone else
He maintains his relationship with complete honesty
His love grows over time
Whenever he thinks about the intensity of getting it
The joy of getting her he wants is always fresh
He always promises to be with her
For him, his relationship is the most precious
***When we add someone to our life with all our desire, that love should never be allowed to diminish***
You will all be told about your choice. Do you like the wedding of your love or arrange?. I'd love to know your thoughts.
Be happy yourself, keep others happy too
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Why don't marriages take place?
Not getting married is such a giant issue and you'll gauge it by the actual fact that while you're reading this text, at the identical time every fourth girl within the subcontinent is 30 years old. watching for a life partner, and their hair has turned white.
As a private of the identical society, this problem is pulling us towards itself.
For the last three or four months, we've got been researching what's the obstacle within the way of marriage and the way this obstacle may be removed ???
In this regard, we spoke to over three thousand people and got their opinions.
Then grouped of these opinions ...
We made small slips.
And then they found a connection.
According to our research and survey, the four biggest barriers to marriage are four things.
**Which are written very well below**:-
****1-Dowry****
The biggest obstacle is dowry, parents often get a relationship but there's no money for a dowry.
Dowry means humiliating the girl's parents most that they need to repay the debt for the remainder of their lives, while dowry means the daughter's husband is indebted before marriage and his daughter is shipped to a debtor's house. This problem affects the majority of the poor and middle-class people.
Due to which plenty of marriages haven't taken place or don't seem to be going down.
****2-Castes****
This is the plague that has left no class, rich and poor, ignorant and educated, even the pious class, all naked during this bath.
Because of this caste, quite 1000 relationships are rejected each day.
If that's only the difficulty of caste is solved, then lots of marriages will happen in an exceedingly few days.
****3-Cowardly greed ideal****
Thus, cowardice is the reason behind almost every problem and it's a broad topic. But we especially consider cowardice to be a serious problem.
Some parents don't marry their daughters because they think they must study, then get employment, so marry so their life may be better.
But after studying, trying to find employment, then eating their money for 2 years, the girl is asked to seem at the link now.
Such a woman who did not belong to a rich family is getting near to the age of 40 years. Cowards don't seem to be only parents but also daughters. many people gave me the opinion that they do not get the hero or ideal they require, then in some unspecified time in the future they simply hug the characterless man watching for Valentine.
Some girls become lovely, in order that they don't get hitched with because they're afraid that they're going to not be ready to make merry there. the largest problem of not getting married because of cowardice arises when a lady or a boy falls taken with and therefore the family doesn't accept it but still, a major number feels ashamed to urge married.
****4-Second marriages****
Unfortunately, there's a fear in our society that remarriage may be a great injustice.
On the one hand, in our languages, the name of the opposite wife is so terrible, Sutan, Bin, etc.
Which people are terrified of.
Indian culture, rituals, movies, dramas, and soup serials have ruined the lives of Muslims of the subcontinent.
****Solution******:-**
We need to run a full-fledged movement ...
Absolutely boycott wedding halls, lavish weddings, dowry, bridesmaids, extravagant spending on decorations, appearances, expensive and really expensive dresses, and caste.
There should be a whole ban on eating at the house of ladies.
Marriage should be very simple and may be performed in an exceeding mosque.
The total wedding expenses shouldn't be quite one groom's salary or monthly income.
Marriage documents and procedures are very simple ...
Barat Band Baja is banned ...
A large wedding function must only be the function of Walima.
That too in keeping with the power of the bridegroom ...
While the govt. should make law in line with which no girl or boy can get admission within the university unless he brings the wedding certificate with him.
The government should also impose an entire ban on jobs before the wedding of dowry, bride, and groom.
The job should be only for married women.
Society may promote joint marriages where there are only 1 simple dish and a maximum number of marriages.
The custom of second marriage should be made common.
The wives of the boys whose financial and financial means are available should increase their capacity.
God is the best rewarder ...
In a neighborhood or union council where a widow or divorced woman is present, the chairman is to blame for assisting her in remarrying.
****Remember that****:-
Adultery is on the increase thanks to the shortage of early marriages.
Femininity is disappearing,
Masculinity is being lost,
Misbehavior is becoming common,
Social inequalities are emerging,
Little girls are being raped and murdered,
The evils of greed and immortality are on the increase.
If nothing is believed of now, then the time to return is looking ahead to us with more destruction and ruin.
And most of all, we all need to answer to God.
You will also allow us to know your thoughts ...
***I wish this writing would sink into your heart***
*The only desire is to jot down some words which will stop someone from going astray and whether or not he doesn't stop, he will certainly start thinking.*
**Thanks for reading..**
Children need attention all the time
I am telling you my story of yesterday. After finishing all my work in the evening, I activated my read.cash account and start reading the article. I take full care of my children from the morning. Because they move around the house all the time. And I keep forbidding them to tamper with things. Especially things that are not used by them or things that can cause harm. I never thought I would be separated from the children at home and I thought everyone else would keep an eye on them. But my children get a lot of realization as to why the mother is sitting apart from us or what she is not giving us care or not paying attention. So often they start to cry or go away and get involved in mischief. But to date, they have not done anything that could have caused much harm. Because one of our spouses must take care of them at all times. So that they are not shocked to be left alone and ignored for some time. But even in their mischief, they had no idea what they were doing. Because the rest of the family got involved in their own affairs and they got a chance to do mischief alone.
They went to the kitchen, picked up matches box from a height, and started playing with that. While I have told them that it is dangerous and that is why I keep it away from them. Maybe they were afraid of that, so they hid in a different place, thinking that their mother would not be able to see. They went into the drawing-room and sat among the sofas and played matches.
We were busy with our own work and no one paid attention to where the children were playing.
Suddenly there was a loud scream and they kept shouting again and again. Mama Baba, hurry up. please help please help. We all ran away from our place like them from where their voice was coming to us.
When we got there, we were shocked and terrified.
There was a fire, the sofas were burning, and they were standing in the corner shouting to save us.
I quickly pulled the children out and their father wandered around looking for water.
Thankfully there was a gallon of clean drinking water nearby. And I don't understand the panic. I was just loving the kids because they were terrified and full of fear. But his father hurriedly poured water and put out the fire. But thankfully the fire was extinguished instead of burning in the curtains.
The children were afraid enough because they had seen the fire very close to them. When I hugged them to make them feel relaxed, then they kissed me and promised me that next time they never do such a dangerous and harmful deed again.
I was just wondering what I would do if something happened to my children.
Because children are parents, everything happens
I have been loving the shocked and upset children for a long time. Thank God Allah saved them today.
May Allah always keep all the children safe.
But all day long I've been worried about how much the kids pay attention and often when we can't get them to do anything
Some children become irritable because their parents do not pay attention to them.
By the way, children are very delicate and innocent, but they need the full attention of Baba mama and the rest of the people.
Often, They want their parents to leave their jobs and go with us. Just pay attention to us.
But sometimes we don't pay much attention to them because of our important work which makes them deprived.
But I also learned that children are the first to call on their parents for help. I liked what they said yesterday that they called us on time.
Seeing your loved one, at a loss is beyond human emotion
Often calling someone for help saves a person's life.
And the joy of saving one's life by reaching one's help in time always calms us.
Thanks,
Mother's lap
The peaceful place in the world
The mother is the one who gives comfort to the children in her lap.
The mother's shadow is very dear to the children
If the mother prays, mercy will rise
Heaven is under mother's feet
Anyone who knows the status of the mother, He understood the achievements
The price of a drop of milk, There can be no wealth of the world
Taught humanity
Mother woke up and rocked the swing
Mother, if you call from the heart, Be born in a storm
Mother's prayers will be honored
Mercy will be found at the lap of the mother
Never leave the mother's footsteps
Never turn away from your mother
There is a pure relationship, mother
We can never pay our mother's dues
We can't pay our mother's dues even if we want to, The way the mother has taken us in her womb and endured every moment of pain. We can't pay a single moment of her. We only feel the pain when we do it ourselves. And the mother never even counts the moments that she bears for us. We can never pay for it with our whole lives. But even a prayer from her heart improves our whole life.
But as the child grows older, he must understand the worries and difficulties that his mother has endured for him. The way she wakes up and puts her baby to sleep, on her lap. The way she left her food and fed her baby first. The way she laughs at a crying baby, on her lap
She embraces us
Whenever she hugs us, mother's love, she feels calm and comforts us too. I remember when my mother hugged me lovingly as I walked into the world of peace. Saving us from every pain and sorrow.
