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Why divorce happens and what happens after that?

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11 months ago (Last updated: 10 months ago)
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Most people are also afraid of marriage for fear of divorce. And that's why divorce is a big issue in the world. Divorce can make life miserable. Divorce is not just two lives, It separates the two families. All your relationships with this marriage end. Even good moral relationships that have no guilt. People who have felt the separation of their relationship, such people give birth (family planning) late so that the lives of the children will not be ruined by the separation.

When a tree is uprooted, it falls down with its fruit.

If a person decides to separate before having a child, he still accepts it, but after having a child, this decision becomes very difficult for him. After having children, parents should think more about children instead of themselves.

There are many reasons for separation. Sometimes the separation is only from the man and sometimes only from the woman. But if the decision to separate is made by both. It means, So the limit of tolerance of both is over.

Lack of endurance

Most of the people in the world endure adversity, But when husbands and wives get involved in domestic disputes on a daily basis And as they fight back and forth, their endurance diminishes. It is very important for them to keep calm after every problem. Because the trouble will come and go away, But the bitterness created by the quarrel will grow inside them. if they put it on their inner permanently, it could have an effect on something else. And when they begin to accumulate a great deal of bitterness, they turn into a whirlwind. And that storm could ever get out, And when the tolerance limit is gone, there will be nothing left in the relationship, then all that is left in their minds is that we will not be together anymore. And that very moment the alarm goes on. When the thought of separation comes to them, they erase all the good memories from their minds. Except that they are in a very difficult situation right now and If they keep going that way, the problems will increase.

Maybe it's their selfish thinking that separates them from each other.

I think It is a failure after which very few people are able to regain success.

Grief and anxiety after divorce

Often, even after a divorce, a person does not remain completely calm. Divorce not only breaks the relationship but also can break the person from inside.

Most people in the world look at divorced people with strange eyes. The strange style of looking makes a person more anxious.

Maybe the Men come far out of their failures early because maybe they are stronger or they don't feel much grief.

Problems are also increasing for most women. Because a woman is weak on the inside, but after making a strong decision, she begins to feel strong. But some people don't want to see a woman strong. Often questions are raised that make a woman weak. The love with which she decorated the beautiful house. people always reminds her, the beauty of that house and that love. But when she wants to forget everything and move on. She wants to erase all the marks on which she was in trouble.

But sometimes she regrets that she made the wrong decision in a hurry. She should have endured more.

That anxiety was still acceptable, but now it is even more difficult to bear the world alone. The world begins to look at her with narrow-mindedness or sympathy.

People who consider themselves weak after divorce may not be able to achieve further success but those who strengthen themselves after their divorce will be able to achieve further success.

When it comes to separation, both should decide with their heart and not with their mind

Most people make an emotional decision but regret it all their life. Such people must make a decision by thinking from the heart and not from the mind. Please Don't let a wrong decision ruin your life.

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A good article has so much truth, it is a pity that most people make a mistake in their life and do not know what they want. Thank you for sharing this article with us

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11 months ago

This is interesting dear,I appreciate your post

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11 months ago

Very nice one. Keep up Dear

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11 months ago

Dear husband and wife good bonding long life.

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11 months ago

Yes, if the husband and wife keep their relationship happy and better then surely their life will be a happy long life. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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11 months ago

Good one

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11 months ago

This is breath taking

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11 months ago

Divorce shouldn't be an option.

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11 months ago

This is a wonderful article you've written, for a couple to decide on divorce, there must have been family crisis in the family and after divorce, it's then up with who wish to go marry someone else and live happily

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11 months ago

Nice article, keep it up

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11 months ago

Divorce is totally not sweet at all and aldo not easy because it affects both the relationship but sometimes it becomes necessary

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11 months ago

It is sad, the bond between two people will be broken and will affect their children if they have.

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11 months ago

Divorce is better than a bad marriage.

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11 months ago

Divorce is the element that breaks partners heart the and the only thing that courses divorce is marriage, soo if you don't want to get divorce avoid getting marriage first. LOL

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11 months ago

Divorce is not a good story in a man's life... It doesn't leave behind fine memories.

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11 months ago

This is actually a very bad and bad thing to think about until people can solve their own issues by discussing their own issues and not at the solution stage.

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11 months ago

Misunderstanding between bride and bride groom then followered by some issues

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11 months ago

I hope we also have an option of divorce in our country. But sadly we don't. The church is against it. I am pro-family. But if there's a case that the couple can't be together for so many reasons and separation is the only way to get out of it, I hope they have an option to do so. Divorce is for unhappy/ irreconcilable marriage. Everyone deserves to be happy. Why stay in a relationship if you're only staying because of a piece of paper. That's unfair.

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11 months ago

Absolutely right but I also see people who are unhappy with their lives and are afraid to take extreme steps because most societies do not allow them to do so. In my view, such people are living a life of compromise. But some people may even feel bad about their fate when they can't do anything on their own. You have great ideas about why people are building their relationship just because of a piece of paper. But Thank God, There are also many people in the world who are happy with their lives and living happily with their family.

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11 months ago

I wonder y saw some getting married n after a few years they had divorce or separated, marriage n divorce just be planned well n not to be decided that easily, it's sad to see those who got divorce after a year or few years, never thinking well what the outcome of it will be especially if they have a kid or kids

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11 months ago

People should think about the future of their children instead of thinking about themselves after having children. Most people are separated by a quick decision but their children's lives are sacrificed. Because of most of the broken families. Thanks, Have Nice Thoughts

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11 months ago

Yes, i agree with what u said, the children r the one who suffered the most because of that, u r welcome n thanks

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11 months ago

Same to you Dear, @bheng620

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11 months ago

Thank u n thank u for the upvote as well, God bless n good afternoon to u :)

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11 months ago

Most welcome Dear, God bless u too

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11 months ago

Thanks :)

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11 months ago

Divorse is not good

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11 months ago

Divorce has caused a lot of damage especially on the kids

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11 months ago

You know that's why I don't fantasize or doenst like to married at all because the idea of not working and ended divorced is so frustrated like it's giving some burden

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11 months ago

The matter of diverse come from misunderstand or from simple quarrel between husband and wife. It happened when your wife or husband will show you over attitude or ignore to you

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11 months ago

Yes, You are right about most people. And I think that's because of the stress. Thanks for reading my article.

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11 months ago

You are welcome

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11 months ago