@Purplewinkle
Why life is so hard and complicated? A couple of days ago my sister called me. She's having a problem reporting my mom's death to the Philippine Embassy. She told me they fill up form and replied by another form and another form. They're asking so much question including who's the relatives in the Philippines, who will be at the airport to claim her and they need a flight ticket. My sister told them that she's the one bringing her but there's no definite date yet. That she just wanted to report my mom's death. She said she gives up and she will try next time if she has a flight ticket already. She told me that we had gone through so much pain and suffering during our mom's journey in her cancer why until now it's still difficult? She's been having anxiety and she said I think I have depression. Sometimes she's having a hard time breathing especially when she's stressed. I can't wait for them to go home so that we can go through this together. I missed them so much.
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Sorry to hear that sis. It's just a challenge for your fam. You can try again next time when your sister is okay na po
Tingnan kapag nakapagbook na sila ng ticket kapag madami pa ding hinihingi at tinatanong bahala na sila. Hayaan na lang na buhay pa si nanay sa record nila.
Sana maging okay na sis, grabe pala ang proseso no it affects na your sister mentally and emotionally.
Di kasi biro pinagdaanan nya mag-isa lang sya nagbabantay kay nanay September si nanay inoperahan don nag-umpisa na mahiga na lang sya sa kama at di na makakain. Nahospice si nanay sa bahay na lang wala syang katuwang parati syang tinatawag kasi di nya magalaw katawan nya at masakit na daw sa isang position kaya kilangan nyang galaw galawin si nanay. Ilang oras lang ang tulog. Takot nga yan sa dugo hinihimatay sa gasgas lang nya e. Pero nagsusuka ng dugo si nanay sya naglilinis at di biro amoy ng dugo kasi stomach cancer si nanay pero kinaya nya at wala syang magawa kasi nag-iisa lang sya don. Di tulad dito sa atin na marami kang matatawag at tutulong sa'yo.
Grabe pala talaga pinagdaanan nya sis. Salute sa sister mo, talaga kinaya at tinatagan nya ang loob nya para lang sa nanay nyo. Ang galing nya bilang anak, siguradong walang galit ang nanay nyo sa kanya at pagpapasalamat lang siguro ang matatanggap nya sa nanay nyo po
Sabi ni sis na giguilty sya kasi nong nagsusuka si nanay ng dugo sinabihan sya ni nanay bat di sya dinadala sa hospital. Sabi kung andito daw sya sa akin dinala na namin sya. Sabi lang ng sis ko sa kanya daming pasyente dahil sa Covid. Pero di na talaga sya tatanggapin don kasi wala na silang magagawa. Hinihintay na lang namin na maexpired si nanay. Masakit makitang ganun sya. Sana nong tapos nyang maoperahan at inatake sya ng stroke sana kinuha na sya agad at di na naghirap ng ganun.
Why the procedures which was developed for our convinces becomes the constraints for us? Every where we go following protocols the situation goes on becoming hassle. We get easily annoyed. I don't know why government don't understand this? May be they need some bribe.
Someone told me that too but I said can't they see on my mom's death certificate the reason why she died? Treatment for cancer is expensive. She went in and out in the hospital for 6 or 7 times including 2 operation and until now my sister is paying for the debt we had in the hospital which is million in Philippine peso. We are not millionaire. My sister is working hard for our family. They are so heartless if they really wanted money for reporting the death of my mom. My mom is not a citizen there. She just went for a vacation but locked up by pandemic then got diagnosed with cancer and died there. My sister has no problem sorting some papers in that country but when it comes to our own embassy...OMG so many problems.
Well that becouse we do Bad things I think! Have a blessed Day dear
I'm so sorry for her and you for going through these hard times.. I hate the situation
Hopefully it will be over soon dear.