Why Many Lose Great Opportunities
Good morning everyone. I trust and believe we all had a great sleep. Today is another day full of opportunities and great changes for you to take.
Today let's dwell on the topic: Why Many Lose Great Opportunities. Many times I hear people say that: "Opportunity lost can never be regained" and it is true but not all the time. Many people have lost great opportunities to ignorance, bad advice, selfishness, and cowardice.
Let's take a look at those 4 words and see the reason why many people lose opportunities.
Ignorance
Many people have lost opportunities to ignorance because they didn't know what they ought to know. Get this today that you are a slap to what you don't know.
Many youths today spend a lot of time on social media viewing memes and gisting with friends but very few spend time to widen their knowledge.
The era we are moving into requires that you update yourself on a daily basis if not you will be outdated. Get knowledge, learn new words and move with the age of time because it keeps you in check for any opportunities that comes your way.
Bad Advice
Many people have lost opportunities to bad advice. That is the reason that you have to be careful with those you move with because you tend to listen to them most of the time.
Many have received advice that negates what they wanted to do and as a result they lost something valuable. When next you get an advice check and see that it fits what you are looking to get.
A quick reminder is that not all advice ought to be taken as most advice you are given will put you in trouble.
Selfishness
This may surprise you but it is the reason why many people lost opportunities. If you are selfish you tend to keep things to yourself. Keeping things to your self can harm you in the sense that you won't sometimes know what you are supposed to know. Move towards people by not everyone.
Cowardice
Many people have lost opportunities because they were too scared to take a risk. Know this today that life itself is a risk. Getting up everyday is a risk.
Many people are afraid of taking risks and that has kept them in a spot. Risk taking as an essential part of life. Also not all risks are healthy for you and that's why you should scrutinize every risk that comes your way.
How then do I know which opportunity to take or which choice to make.. Find out in my next post: "Making The Right Choice"
Thank you for reading through..God bless
Till next time.. Yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
Lessons From The Eagle 🦅
Let's learn from the eagle guys.
The eagle is a very amazing and special creature that is rarely seen. Drop your comment if you've seen an eagle before because in this part of Nigeria I have never seen one before.
The eagle is a bird that possesses amazing qualities and extraordinary skills. Do you know that an eagle has an amazing eyesight and can detect prey up to 2 miles away. WoW!!
No wonder many people are in awe of this great bird but why this bird today?. I mean what made this bird the center of attraction today. There are numerous things to learn from the eagle but let's focus on one for today.
The attributes attached to the eagle are simply amazing but I want us to examine one particular thing it does to it's young ones.
I read someday that the eagle takes it's young eaglets to a very high cliff and drops them down. To some people this act is seen as a wicked act. Why will you do such to young eaglets many people will say but let's learn.
When the mother eagle drops the young eaglets down, in the midst of the confusion and fright of this young eaglet, it brings it's wings out and learn to fly and it flies away.
Look at the powerful lesson here. If the mother eagle doesn't do this the young eaglet may probably not learn to fly early or fly at all. Not what is the mother eaglet trying to teach this young eaglets that is applicable to us too..
Life is not fair.
Have you ever thought of what would go through the young eaglet's mind when it was falling down?. It would have thought that it's mother was wicked and undeserving to be a mother. But the reality is that life is not fair. What this eagle taught it's eaglets early many of us learned late.
Many of us sat down and expected life to deliver success to us on a silver platter but this will never happen. You need to know and understand that life gives you what you put into it.
Just like GIGO "Garbage in Garbage out" If you fail to prepare you are already prepared to fail.
The Instinct Of Success is already embedded in us.
Let's look at the second lesson. While the young eaglet was falling down it looked like it would hit the ground below and die but watch what happens..it spreads it's wings and learns to fly for the first time.
Many of us are complaining of failure but let me tell you that what you need to succeed is embedded inside of you. You only need to dig it out.
Most times hardships make us realise our hidden potential.
