When boys annoy their mother
As I remember my childhood, we were siblings. My mother used to think that the boys, bothered her more than girls. Because my brother was very naughty and used to irritate my mother all the time. He used to bother not only his mother but also his other siblings and all the time he used to hear that he is very restless.
As a kid, when my mom would give me and my brother money to buy something, he would either lose the money or drop what we were bringing. And often because of that I would also listen to scolded because I was with him. If we made a mistake I would immediately admit my mistake but he would run away instead of admitting it.
He used to do a lot of things, intentionally or unintentionally, that was bothered our mother. And often our mom would get so angry that this guy would bother me a lot while my girls wouldn't bother me so much. I was encouraged by their saying that maybe I don't bother my mother too much but I was worried about my brother.
When boys grow up, Parents also start to worry about what kind of company their son is having. Especially the mother always orders him. Don't go into the company of the wrong people. My mother always used to advise my brother to sit among the good people and always stay away from the bad people. Whenever he went out with friends, my mother prayed for him to be saved from all evil and sin.
Because when a child grows up, he starts to sit among people who are older or worse than him, and they teaches him wrong things by considering him innocent. So most mothers are worried about their sons going out and when they come back they check on them where they were and what they were doing.
When boys start asking for more money from their parents, At that time the mothers also keep a close eye on him, that where he spends the money we are giving him. And the boys get angry about why mom cares so much about us and why she asks us everything over and over again.
Most boys irritate their mother because when they reached home late.
The way girls harass their mothers
Maybe girls bother their mom when it comes to dressing up as I remember myself bothering my mom about dressing up. My mother always tried to make my clothes as good as possible while my brother's clothes, She always brought readymade from the market but she had to work harder on my clothes. My mother was more than happy to makes my clothes, she owns stiched.
I also used to wear her stitched clothes very fondly. But sometimes when she didn't make my clothes better, I would get angry that they weren't well-dressed and I said I wouldn't wear them. Often she would get upset and angry but then I agreed and happily got dressed. And in many ways, I bothered my mother.
Whenever we went out for fun and entertainment. Just as all children are obsessed with having fun with their parents, I was also excited to have fun. My mother used to make us happy by doing her best. But I was excited to see the swings. Our mom used to spend most of her money to make us happy, but I always asked her to swing again and again. She used to say angrily that no matter how much money I spend, taking her swings does not fill her heart.
If I ever went out with friends, my mother would worry about me.
And I was worried that if I got home late, my mother would get angry, so I tried my best not to upset her. Mothers are also very concerned about their daughters so that no one will look down on them or try to upset them. Often I would go to a relative's house and stay there and my mother would get very angry at me. Because when she needed me at home, I wasn't there to help her, and she was upset. But later I realized that I should have stayed home with my mother instead of there. So that my mother would not be angry and would not worry about me.
Looking back on my childhood, I thought maybe my brother bothered my mother more than I did because I have often heard her say this. And of my sister's children, too, I think her son is more upset.
Girls are naughty too but maybe they have more parental feeling inside them so they realize right away after making a mistake that we must have done something wrong so we have to correct it.
But now that I have my own children, I think it's harder for mothers to train girls or more anxious to take care of boys.
Now most of the time I think about training a girl and a boy, what will teach me a lesson and what will help me to understand that
All of you must let me know your opinion so that I can understand and learn about more.
I quite behave when I was a kid. I am the eldest whenever my siblings messed up I ended up to blame because I didn't look them out so well, being eldest is pretty much tiring to me. Now, I have a daughter she's naughty too but she can understand as long as I will approach her nice but if I approached her wrong she will not follow me.