When someone hurts us or we are sad, we go to the mother. And she takes away the pain inside us from her love. Embracing our mother brings comfort and serenity. It feels like that at the moment Like a mother connecting her heart with our heart and embracing all the worries within herself. And it has made us very light.
It is true that we cannot repay her, but we must show her the place in life that She has desired.
Every grief and every trouble, she becomes a shield for us
If a baby is falling, the mother tries her best to save it or put herself in its place. In the same way, if there is any grief or distress, the mother is ready to bear it before us. As children, we may not have a clear idea of our worries and anxieties because our mother has stopped them up before it came to us.
As long as our mother is alive, she prays for us every moment, She doesn't ask for anything for herself, she just asks Allah for the happiness of her children.
She calms us when we feel restless.
In everyday life, when there is a problem or trouble, we get very nervous. And in this troubled world, we look for a shoulder on which we can rest our heads and feel at ease. The shoulder that soothes trouble is also the mother. She is in our trouble, more than our friends. She caresses our heads with her soft hands. And it makes us realize that love is more important than anxiety. When the mother goes somewhere, take her place, and feel her affection. The mother's scent also comes from the mother's place
Maybe mom has a love spell that blows away our pain and anxiety
She listens carefully to everything we say
And when a lot of doubts are filled in us and it seems as if the lava of words is ready So mother understands this herself, So she is ready to listen to our inner rage. And she guides us properly to get out of these doubts. And by correcting them, good ideology tries its best to get inside us.
It often seems that we become open books by going to the mother and she goes on reading us
Gives us hope, when we feel hopeless
The mother does not see her child's despair. Because a hopeless person is broken from life. The mother teaches the child to live and gives him hope at every moment so that he can move forward in life happily. And in life man feels frustrated whenever he does not see a happy way forward. And when the mother shows us the beautiful path with her own eyes, we follow the path of hope. Mom often gives us examples of her life, Understands all the things we have to endure in the life to come. And with full awareness, we avoid harm.
And having a mother, we get rid of hopelessness
When we get angry
If we ever get angry with our mother, She goes into restlessness. If the child gets angry with the mother, the mother tries her best to convince him as soon as possible. She does everything to make her children happy. But the child may not realize that what the mother is trying to prevent is actually harmful to her. The mother lives for her child and rejoices in his happiness, but only when he is angry So the mother gets upset. She always wonders why her baby is moving away from her or what is it that has made her angry. And we don't realize how much our little resentment has upset the mother.
So keep the mother happy in every way and never bother her with your anger because She wins in our happiness and weakens in our sorrow.
***"****This is probably the responsibility of mothers until their children are young because, mothers do not have the strength to see their children weak, and old. so maybe God calls them to Himself soon. But every human being always remembers his mother's lap at every turn of life****".***
**I pray that no child will ever be deprived of his mother's lap**.
"A good woman is better than seventy men"
A virtuous woman will go to heaven before her husband and will be seventy times more beautiful than the maidens of heaven.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: The best women of my ummah are those who have a small dowry.
The best gift of health certificate for women
A good woman is better than seventy male saints and a wicked woman is worse than a thousand bad men ...
A woman who cannot sleep because of the crying of her child is rewarded with the release of seventy slaves.
2 rakaats of Nafl for a woman with children is better than 82 years of worship for a woman without children
A woman who breastfeeds her child will get 1 good for every sip ...
When a woman recites Bismillah while sweeping the house, she gets the reward of sweeping in the (Baitullah) house of Allah ...
If a woman pulls the milk of a cow or a buffalo after reciting Bismillah Sharif, the animal prays for her ...
The woman who kneads the flour by reciting Bismillah, may Allah bless her provision ...
Whoever says "Marhaba" (hello) to her husband when he comes home in distress, comforts him. Allah gives this woman the reward of half jihad.
The woman who sends her husband in the way of Allah and keeps the manners in the house will go to heaven 500 years before the man and will be the leader of 70,000 angels and maidens.
She will be bathed in heaven and will wait for her husband on a sapphire horse ...
He who is unable to sleep due to the illness of his child and tries to comfort him gets the reward of 12 years of popular worship and Allah forgives all his sins.
Two rakaats of prayer for a pregnant woman is better than 80 rakaats of a non-pregnant woman who observes prayers and fasting.
Be chaste and obey her husband. She can enter Paradise through any door.
The night of a pregnant woman is counted in worship and the day in fasting. When a woman gives birth to a child, the reward of 70 years of prayer and fasting is written for her ...
And the reward of Hajj is written on the pain of every vein that suffers in childbirth ...
If a woman dies within 40 days of giving birth, she will be given the status of a martyr
When a child cries at night and the mother breastfeeds him without cursing, he will be given the status of a martyr...
When the time for feeding the baby is over, an angel from heaven comes and announces to this woman the good news that Allah has made heaven obligatory upon you ...
When the husband returns from the journey and the woman feeds him and she has not betrayed her in the meantime, he gets the reward of 12 years of naafil worship ...
When a woman presses him without telling her husband, she gets the reward of 7 tolas gold charity ...
If she presses at the request of her husband, she gets the reward of giving 7 tolas of silver in charity ...
If a woman's husband agrees to her and she dies, then Paradise has become obligatory on her.
Teaching your wife a problem is the reward of 80 years of worship.
May Allah help all the girls to act
**Amen, then Amen**
****Question:****
Why married women whose husbands are out of the country are found to be more psychologically and confused?
According to you, what is the main logic behind this?
****The Answer:****
Marriage could be a means of sexual fulfillment... so man doesn't behave like an animal and keep one's eyes off from sins and haraam ...
Sex may be a source of mental and physical relief. the person then feels calm. Let's just say that the fatigue of the day goes away.
That is why it's said that
"Sex may be a key to release stress".
Human hormones are released ...
The holiday process within the army is on the identical occasion ...
The same practice was utilized in Islamic history during the war to stay Muslims removed from adultery ...
The limit of a lady is from forty days to four months.
Not more than that ... After marriage, a girl becomes at home with this pleasure ...
Now there are only two consequences of years of distance ...
Either she finds her partner ... or she suffers from stress and depression while being patient.
Suffers from various mental and physical illnesses...
According to Dr. Ghazala, if a girl doesn't find a partner during this case, then small lumps will form in her body which is able to become fistula over time.
If a wife doesn't want his husband back from abroad ... there can be two possibilities, one is that she has started a physical or emotional affair with another person... or, she becomes tired after bearing the toxic words of her husband many times...
A woman may be satisfied by looking into the eyes of a person who respects her ... and a humiliator cannot satisfy a lady whether or not he's a wrestler.
The second thing is that the wife is for the husband... the largest problem is that the husband goes out and leaves the wife at the mercy of the family .......
She just does the housework all day, listens to the cries of mother-in-law, Nand, Dewar ..... and when she tired and loser goes to her room, the one who listens to her pain isn't present .... .....
Because the wife also has some rights .... Men and ladies are each other's clothes and are made for every other's comfort .......
Some months pass like this ..... but not much time passes ..... and this is often not a woman's fault or fault ..... the person himself is accountable for all this .. ...
When a woman's rights don't seem to be fulfilled, she suffers from tension ... getting angry for no reason, irritability, etc .....
In which it's not the woman's fault ... these are a part of the physical function ...
The third is that the wife and kids even have a life ......
It is vital for the daddy to be present on the top for the most effective upbringing of the youngsters.
Children are always pleased with their parents.
The father's deed takes the smile and innocence of the kids away .........
The wife can live to tell the tale less but not without the person .......
You can get the sustenance that's your destiny even in your own country. .... Just exerting and believe the essence of Allah ........
God, never do such cruelty to wife and kids .....
Army holidays and Mujahideen holidays during Islamic wars ......... this is often the key hidden altogether this ..........
**Thanks...**
Don't waste your money
Man's desires are never-ending. The more they fulfill their desires, the more they grow. But the desire for more and more has been seen on a very large scale within man. And often this desire causes him trouble in the world.
We often upset our families because of the way we dress and eat. And earners keep thinking that the more we earn, the more family expenses increase. This is because
We keep making new clothes even though we have new ones.
We have given children the freedom to spend as much as they want.
When we go shopping, we pick up things we like.
We bring a lot of food and drink.