The young eaglet didn't realise that it had the potential to fly until it was released from the cliff. So also most times what we need to realise our hidden potential are the challenges we face.
The challenges we face have the ability to bring out the best in us. Let me tell you if you are reading this that no one was born without something special. You are special and you need to realise it to bring out the best in you.
There is something great in you and you need to discover it.
Thanks for reading and till next time..Yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
Prepare For The Future
Good afternoon indepth readers. It's another week and it is full of blessings and grace for those who believe and put their hope in God.
Today let's look at this great topic. The current state of Nigeria requires anyone who wants to be successful to prepare and not only prepare but prepare adequately.
Nowadays many people blame the government for not providing jobs or employment opportunities but let me tell you that if you fail to succeed it is your fault.
Although the government should be blamed truly but it depends on you to map out what you want to be. Your future is in your hands so said a very known author. You yourself must decide to succeed and work towards it.
Let me share a very inspiring story that I read today.
"A particular man in a particular village wanted to be successful but didn't know how or where to start. When he asked around people told him to go and seek advice from the only recognized successful man in that village and he accepted the advice.
One day he wanted to go fishing and when he got to the river he met the successful man he had been looking for there and he went to him.
He greeted him and asked him that he wanted to be successful but doesn't know how or where to start. The successful man got up and shoved this man into the river and picked him up by his hair and shoved his head into the water.
After the third time he lifted him up and watched him as he struggled to breathe then he told him: "Did you observe how you wanted that last breath badly? Until you want to succeed like that you cannot succeed. "
Until success becomes your aim everyday it has not become a driving force of your life. Life is full of challenges and ups and downs but do you know what else it is filled of.. Life is also filled with Victories and Triumphs and that maybe your story as well.
Look into my next post as I discuss "Lessons from the eagle "🦅
It's been an amazing start and we will all be successful in Jesus name. Thanks and God bless.. Yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
Keep Your Hopes Alive
Good afternoon to you all and happy Sunday from this side.
Today feels like a good day to speak on the topic of keeping our hopes alive. So follow me as I write.
Hope is the constant believe that something will come to pass even if it doesn't feel like it. That is my own definition of hope.
Most times in life many things happen to us that tends to pull us down and take away our focus from life. In everything let me tell you that you need to keep your hopes alive even when it doesn't seem like things will work out.
There are many things that we keep our hopes on. Let me share my brief experience.
Back in January of this year I was in dire need of a new phone but I had no money with me. You might ask that what happened to my former phone..it's screen was so broken to the extent that I couldn't execute a single task on it.
Things looked bleak with no chance of working out but I kept my hopes alive in the sense that one day I will get a new phone. Forward to February of this year ..God used someone that I have not even met to meet that need.
Let me tell you that God knows exactly what you need but he is waiting to know if you will trust him completely or take another route and look for other means out.
You need to trust God completely if you want to enjoy him fully. The level to which you walk with God is the extent to which you will enjoy him. Most times what God will ask you to do..you may not understand but what it requires of you is to trust him completely.
With God you don't need to understand..you just need to trust the process because in the end he is the CREATOR.
The Creator knows what is best for you and he will never lead you astray. If you are reading this now I want you to keep your hopes alive over anything you are praying about that has not come to pass.
God will come in the due time and he will not put you to shame. Trust God and stay with him.
Enjoy the rest of your day everyone
Until we meet again.. Yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
Life through the view point of Pool City 8
Good morning to you all indepth readers. Such a pleasure having you all around this blissful Saturday again.
A piece of advice before we start our lesson today is that .. The day you decide to face your problems is the day you begin to conquer it.
Today let's start on the topic. Pool city 8 is a mobile game that gives you 6, 7 or 8 balls and a stick and requires you to shoot those balls into the holes provided on the table. For my folks in Nigeria it is popularly known as Snooker😁.
