No Need To Be Confused When Faced With Many Choices, Be A Firm Person To Make Decisions Various life problems have certainly whacked you at your current age. The age at which you learn to be fully mature. At this age too, you will often be confronted with important choices that will determine your future. That is the reason why the ability to decide and decisive in making choices can be the key to your success. So, do you have that ability and determination? If not, don't be…
For those of you who are tired of living in a relationship, don't be in a hurry to make decisions. Unfortunately, with a partner, it is undeniable that there are times when we are still approached by boredom. Although, it is said that there are couples who never get bored with each other, whether it's true or not, I still consider it a mere fiction. What I believe is, most of us must have been in a phase of boredom with a partner. Or, maybe you are currently fighting against…
Reasons Why Spending Money Buying Experience Is the Best Decision You Can Make *“If you had to choose to buy the latest gadget or go volunteer to Nepal with your own money, which would you choose?”* Allocating money to buy the latest and most sophisticated electronics at first glance looks more tempting than spending money for an experience. It feels like a gadget with the most advanced features can complete your life while experience can wait. In fact, if you want to look…
Stay Humble, Like the Earth Stepped on Throughout this journey of life, it seems that no one lives without the accompanying dynamics. Even a newborn baby needs a process to get to this world. We are all the same, we live together in everything and everything in the world. Everything that is good or bad that we have lived, is the essence of us as humans in this life. We experience sadness, it's because we are human. Likewise when we feel happy, and even then because we are…
Regret may be present in the deepest heart, but at least we have tried to be the best **Did today feel so tiring? Or is there a story that is hard to tell?** There's nothing wrong with holding it in; However, if it feels so stifling, let's share stories so that the feeling becomes more relieved. Yes, at least even if only temporarily, so that the feeling is not so crowded. This is not the first post I've written; but it feels so awkward, maybe because I haven't written in a…
Bringing Calm When Facing Problems Anxiety can hit anyone. Uninvited anxiety, anxiety and worry come naturally. This condition arises when faced with one condition. Facing problems. Troubles are like breakfast to you. It is impossible for any human being to live apart from this burden. From the start of trivial things to choose the clothes you want to wear. Until a big problem that involves many people, such as holding a wedding party. Humans will always be faced with…
There is no natural selection for happiness, decide to make a choice The realization that we are headed for a very tough time is not an overnight fear. We may inflate our non-active expectations so much that it feels like each day is getting harder and harder to get through. We will be faced with situations where we need to make choices every day. Even deciding to do nothing is an option, though not the most productive. The world gives an illustration that life is like a…
A Story of Anger and Sadness Due to Regret When your life goes on it's not as soft as the new pillow you bought yesterday. So what you do at that time is fall asleep while dreaming of past events. You remember when you took the wrong step and fell, causing injury. Wounds that cause prolonged sadness traumatize him. A person who regrets his mistakes and tries not to repeat them is indeed a good person. But when he regrets too long and dwells in the ditch of sorrow. So that…
When others are running and you are still walking, then it's not a mistake **Im not interested in competing with anyone.** Life is not a competition And yes, I believe in that and make it one of the principles in living life. It is true that everyone has different principles of life because there are many influencing factors (eg family background, education, friendship, location of residence, and many others). However, is having the principle of not competing in life is the…
Overcome Trust Issues That Often Disturb Trust problems or often referred to as trust problems are a condition where we find it difficult to trust others and are afraid of being betrayed. This condition makes us often feel doubtful and not easy to trust the person. No matter how many good deeds others do for you, we will always be suspicious and doubt their intentions. For those of us who are experiencing it, usually we will find it difficult to trust friends, partners or…
Be an independent woman, because life is not as beautiful as a dream world Time does go by very fast. At least, that's how I feel right now. I just realized. That maybe all this time I did not really understand in living life. How should I live each part of this life? How should I climb every towering rock? How should I fight for a dream. And how should I navigate every seemingly endless ocean? We all know clearly what we have been through so far. What obstacles have we…
The Form of Female Misogyny, Proof That Women Can Drop Other Women What is Internalized Misogyny? Internalized Misogyny is a term for people or groups who have dislike, prejudice and malice towards women, in short Internalized Misogyny represents hatred against women. Internalized misogyny is often confused with sexism, but they have different definitions and uses. Most misogynists are men who feel they have gender superiority and think that women's movements for equality…
Difficulty Knowing Yourself, Get to Know Yourself Have you ever felt confused when filling in your personal data for job or organization registration? Especially when filling in the strengths, weaknesses, or our interests. You are confused, what should be included? Or maybe in a broader sense, you feel like you don't know what you want to do. When faced with various choices, you are confused about what kind of decision to make. It confuses the mind. *"Do not know, then do…
Women and Limitations Being a woman is often faced with various choices that actually become limitations for them. Many women are forced to go the opposite direction of what they want just to normalize the situation and make sure all is well. Being a woman is not always easy. Sometimes, they are required to be graceful and tough at the same time. Not only that, in the career world too many female leaders are underestimated in terms of competence and decision making. Women…
Benefits If You Often Travel Alone Sometimes we have free time that is different from friends either at campus or at work. The busyness that we live for forces boredom to just perch in the middle of your routine. Even if you are tired, you will find the answer on your own, either with your own culinary journey or on your own. Did you know that the journey you take has an impact both mentally and on your own self-confidence. What are the benefits you get when you travel…
Reduce Your Complaints, Increase Your Gratitude When Many Problems Come Shackled During life, humans will be tested with bad and good as a trial. As humans, we should live a life that is not infrequently given trials and unexpected things that are not wanted. When life is in an out of control phase, it's normal to complain once in a while. Just throw away the troubled thoughts in your head so that the heart is a little relieved. It's just that if you complain every time of…
Being Yourself is Key It is important to cultivate self-confidence as a strong foundation in order to be able to show yourself to the fullest. Humans are born unique and different from one another complete with all the advantages that God has given as provisions for life. **Humans in childhood, always listen to his own voice which is full of dreams and desires to be a big change giver to the world.** Over time, we are faced with various situations and choices until we…
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