Which we often have to throw away because of spoilage or not eating
Unnecessary items are brought into the house only for decoration
If we protect everything we have, it will stay with us for years. And it saves us money
Similarly, if we realize the earners, Appreciate the money they earn, the way they work hard. we should
"Think carefully and spend wisely"
And try to save money and help the poor. and save the rest for the time to come.
This will give comfort to our earners. We need to protect them from unwarranted tension. Because if they take the tension of the extra budget of the family as well as earning, then the risk of their health increases. And because of the tension, they seem to be older as soon. We can save them from tension because of the proper use of the money they earn.
And you must ask yourself: Why do we want to go beyond our status or budget?
Some things that we know are not our status are still to be achieved.
Most children are just worried about getting what they want. And some adults are just like children. All they have to say is that we have to get our choice by being stubborn with our parents. When they find out that their parents can't afford it yet, they still want to persuade. They have a new party every few days. They like to change their mobile a while or they want it whenever there is a new model. And sometimes the car at home seems old to them and they wish that somehow our parents bring the new model of car.
We are happy to wear beautiful clothes and look beautiful to the world
We need these new clothes most of the time so that we can show them to the people of the world and receive a compliment from them. When we know people are doing it temporarily. And we don't like to see people's outward happiness as our own. Because if a person covers himself with artificial clothes, then the simple person inside him hides somewhere. I think the simplicity of man is his real beauty. And the world will like our good morals and not the artificial veil over us.
We want happy to send our child to the most expensive school while we can't afford
We want to enroll our child in the most expensive school. While our status is also assessed, we are still keeping more than our status. In addition to his good education, our focus is on what people will think of the school he is sent to. While people know our status, we still try to hide it from them.
While we should make our child realize this by sending him to school according to our status. We did not teach you by wrapping you in an artificial sheet. Success in the world with your education and your good morals. And you will not be afraid of the structure coming down from above you. And you will always like to be in your original.
Why do we want to feel happy by giving a very precious gift at a wedding or a birthday party?
When we go to someone's birthday or wedding, we try to give them the most expensive gift as a reward. While We don't have that thing ourselves. And we think people will see how expensive the gift is.
If we give a gift to someone according to our status, So we will not be afraid to open our status. And we will not need a fake sheet to hide our status. And the recipient will be happy if he stays with us, that is, we have our own that he did not have to carry a load to give me a gift. And we must also save our money and give each other gifts that increase our love.
While the real happiness we feel is in helping the needy
While we should save our money and help the poor. Poor people who can't beg from anyone are just quietly bear their lives. They also have a few clothes for the poor to wear. People who don't even have things to use. But they are still living their lives.
If we help such people, we will feel better seeing them dressed instead of making new clothes.
The real joy is, we watching the hungry when he eats
When we feed some of our saved money to the hungry. So we will feel relieved at every bite of it. Because when a person is very hungry and eats food, prayers come out of every piece of it. And those prayers will always be with us.
If humanity and its emotions disappear from our beautiful world, only robots will remain
We are slowly moving towards a life of indifference and selfishness. We must all work together to save humanity. It is humanity that has true feelings for each other. Happiness is felt only in the happiness of others. In which we do not tolerate the pain of others.
Because if we go too far in the world of apathy and selfishness. So the way back will be impossible. And we lost our good managers of humanity and feelings of humanity for each other.
Because the emotions of humanity disappear, they are called better robots. They just have to work.
So don't waste money on junk, You have to value money for your needs. And never let the spirit of humanity fade away
Thanks,
Why does man not value the living but shed tears for the dead?
It's amazing that we don't value living people so much, but when they leave us, then we think of them more. In today's busy life, man has made himself the busiest. Due to which it is becoming very difficult for him to give time to relationships. And in everyday life, many of our relationships seem to complain to us. But man is also compelled because he wants to earn more money by working more time. But in this race of life, many relationships are waiting for us. And when a person has time, relationships are lost somewhere. And man has only memories associated with his relationships.
We are happy to see old photos of ourselves, but when they are in front of us, we don't see them as we like the picture.
Either man becomes preoccupied with making money or he distances himself from his family.
The Man goes out and tries to earn money to meet the needs of himself and his family. And when he gets too busy, the family starts to crave to spend time with him. And often it becomes a difficult time in his life because he wants to meet the needs and pleasures of the people. With money, he meets his needs but often his grievances remain. In such a situation, He should try to get him to spend half of his time earning money, so he should spend half of his time with his family and try to resolve their grievances.
Because our relationships with us are broken in the busyness of life, we still feel incomplete while we are alive.
The relations we have, If they left unmanaged, they can be left astray and lose the right path
Our relationships seem to be falling apart because of our busy schedules. If this distance continues to grow, they may turn to suspicion. It often seems to the family that it only makes money for us but does not love us. Because it is human nature that if love is not expressed in true words, it can lead to suspicion. And most people create suspicion by saying this You are a family just a burden on the earner. And often people fall prey to this suspicion. These misgivings should not arise so the earners should try to, In addition to your earnings, attention and give time to your family.
Yes, and it often happens that even in this world, some relationships are lost to us forever
It is often the case with human beings that living in this world, close relationships are gone forever. And the reason for this is often mistrust. Some relationships fall mistrust prey to someone while maintaining a good relationship with you.
As happened to me.
My dear Uncle who loved us so much. He and his family would gladly meet us and come to our house. And so we were going to their house and feel happy. But due to some engagements, our visits became less frequent. And that time, someone gets them mistrust from us. And then they become victims of suspicion. And that's why our relationship ended forever. When it was an unbreakable blood relationship. To this day, I am deeply saddened by this. That he never eradicated this suspicion from within himself and neither could we.
I've often seen friends break up like this. And I think that's because of the lack of interaction and become the victim of suspicion.
It is important to always remember those who are left behind because man has a lot of memories attached to them.
Over time, people often have to forget old memories, And it seems to be making his new memories.
But there are some memories after that which he cannot forget even if he wants to. Like the beautiful moment, he spent with his close relatives.
Like I always miss my grandmother. When she was alive she used to tell me about my childhood and her own youth and childhood as well. I loved sitting next to them and listening to them.
I always miss my Grandmothers, Grandfathers, Aunts, and Uncles. May Allah keep them happy in Paradise forever.
Many people leave their memories with us when they leave our lives.
By the way, the human brain is far behind the robot
Robots don't take a moment to forget anything and it takes years for the human brain to forget something.
Because maybe robots don't have emotions associated with memories.
But we human beings are full of emotions.
And it is important to value living relationships as much as possible so that there is no left after leaving them.
Life is too short and there is no trust in it.
No one knows when it will leave.
As long as we live, we have to live with our loved ones.
We have to do our best to keep them happy.
*Because when we leave, only memories remain*
Thanks,
The law to keep walking!!
There is a law of gravity, there is a law of motion, there is a law of energy, and so there is a law of motion, a law of fruitless effort that we humans know very little about. However, Insects, birds, and beasts, they know much better about this law.
Not all arrows reach their target. Not all bullets can find their target. Not all climbers can conquer the heights of Everest. Not all steps reach their destination, not all lives are bathed in the morning of the night. In some cases, only the fingers are numb and the heart is trembling.
When lions go out on their prey, one in four succeeds. That is, the success rate of the king of the jungle does not exceed one-fourth. However, the king does not mind this at all. He increases the proportion of his efforts by the same proportion.
More than 70% of tree seeds are eaten by birds. More than half the eggs of fish are eaten before they hatch. More than half of the bear cubs die before puberty. More than half of the rains fall on the seas.
According to the research of scientists, plants, animals and other creatures in the system of nature are also aware of and subject to the law of futile efforts. They make no fuss about this law. Don't cry. In the jungle, lions and leopards never strike out as to why three-quarters of our efforts fail. Just lower your head and move on to the next attempt.
What is the law of futile efforts? That all efforts will not be fruitful, will not be fruitful. You will have to do more, you will have to be more ashamed, you will have to bear more humiliation. After the first, the second, then the third, then the fourth, ..... maybe then the seventh, tenth, twentieth ..... the seed will turn into a bud, then into a flower, then into a stem and then into a tree. And all these efforts do not fail, but the way to reach the twentieth attempt.
What does a man do? Man howls. He tears his collar, slaps his face, turns red, or hides his face in shame. Stress takes Paul. Becomes depressed. How many stressed zebras, or bears, or sad leopards have you seen? However, man will have seen. The man says, "Look, I've failed." Yes, it can fail, but only when the hands are raised, the weapons are thrown away, the second, third, fourth, ...... tenth attempt is denied. Be super put. Yes, there is a law of failure and that is to give up the next attempt. Avoid taking the next step, avoid pursuing dreams.
Then what is the way? The next attempt, the next one, then the next one, ... yes, but in such a way that the first mistake is not repeated a second time, the third line is not drawn on the old line ... at least the mistake is repeated every time, Until the mountains give way, the desert does not become kind, the river does not burst, the heart of the beloved does not melt and the destination does not collapse in the footsteps.
The whole universe is in the control of these laws. You may not like this law, but it will be effective despite your dislike. Many people do not like the law of gravity, but they do not jump from the twentieth floor in protest. They either learn to swim in the air or learn to walk on the ground.
In Simple words, **this is the law to keep walking.**
**Anyone, who had Stopped, Just keep going..**
When everything that comes into our lives "First time"
Everyone's first day of life when he or she is born
It is a strange fact that no one can ever remember the first day of his life because he is so young at that time that he does not understand anything.
but all the peoples of his or her family Celebrating the first day of him or her. and everyone is rejoicing that another person has been born in their life whom they will love immensely. Everyone remembers the happiness of the first day of the life of this person. But when he grows up, he can hear all the joys from their mouths and feel that joy. Then he is very happy to know that when he was born, who was the first to carry him in his arms and how he was loved? for the very first time. And who would have dressed him first? And he's always interested in listening to his first day in the life.
The first sister or brother born in one's life
When a child or an adult has a sibling in their life, they feel very happy, but most of the time, children feel lonely in this joy, and sometimes they become a part of it When he himself is a child but still gladly welcomes his sister or brother into his life. He feels great when he first carries her or him in his arms. He is so happy that he can't handle it. And he begins to get ready to share everything with his sister or brother. The love of siblings is never-ending. They always show love to each other. But everyone's style of love is different.
The first time someone goes to school
When a child goes to school for the first time, he is very excited, he is happy in everything, he is interested in sitting in his class, talking to his teacher, and listening to him attentively. When teachers welcome him or her to school for the first time, So this action of all of them makes him even more excited. He looks at his class carefully. He also watches over his classmates. And after a while, he gets used to them. The rest of the children are ready to make him their friend. But after a while, he starts to miss his home. Then he starts remembering his mother's face again and again. And he waits for the holiday to return to his mother. Because children are not used to new things, sometimes they get bored quickly.
The day when one succeeds for the first time
This is the day when he is convinced that after working hard in the world, he will get success. Success is very important in everyone's life. Because everyone works hard to achieve this. And when a person achieves success for the first time, he is very happy and excited about it. Because he can taste it for the first time, he appreciates it very much. The joy of success forces him to share that joy with his friends and family. And he is ready to invite them all to the joy of this day. Because he also believes that this is the first step on the ladder of success in his life. Then he looks forward to more successes in his life.
First earnings of life
When a person achieves success after this hard work and for this success he is also rewarded with the money for his hard work So he is proud of his earnings. When he holds his labor for the first time in the form of paper money, On this day, he also learns the importance of money. Then he realizes that his guardians must have worked hard for him in the same way. One also knows the difference between earning money for oneself and earning money for one's family. Because his first income is not enough to spend on himself and his family too very well. He has to spend his first earnings wisely. And maybe that's why in his eyes, the importance of money is growing. And it also increases the effort to earn more in the next life.
Everyone's first love
Man has felt the love of his parents, siblings, friends, and relatives in his life, but he still needs such love who can understand his feelings and also her feelings. There is definitely a person in everyone's life whom they fall in love with immensely. The day that comes into anyone's life, to make them realize that there is someone else, in this world. The first person you think you are in love with him or her. In the same way, the importance of this person in your life is increasing. Every moment spent with it is a beautiful moment of your life that you are feeling for the first time. Her romantic style is making you feel the most beautiful in life. In the same way, it is the first step on the ladder of your beloved life. And at the moment you want to cross this ladder quickly and reach your destination by taking every step quickly. But at this point, every move must be very strong. Because if you don't hold fast and break your ladder in a hurry, you will not reach the destination. When a person's emotions begin to rise, he becomes uncontrollable and his heart longs for him. Most people claim that they have felt love many times in their life but I think that true feeling and true love are given to a person only once.
The day when one gets married for the first time
Like all special days, the wedding day for the first time in everyone's life is very important. All her people are celebrating your wedding but you only realize the importance of your wedding day after that. Many people get married many times in their life ie they get married more than once but the importance of the first marriage is not as important as the remaining marriages. Because in my opinion, the importance of first marriage is like the test by which a person passes with good marks, then he succeeds quickly, but, if he does not get high marks in the exam, he fails. And it is human nature to get tired of taking the same test over and over again. Therefore, in order to pass the exam of your life with good marks, it is necessary to be fully prepared.
The value of every first thing that comes into our lives makes us realize this That if we do not handle it properly, we may lose the happiness that is to come
Everyone wants to see their wife young and fresh
Wives aren't able to decorate for their husbands. As soon because the husband enters the house, the identical dusty face, thick body, rotten clothes, dry hair, making a masculine voice, makes a face and says in anger, "Are you here?"
Here the husband gradually begins to maneuver off from his wife, then he becomes more curious about mobile, television, and friends than his wife. If the fear of God is a smaller amount then he encompasses a relationship with women outside ... !!!
Everyone wants his wife to seem young, fresh, and exquisite, everyone wants his wife to speak in a very romantic way, but the solution from women is that it doesn't happen after children, who will be sure of the kids Who will do the housework, altogether these cases the condition of someone gets worse ... !!!
And then the result's that husbands are busy on their mobiles, friends are busy, they do not get distracted from work, they are available home late ... !!!
It is clear that when the sentiments of Abdul Ghafoor come from inside the wife, then the husband has got to give priority to mobile and television only, he needs to give priority to friends only. ... ???
If a girl greets her husband with smiles, keeps the atmosphere of the space romantic, prepares herself for the husband, makes the sunshine, adopts softness in her voice while lecturing the husband, then the husband should escape from his friends. I will be able to bring leave from the office soon ... !!!
This is the command of Allah. keep the beauty for your husband in order that the husband is also smitten together with his wife, so he might not commit major sins, and therefore the veil is commanded from non-mahrams, but here it's the entire opposite. Ganga is flowing within the house before of the husband ahead of the wife's hands smelling of onions and garlic and when the identical woman goes to a marriage ceremony, remove the boxes of make-up, blow half the perfume and spray within the air, high Are wearing high heels except for her husband, it's zero by zero ... !!!
**If we take an example of Intense flashlight**:-
If we think an example of a beautiful and cheerful woman as an intense flashlight, If this flashlight is to put on many men or persons then this light will glow all of them equally. But If we bring this flashlight very close to only one person then it will look unique and prominent. And over this flashlight, he will see everything dim or translucent. Same as If any woman remains very close to her husband except all other relations then her husband will never take interest here and there at other women.
In some places, men even have these defects. If you attend your wife, make sure of cleanliness, keep yourself active, keep your eyes shining, keep a smile on your face, comb your hair, and use a lightweight fragrance. do not get sweaty from outside and spoil the environment with stench, don't let dryness are available in the hair of the top, what to try to if you have got a beard, keep it tidy, keep your face clean from dust and sweat, meaning Wife also likes her husband young, beautiful, fresh and active ... !!!
The purpose of all this can be that within the lifetime of a husband and wife, it's important for both of them to embellish for every other, to be ready for every other, love grows, boredom goes away, the house environment is gorgeous. Stays ... !!!
The wife's affairs are discussed more because most of the wives are so busy with children and household chores that they can't find time for the husband to brighten and groom, which causes the husband to gradually move far from the wife as above. I've got written ... !!!
In short, nowadays nobody is free, where women have lots of labor, men also burn their lives to earn a living, time doesn't pop out, the time needs to be taken out and grooming for every other. So it's vital for this relationship, if neither of them gets an opportunity for it, then I apologize that you simply are chargeable for the issues in your married life ... !!!
May the Almighty grant you success in your deeds.
How can a parent be so cruel?
Today I'm going to tell you about such an incident, After hearing it I myself was amazed and got upset till few days that such people are also present in this world.?
This is an incident of those days when I was going to become a mother for the first time. That days were the most beautiful days of my life. When every time I love to think about my coming baby. At that time I mostly used to pray that "may Allah make my children pious". I don't know that I would birth a boy or a girl because Allah, It's only dependent on you that you will give me a boy or a girl. I want to give birth to a baby boy. But if it would be a girl then it is also your blessing. Because at our family it was the first baby. That baby was still in my womb at that time.
That is why all of us were fully excited. At every moment I was getting different advice. And I was also taking my special care. One day went to the home of my Anty with my mother because at that colony there lived an experience,
' MIDWIFE
a female health worker who used to give a good body massage. Especially the pregnant women used to come here for body massage because they need special care while taking the body massage. When she comes to me and I got a body massage from her.
I was shocked when I heard
So I saw that there was a small child with her, I thought it must be her grandson (from her son) or grandson (from her daughter). Why she looked very big at that age. I asked her, is this your grandson (from your son) or your grandson (from your daughter)?
I felt that she ignore that matter and she did other things and gossips. Then in a short circle, I said the same thing again. Anty The child you have, is this your grandson (from your son) or your grandson (from your daughter)? You might not have listened to me for the first time.
Then they start saying, you consider it my son. I said this does not mean your son. You have adopted it. She said, this is not my real son, but you think of me. I said ohh ok, then it means that your relative will.
They say no, it doesn't belong to any relative.
This is a sad story of mine. She said while breathing. But leave it at that, your health seems to be deteriorating anyway. Whether you want to relax. I walk home I have a lot to do at home. But the only thing that surprised me was that now I would be anxious to hear.
It is also my habit that if someone tells me half of the matter and does not want to tell me, then my anger has come, And the restlessness in the anger increases. What's the matter He or she wants to hide with me?
I hurried and stopped her. I sat them down and said what's the matter. You have confused me. I thought that this child would be your grandson (from your son) or your grandson (from your daughter)or your newborn so I had a new ask. But when you told me that this is not your own son, you were terrified. If you have any problem then tell me, please. Do not hide the reality from me, if for some reason, there is a problem at your face, then there is definitely such a thing.
Then she said you are doing so much mystery so I have to tell. But I have told this secret to very few people because it is a painful matter for me. She was very depressed when she began to tell.
"She sat down telling me about the story of the child. She told me that one day it was going to be the morning that suddenly our door was knocked out loud.
I and the rest of the family got scared, many must have come at this time? I asked who? The voice came please open the door. When I opened the door, there was an unknown person standing. I said what is the matter? who are you? And why have you come here? he started saying, we are new here. And we need help.
What can I help you? He said, I have come to know, many people tell me that you work as a midwife. I am in dire need of you at the moment, that his wife is in severe pain and she is about to become a mother.
Hearing this, I could not control myself and I come to accompany him without any pretense. That was my job and I was very serious about my work. Anyway, that was the question of someone's life, and I was worried about not one but two lives. I didn't think of anything else and I went with him.
After going there, I really saw a woman who was in pain. I hurried and started preparing for the birth of her baby. My work was over after a while. And they got a boy to be born. I happily congratulated both of them. Then when I started going to my house from there, that person asked me to stop. He started saying that I cannot take care of my wife at home, so I have to go to this hospital. And you will also tell this thing in the hospital, you have give delivery of this.
So you have to go with us. At first, I thought something or whether I should go or not?
Then empathy fills in my heart and I thought, that these people have come here new. No one will be aware of them. So I should help them. I departed to the hospital with them.
Going a little further, he suddenly stopped his vehicle. And started saying that maybe the car is stopped, please take the baby and get down to the car.
As soon as I took the child and came down, he drove his car quickly
I was so surprised that what would happen? I could not even imagine that those people could do this to me. I looked there and there in the moment of trouble. But nobody came there. I did not understand where to go with this child?
I stood there for a long time and various questions kept running through my mind. I took this child in my arms and returned to my home. When I went to the house of these people and found out, the Landlord said that they had taken the house in an emergency only for one day." I had a lot of pity for this child": what was the fault of that little life? My husband told me to go to the police, but I forb him.
I had intended that now I will save this innocent life. when his parents did not accept him, then who else would care about this little life?
When she told me that story I couldn't stop tears and this question always circulate in my mind that do such parents can be present in this world??
Life is beautiful if you understand it
Our lives are a great gift from God. We should appreciate this gift given by nature. This is a wonderful gift from Allah, which everyone gets only once. A human should be thankful for this gift every moment. But maybe we are not thankful, As much as we should. A person should always feel happy by seeing each other happy and should be sad to see any sorrow. This is the essence of this life.
To be jealous?
Jealousy is a disaster that destroys humans. It is like the same fire that burns anyone as dust. But still, the man likes to get wrapped up in it. This is the nature of many people. Man cannot bear to see anyone in front of him and becomes a victim of jealousy. When any kind of jealousy, man has to suffer himself. The reason for jealousy is that a person makes himself hollow inside. If a person is jealous of thinking this, that the other person has money, why not I have? And the thought is that his money will run out and come on to me. If you want to be jealous of someone and try to be like that, Changing thinking is better. thinks as if he has achieved money. same as him, by work hard I should also get money. So this is a good mindset.
Do not make your beautiful life look disconcerting
Most people in this world find their lives difficult. Some people are always worried, when anyone meets them, their attitude does not feel pleasant. Only a contented person can feel the joys of life. Even to keep life happy, a person has to change himself, but if he is wrong. First of all, he should try to understand the difficulty of his life and solve it. Anything that is bothering him, he tried to improve it and if He is not able to change the thing due to which he is lost the beauty of life, then he needs to drop that thing in his life. Sometimes it happens that we want to achieve a very expensive thing but are not able to fulfill that desire. Then instead of taking the trouble, we should try our mind that this thing is not so important for us. But life is more important. Never worries can give us something, but it snatches our peace. Most problems are our own creat. And when a person understands this, he begins to feel the joy of life.
Do not waste your time in fighting
In order to keep our life beautiful and peaceful, it is important that we do not have any quarrels. When a person makes his thinking positive by answering the questions that arise in his mind. Then he also finds the words of the people positive. Because it is man's positive thinking that protects him from all kinds of conflicts.
Why most people just think we're doing the right thing. And the other characteristic is only of quarrelsome nature, he quarrels always. Most people's domestic disputes escalate to such an extent that they become frustrated with the daily routine. If a man scolds. then not arguing with him but just think if you were really the cause. And even if you're not the cause of the fight, try to figure out what the other person is upset about, or why he or she might be making a fuss. If we turn our thinking positive, then maybe not to quarrel with anybody. And then let us know how much better life feels.
Travel around the world and find out how beautiful it is
To see the beauty of life, the view of this beautiful world is also important. There are countless places in the world that are so charming and beautiful. Want to visit these places and see the beauty of life. We should try to find out the beauty of our house first, how beautiful it is, and include the beauty of the whole world in our eyes. Going to different places and feeling good things and moments there is a beautiful purpose of human life.
Understand the people of this world as your own and establish a good relationship with them
This world is full of good people, we just need to find and test them. How loyal everyone is. How do they keep peace in their lives? This is what we find out after meeting people. Different people live in different places. Everyone is living their own life. Everyone's home and living style are different from the other person and his place. Some people prefer to go for a walk in life, some people prefer to eat at home.
Whether we understand each other or not, a good relationship shows the good manners of a man. And tells how beautiful his life is.
Is tea a habit or an addiction?
The habit of drinking tea is very old in people. And many people drink tea several times a day. That is why they are often called tea addicts. Because if they don't drink tea, the habit makes them restless. Maybe that why such people are called habitual of tea.
If you put diesel in the petrol engine, the engine of the car will sit instead of running, but if you put petrol in the petrol engine, it will not run but will run. This is the calculation of some people who start running after drinking tea.
Before we know it, we need to clear our concepts about some basic things.
Tea's effect on our body
The first is that nerve cells carry the message from one place to another in our brain and throughout the body. Second, the nerve cells are not connected to each other but there are some gaps between them. These chemicals are called neurotransmitters and gaps are called synapses. While inside the message travels in the form of charges.
When it comes to tea, you all know that tea contains a significant amount of caffeine. This caffeine enters our nervous system and replaces adenosine, a neurotransmitter. Adenosine is a relaxant that slows us down. ۔
Because caffeine has the same structure as adenosine, it replaces adenosine in the nervous system and then activates our brain.
At the same time that caffeine replaces adenosine, another hormone called adrenaline is released in our body. This hormone raises our blood pressure faster (meaning alert) and transfers blood pressure from less-used areas to most-used areas, such as moves toward the arms, legs, and stomach.
Thus, when a person drinks tea, he feels very alert.
Here comes an unseen trap. The trap is that caffeine has the ability to become addictive, meaning that the more caffeine we take in, the more it becomes a receptor site and the adenosine is depleted, and then more caffeine is needed to complete it. It seems that caffeine makes a person addicted to it. That is why we Punjabis often say to a person who drinks a lot of tea, "Dude, I am addicted to tea." In fact, that person is not addicted to tea but to caffeine.
Different ways to make tea
There are many different ways of making tea. Many people have their own ways to make tea.
Take some water first after boiling it and adding sweet according to your taste. They add tea leaves to it and when it becomes a good coffee, they add milk according to their taste.
Some people prepare coffee separately, Then They add coffee to a little warm milk.
And some of the people have already warmed up the milk, so they add some sugar according to their taste and put some tea leaves and boil it. and then add some water and again boil it well.
And a lot of people like to drink only tea without milk.
Make your own or drink something else
Most people like to drink their own homemade tea. And they don't like anyone's tea.
The taste that they are accustomed to at the beginning is just what they want.
And there are some people who just want only tea. They don't care how it is or who made it. They only want just tea.
The color of tea
The color of the tea attracts the drinker. If the colors of tea are beautiful then the person feels more satisfaction while drinking it. Tea also has many colors. Which are according to the choice of the drinkers. Some people like to drink dark brown tea. Some drink a light brown color. Some people like to drink light yellow tea. and some want a beautiful pink color tea. Which contains a lot of milk and cream. Most people also drink green tea with hobbies.
I like to drink tea full of nuts like almonds, pistachio, cashew, and cream. My favorite tea is Milkey Tea. And it's full of energy.
"Our pets are the main part of our house"
This is a good thing for us humans when we bring any animal into our home to feed it. So we value it in our home as much as we value our family. And most people think of their pets as their own children. And many people have more than enough friends. And there are some people for whom everything just becomes their pet. But some people raise animals only for profit. They make a lot of money, but they can keep their animals as their friend or baby. Pets often eat with their owner and sleep with the owner. A cat is also an animal that you put on your lap. And she feels relaxed right there.
Raising cats at home
The cat is a very innocent animal. And the cat is loyal to its mate. Somewhere they are more loyal than human beings. Even if you raise a cat, it will become your pet for future generations. And even if you chase the cat away in anger, it will Come back to you. The cat is crazy about meat. The cat enjoys hunting on its own. And one of the benefits of raising a cat is that it eats insects all over the house. This is what the fat rats of the house eat with pleasure. By the way, the cat drinks milk too much. Sometimes it seems that the cat is an enemy of milk, Can never leave it. There are not so many colors in their body. But of course, pure white-colored cats are preferred mostly. Their beauty at once creates a lot of attraction on their side.
Raising dogs And get your house and money guarded
Dogs also come first in loyalty. Have heard many times, many dogs lose their lives even as proof of loyalty. But only for the owner. While the dog is a meat-eating animal. The dog is licking his boss's feet, But do not harm him. There are many benefits to raising a dog. A lot of people tie dogs to the doors of the house to guard their house. Because It starts barking at strangers. In particular, if a thief wants to enter your house, then he warns his boss by barking at him. And the thief runs away afraid. A lot of people also keep dogs with them as their companion. Who lives along with them in every move.
Chickens are one of the pets that give full benefits to human beings
Almost everyone likes chicken meat. It is also easy to cook except that it is very tasty. Often people do not like to eat anything other than chickens. there for a lot of people keep them in their house too. Because people want to eat their eggs. Eggs are also very good for our health. Raising chickens at home also has the advantage of not wasting leftover food. We often give them leftover food and they eat it too.
Raising goats and running a business with them
The goat is not only innocent but also cute. Often people are very happy with this many children. And Got meat is very good and rich in flavor. We feel very powerful when we eat goat meat. In addition to goat meat, its milk is also very useful and powerful. Apart from drinking his milk, we can earn profits from this. Many people raise goats and when their breed grows they sell them. In this way, they also run their business and this is a means of good income.
Raising buffaloes and doing business
Buffalo meat is good for our health and it is full of energy (protein and fats). Its provide us good quality milk in huge quantity as compared to cows. In this way, we get milk to drink and to sell as well. Because we attain liters of milk daily from a single buffaloe.
Horses, and horse riding too
The horse is a faithful animal. After dogs, It is one of the most loyal animals among all animals. You can train it easily according to your need and most of the people in rural areas use horses for riding and a group of few people from urban areas also have fond of horse riding.
We should take special care of our pet animals. And we should take care of their feed as they are also a part of our family.
When love begins to take its place in your heart.
When I was about 13 years old, I started to find love stories very interesting. My heart wanted me to read and listen to "people's love stories".
"Watch Romantic movies"
When I first saw a love movie, I was lost in its story for a long time. My heart was pounding again and again about how the hero of this movie saved his heroine by playing on his life. I started to grow fond of hearing the love story of every boy and girl. I was getting more and more emotional in every loving dialogue. My heart longed to hear their loving words over and over again. When they were both ready to do anything for each other, and ready to cross the limits. Every moment went down into my heart, and I began to feel that this was the only love. I think every girl would feel the same way about it. I used to do any work, I used to sit in front of the television, doing that work. I used to have heart, everybody can also see the film with me in the best way, as I used to be. Everyone at home used to say that there is not such a special thing in this film as you are seeing it with the celebration. But I always watched every new love-filled film.
"Tell my friends about romantic movies"
I used to tell my friends that I saw this movie today and I felt that way. I used to tell them that I liked that hero very much and my heart was pounding when I saw him. Whenever I saw a new film, I was very proud to tell my story to all my friends. And I used to feel so happy telling that story to my friends as if it were my own story. And I used to tell them that story in such a beautiful way that they were also forced to see the same film. When those people were interested in that film. So those people too enjoyed the movie in the same way that I used to be. And it used to be a good meeting for all our friends.
"Listen to the songs"
Also fond of singing, I start being born from the age of 13.
I felt the love hidden within the songs and the pain hidden in them. Therefore, I started getting into the habit of listening to songs and memorizing them. Whenever I used to listen to a song full of love, I used to hide in my love. And I used to get equally sure with my family. I could easily remember difficult songs too. Because I used to listen to them so many times during the day. I think it happens to everyone that when we listen or read anything again and again, So we remember that thing very well. All my family and friends too, I used to listen to everyone singing songs with great passion. And all of them used to praise me too. I used to make everyone happy at home with my brother, singing songs. But my brother's voice sounded better to me. Because he was fond of singing many songs and I was more fond of listening to songs. And we used to be very excited at home. I think that happens to so many people that they get lost in another world while singing or listening to songs.
"Someone invites you into his life"
When you find someone whom you have always thought of in your thoughts. And what you have shown in your dreams, So you start looking at your life as you look in films. You feel like a hero will come out of the film and join the real-life of you. But if you have allowed him to join your life. When someone loves you more and makes you feel that you are very important in his life. Then you seem to have the same happy life as you have seen in films. In the beginning, u feel like there is only happiness in life. But when your life starts, then you understand that many happiness comes along with some problems. And only after facing those problems and problems, you feel the real importance of happiness.
Like we see in a film. Many heroes like heroines. When both of them start meeting more, then love arises. But before they can pass their happy lives, they also have to raise a lot of trouble. And then after the trouble, they feel happier when they meet each other.
In real life, we appreciate the happiness that we get after tolerating difficulty.
To achieve anything, if a person tolerates hard work, Then he likes that thing more.
Similarly, people who tolerate difficulty, for each other. They value each other in their lives and take care of each other more.
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"Serving others"
People are serving each other in every part of life.
Everyone's style of service is different.
But service is the best passion that is found in almost every human being. The peace and happiness that one feels by serving someone to have its own taste.
Maybe it's fun that never ends.
If your passion is true and you don't seem to be getting the benefits of these services, But you can rest assured that we will be rewarded for this service in the next world
"The way children are served"
Everyone understands children want to serve their parents. Children serve their parents and family in many ways. Children are very innocent.
And their emotions testify to their innocence.
When they serve someone, they have their own style of innocence. Happiness is felt on their faces whenever they serve their elders. Sometimes they run and give water to their elders and sometimes they try to carry their luggage. They don't even think in their innocence that they can't carry a load. But the spirit of their service is true.
It is heartwarming to see children serving in a shop.
It is a compulsion of these children but it is heartwarming to see the style of their services.
But often they do not get the benefits they deserve.
"The way parents serve their children"
Parents spend everything on their children.
Create them. Teach them to eat and drink. Even, They gladly clean up the mess they make. Teach them to hold fingers and walk.
When they start to fall, they recover.
Guide them also into good behaviors and to avoid displaying some profane ones.
Teach them to talk to people and tell them how to serve. These are all parental services that they do for their children.
"Home is about treating guests well and serving them"
Whenever a guest comes to the house, everyone is amazed at his services.
Everyone should bring their own services from the beginning to the end.
Everyone tries to ensure that the guest does not miss anything. Someone arranges for the guest to have a drink and someone arranges for him to sleep. The same spirit of hospitality that is found in adults is found in children as well.
Take care of your elders
Man is advised to serve his elders from childhood.
It is everyone's responsibility to take care of the needs of their elders and to serve them.
If you serve all the people in the house, they will take care of you just as much. Especially to serve your parents, siblings, and grandparents.
These are the relationships that recognize the spirit of your service.
To serve all humanity
It is our duty to serve not only ourselves but also others. One person may not seem to have a relationship with another person, but humanity does. When you serve someone else, he becomes your own. Serving others, caring makes them feel like you are human.
If a person feels sick, take him to a doctor. Or somehow he will recover by serving him. Feeding someone hungry, Reaching the destination of a lost person. Helping a poor person.
If someone asks you for help, you should take care of it. Want to help others as much as you can.
Caring for animals
It is our duty to take care of animals as well as humans. Humans still speak, but animals are speechless.
Therefore, the reward for serving dumb animals will be higher. When animals can serve us, we are human beings and we want to take care of them just as much.
If an animal is injured, try to feel the pain of the injury.
Arranging for his treatment, applying ointment to his injury. If an animal is overloaded, reduce its load. When they give us good milk, take care of their good feed. There are many ways of serving animals.
Even if you don't get the reward to serve someone immediately, keep serving them, because the next place you will definitely get the reward.
"Broken Heart" (part 2)
"They" were both very happy that day. And they were smiling and looking at each other. He (Shahryaar) resorted to mischief to test her love.
"He" stood at the window and said " If I fall from here" So what do you do?
"She"(Farheen) was shocked and pulls him back in panic. And angrily shouts at him. Beware if you ever do such a thing again. Otherwise, I will never talk to you again.
"He"(Shahryaar) seems to apologize to her and "He" is happy to see that she really loves him.
He tells her (Farheen) that if you love me so much, can you do anything to me?
"She"(Farheen) says she loves him a lot but can't do anything. She's not in control.
There are some restrictions on me that I can't get rid of. All this has bothered me.
I can't do anything for you even if I want to.
Don't call me unfaithful because I'm not, I'm just forced. I hit you but I want to live my life with you.
But I don't think that's going to happen.
My family probably doesn't like you with me.
And they will never want me to get married and come to your house. They don't even like the place where you live.
I get very sad thinking that life will be different if you can't find me. What will happen to the dreams we have of living together?
"He,"(Shahryaar) says lovingly,
Why are you so scared? I will definitely do something that will make your family happy.
I will tell my mom that she will definitely do something for us. "He,"(Shahryaar) says it in a comforting way.
Some days pass but he (Shahryaar) can't speak to his mother. Whenever he tried to tell her, his words would stay in the middle and his mother would be busy with something work.
In so many days, she (Farheen) tells her family.
But the girl there thinks that if I don't please the family, it will be too late. One day, "She"(Farheen) tells her mother that she will marry him.
Please be kind to me and my relationship with him. I assure you that he will keep me happy and I can be happy with him too.
Her mother gets angry. And she says that you have lost your mind thinking that way.
We will never marry you there. This is my final decision.
I swear to you if you want to talk about it next time.
Very soon we will all connect you with someone else.
"She"(Farheen) takes root and leaves. And she doesn't know how she's going to get it. The girl was broken inside. And it seemed to her that the two would never be one again.
"She"(Farheen) calls him (Shahryaar) and tells him everything.
"He" gets angry when he hears all this. He tells his friends what doomsday is about to befall him.
He (Shahryaar) tells them to help him out and tell him what to do. They all advise him to understand the boy she (Farheen) is going to marry.
He did not know what to do.
When he finds out that the girl's family there has engaged her to very rich people. He (Shahryaar) was crying because of his poverty, which was probably the reason why the girl (Farheen) was moving away from him.
Some friends gradually turned him (Shahryaar) into a drug addict.
They said that this is the thing that will calm him down. And he will forget everything. Some friends said she (Farheen) was probably not in your destiny so you didn't get it. And some friends said that if you were rich, it would not be so. He (Shahryaar) listened to his friends and got away from his family.
There was the girl (Farheen) who was yearning for him. Her family explained to her that the boy (Shahryaar) was not a good man.
It is better to forget it as soon as possible.
Start your life where we are marrying you. They are very nice people. you will be happy there.
"She"(Farheen) gradually came to understand that she had to obey her family. It was a very painful process for her, but what could she do?
"She"(Farheen) wanted the boy (Shahryaar) to improve somehow and become a good man.
"She" (Farheen) wanted to make him understand that he did not want to be surrounded by bad friends.
But his (Shahryaar) friends ruined his life and he didn't even know it.
He never understood that he would lose his happy life because of his bad friends.
Friends continued to abuse him, and he became their sympathizer.
These people had made him (Shahryaar)bad by killing the good man inside him. His own life will be ruined because of his incompetence.
But he (Shahryaar) never forgot her (Farheen).
He always remembered her innocent words.
In life, if we do not make a decision at the right time, So often the reason is our weakness or sometimes the wrong counselor.
Story Broken Heart (part 1)
This is about the days when 'He' was completely changed. His smiles that had gone somewhere.
'Mother' who is making breakfast in the kitchen, calls him.
Make sure you have breakfast today as soon as possible, "I will not let you go without eating".
'He' was looking angrily. He signals that there is no time to eat.
Even today, he was going without breakfast.
His mother had become accustomed to his behavior. Nowadays, She is worried about him changed behavior.
Maybe she didn't know what to do with her son. Why can't he lives life to the fullest?
Whenever night falls and "He" returns home, He looks upset.
"Mom" goes to him as usual. Even today you came home late.
How many times have I explained that come home early, I am worried.
My heart trembles until I see your face.
"He" is not affected by these things.
Get up and wash your hands, I'll put the food.
"He" Spoke wearily. I don't eat.
Why don't you even have breakfast?
I ate in the office.
Suddenly there was a knock on the door.
"Mother" says I will go and see who came out.
No, my friend must have come.
I have to go with him.
I will come late at night'
Don't wait for me and sleep well. He says this and leaves
Nowadays, He doesn't talk much to his siblings. Otherwise, He would come home and make fun of them.
They were all disturbed by his changed behavior.
Mom goes to his room and looks at his things. Maybe She could find out the reason for something.
But She couldn't find anything special.
"He" was very sad and upset these days because he would be separated from the girl he had loved for so long.
But he kept it a secret. All this has been going on for almost 5 years. Everything was going well from that time. And He was living a wonderful life. Ever since she became friends and He became her best friend. She was his classmate and liked him. She would sit next to him every day and talk to him happily. And even after going home, He was happy with the magic of her words.
The girl was also hiding from her parents that she liked a boy very much. And she is beginning to decorate the beautiful dreams of a life with "Him".
She admired his clothes and his hairstyle. And "He" would spend half an hour putting on his clothes and hairstyle. He did not receive any complaints that he was not ready today. But only for Her.
She waited anxiously for his message and was overjoyed when he arrived. One day they were talking when suddenly a very strong wind started blowing. And she is swaying happily.
This story continues...
Every woman wants to look beautiful
The beauty of the heart
If a woman's heart is clean and good, she will not have any difficulties in life. The beauty of the heart plays an important role in strengthening a woman. Because when a woman is confident and strong, she will become stronger in the face of difficulties in life.
A woman's sincerity and piety reflect the goodness of her heart. If a woman speaks the truth, she values every relationship apart from her and maintains the trust of all relationships. So here both the goodness and the truth of his heart are revealed.
Even if she never gave in to the absolute suspicion of his relationship, So that's the beauty of her heart.
Never betray your relationship,
Because they testify to the sincerity of your heart.
Exterior beauty
Exterior beauty is also a woman's desire. One person wants everyone to look beautiful.
She wants to keep her body clean for external beauty.
It is important to take care of your hands, your feet, and most of all, your face. Because the face is the part of the body that everyone looks at first.
It is important to wash your hands, nose, face, and feet about five times a day.
And it is necessary to take a bath twice a day.
To enhance the beauty of your face, it is also necessary to massage useful things on it. like,
Honey
Acai berries
cocoa
Oats
Turmeric
Apple cider Vinegar
coconut oil
Grapeseed Oil
Avocado
Adzuki Beans
Green Tea
plan Yogurt
Orange peel powder
carrots
chia seeds
parsley
olive oil
cucumber
sea salt
lemon
Makeup also makes a woman look beautiful.
Makeup has also become a necessity for women, because if makeup is good, it will make it more beautiful.
If a woman stays dressed, she keeps her husband crazy.
What is it like to build a house in the sun?,
Then look for shadows on it...
And some people come and go in the cities,
Then after find their villages...
They also stand on swamps,
And then find their feet...
Now I'm Sharing My Own Love Story
What Is Love?
Love is a beautiful feeling, which brightens one's personality.
And often that feeling turns into a relationship. Because of love, a person maintains this relationship throughout his life.
Love makes a person's life beautiful.
And living a life full of love is the desire of every human being.
Our Friendship...
We all used to play at our grandmother's house.
Playing together and sitting down to talk a lot when you get tired. We all used to get together and make a lot of noise, which caused us a lot of trouble.
Everyone used to tell us how much we would play. Just sit quietly now.
Then we would sit sadly so that some time would pass and all the people would turn away from us. And then we would start again after a while.
In the same way, we liked to play with each other and then sit and talk. My aunt's son and I were sitting alone one day. He said to me, "Will you be my friend?"
I was very cheerful. I said quickly, why not. And I became very happy in my heart. Because he was so cute and I don't think I'm any sweeter than him. At that time we both had a new mobile phone. And at that time our family was not even allowed to have a mobile phone, so no other cousin had it. We both started talking to each other on mobile, he would tell me the secrets of his college. And I used to tell him my secrets too.
At the same time, our friendship grew stronger.
When he fell in love with me.
When I passed the 12th-grade exam, my parents decided to marry me. Then our uncleWhen he fell in love with me.
When I passed the 12th-grade exam, my parents decided to marry me. Then our uncles introduced me to their acquaintances. But I just realized that I would get married and our friendship would end. But I did not realize that I would get married and our friendship would end. Like everything else, I told him with great pleasure that I was getting married. He felt very bad.
And he didn't talk to me.
I wondered why he wasn't talking to me.
But I did not realize why he was angry. But what Allah did was that my relationship ended where it was happening.Then later he told me that he was angry with me for that reason.
I said my marriage is going to happen then why are you sad? I don't like it when you are angry. Your marriage will also be where your parents are related to you. He said no I don't want to get married there, And today I want to tell you one thing, I want you. And I Love you.
I was very happy to hear all this at the time and I was going crazy with joy.
But then I suddenly remembered that our family would never let that happen. Why did his relationship happen elsewhere? I told him that you are very nice and very sweet and I like you too. But we can't get married.
I don't think it's possible that the family will agree. But he said that he would please everyone.
I will fix everything. Just say yes, I am asking you if you will marry me.
I will always take care of you, I will always keep you happy and now I will not be able to live without you.
Hearing all this, I could not control my emotions.
I never thought he would tell me all this. But on the other hand, I also felt that it is not so easy. I was very happy but I was also worried. My heart was pounding.
He told me that you have to join me when I talk to my family.
Yes, I Love Him Too.
When he spoke to my mother, she was angry. She began to say that this could not happen. Your parents are engaged to you somewhere else, don't you know?
Don't talk about it again.
He said that your daughter loves me too.
Then everyone was upset. No one wanted us to be one. Everybody is in our house and ask me if it is true that you love it too.
I didn't understand what to do. And how to
Tell everyone that I love him too. But I am afraid to say yes.
It is very difficult to bear separation.
When you fall in love with someone, it seems impossible to live without him. Then you just miss him everywhere. And nowhere does the heart feel, nor does anything else feel good.
Everyone sent him back. And he left, I was crying a lot.
Everyone tried hard to force me to forget him.
And do as we say.
We will marry you somewhere else.
Thay also took back my mobile phone from me.
It was very difficult for me now.
Everyone was angry with me,
But I missed him so much. And I had no idea what the solution was. Then I called him with great difficulty. He told me to understand your mother somehow.
And I told him I was trying to convince everyone here.
But it was very difficult for me to do all this.
Gradually time passed and I did not want to get married anywhere else.
When the family saw that there was no other solution, they agreed. But in the process, it took us a while. After all,
Everyone accepted our happiness.
And with laughter they happily married us.
Married life is very beautiful...
After the wedding, everything went well as we wanted. We have a great time together.
Even after we get married, we still have vassals that we used to have in our childhood. Whoever you want to live in your life, this is a very beautiful feeling of the world
In order to understand each other well, it is very important to come into their lives. I wish we were just as happy. And whoever wants to get married of his choice should get it but no one is angry.
All Siblings Are Like Friends And Some Time Like Enemies
Siblings relationship is also known as love and care everywhere in the world. Siblings would be friends with one another and sometimes they go through with a lot of fights because they live together which often makes their relation more strong.
1- Sleep Together
Siblings most of the time sleeping together. There is a separate room for siblings where they sleep together. And before sleeping, they share the whole day's gossips and naughty activities with each other. And they prepare plans for the next day. And then go to their dream world.
2- Eat Together
Every morning on the breakfast table, every one of them wants to see other's breakfast. If the breakfast of all of them even the same but appreciating the other's breakfast or some time try to discourage the other's one breakfast. When lunchtime comes then show attitude and ask different dishes. Sometimes ask other siblings to eat from their lunch and sometimes feel the entertainment to eat from other's lunch.
3- Taking Bath Together
When they were in their childhood, a lake of time the Mother take them a bath together.
That's why they have to go to the bathroom at the same time. On which they also have battles. And sometimes the other is allowed to go before you.
4 -Another one who wants to get dressed
Whenever they go shopping in the bazaar, they like each other's clothes. And when the clothes of one sibling come, the other also need them whenever he wants. The color and design that one sibling likes are the same as the other. And if Ai voluntarily treats both of them equally, they do not show dislike.
5-Go to school together
When it's time to go to school, they go together.
Often younger siblings are admitted to the school by filing. But they try their best to make their class with their siblings.
And as soon as the siblings want them to be at school, the younger siblings want to be on time. Siblings often get a waiver about the punishment of siblings.
6-Also going on a picnic together
Whenever they get a chance to have fun. So even there, adults have to look after the little ones with their entertainment. If younger siblings missed somewhere while playing outside or someone does not harm them. But all of them feel the joy to go for a picnic together.
7-Complaining with each other
If siblings get angry over injuries because of a mistake, they will immediately go to the press with complaints.
And even if there is some harm done to the little ones, the angry ones are often heard by the adults. And if the little ones ever get hurt, the siblings keep threatening to sue them. They do their work by threatening the same thing.
8-When one goes to a relative's house for a few days.
If ever someone goes to stay at a relative's house for a few days. So the siblings who are fighting behind him are also waiting for him. And he wished he could go and live with him. Or come home early and play together again.
9-When they grow up, they become somewhat distant
Gradually time passes. And everyone starts to get away from each other.
Or maybe they just get too busy with life. And they spend more time meeting their friends. Then friends started to look better and more useful than siblings.
10-Everyone gets married
Parents do their best to get their children married as soon as they are on their feet.
And there is no trust in life, so parents try to do it in their own life, watch the children's weddings. That is why after the marriage of elder siblings, it is better for the younger ones to get married sooner.
After marriage, siblings live in their own lives.
Later, they remember the time they spent together
But then at different points in their lives, they start to miss their siblings. When they have their own children and they also fight and misbehave like them.
And whenever their children sit together and talk with love.
But I feel sorry for the brothers and sisters who fight for property, and hate each other.
I pray that, No siblings should ever fight for property. All the brothers and sisters in the world have always been in love. And never fight each other for any thing...
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