I love to think that there is no where you cannot get lessons of life from. So while I was playing this game last night I began to note some things down and I would like to share them with you today. Take your time to read and think over them.
Your aim is not always correct even when you are 100% sure they are.
While I was playing yesternight I got to a particular level that gave me a bit of a rough time. I placed the stick on the ball and adjusted my aim but when I released my shot I discovered that to my surprise it bounced back.
Life lesson: Your aim in life will not be accurate Everytime. So what you need to do is to take another aim at life and refire.
Let me take a cue from a popular quote from my principal: "When you fire and it backfires, do not retire but aspire and refire because in the end, life belongs to those who refuse to retire"
Some levels you just have to play more than once.
This game is such that when you miss a shot it doesn't give you the crown even if you finish that level. So to take the crown you have to put all shot into the holes of the table.
While playing a particular level yesterday I was determined to get the crown. So when I fired a shot and I misfired I had to restart and in the end after 5 tries I got the crown.
Life lesson: Determination is the key to not stopping in life. In the game I knew what I want and I refused to settle for less.
Life is full of many people who started with a high aim but on their journey they decided to settle for less because of challenges.
Refuse to settle for less even when everything around you tells you to. Even if you have to restart, start again and make sure you get it right.
Sometimes you end up frustrated but don't lose focus.
While playing yesternight honestly at some point I was frustrated because I made sure my aim was locked to a particular ball but it refused to go into the holes but I refused to lose focus.
Many people have allowed frustration to make them lose focus of where they are going. With a country like Nigeria frustration is very common but do not let that be your stopping block.
Instead let it be your stepping block to success. There are many lessons to learn from this great game but I have to stop here dear readers.
Let me round up by saying that: Life can be anything you want it to be but it depends on the preparation you put in it.
The link to the game will be in the comment section for those who want to download the game from Google playstore.
Until next time dear readers .Yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
Growth
Good afternoon my dear indepth readers. Such a pleasure to be able to write again today. Today let's look at the topic: GROWTH.
According to biology growth is the increase in size and shape of a living organism.
According to me growth is the examined and detailed change in the affairs of a man. Let's take a look at a child when he is born. There comes a certain time when he or she is expected to crawl, walk, talk and then eventually run.
But unfortunately at the time when he or she is supposed to walk when he or she is till crawling then we can all conclude that a medical examination is needed.
So also many of us have remained redundant in a spot for many years or months but we did not notice probably due to activities around us.
The pandemic Covid-19 did a good job of keeping many in a spot. The truth is that many people accept dormancy so far they have something or someone to blame.
Now, ask anyone why they didn't do a particular thing in this year the only blame they will fix is on the virus. Like it or not this pandemic will leave one day and it will be up to you to pick up where you left it.
Check yourself in the last few months or let me say since the beginning of the year have you really grown.. Spiritually, Physically, Mentally, Emotionally and other areas have you grown or have you remained redundant.
Life has a funny code of making us pick off from where we left off. So if you leave a particular growth spot of your life for maybe 15 years you'll come back to meet it untouched and you'll have to start where you left it.
As for me I have decided to grow..no matter what it takes because you are not the only one who owns your life. Let me explain that.
If someone fails for example he has failed himself, his family, his generation and his God. Take a look at your life now if you are put through a growth examination, what will be the final result?.
Just like a game of chess, it's not where you are now, it's where you will be in 10 moves or 10 years.
Thank you and till we meet again..Yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
The Constant Struggle To Get Rich
So happy to be able to write again today dear indepth readers. God has been so faithful to count us among the living as it is not by matter of status or believe but by Grace and grace alone.
Today let's start on the topic above..The Constant Struggle To Get Rich. This struggle is one that we all are familiar with.
The present situation of the economy has led many to believe that if they do not have money they have failed in life. Truly speaking this is true but that is only half the truth.
I was with a friend yesterday and all he was worried about was how to get money. He was working in a respectable factory but it seems that the more he grew the more responsibilities came.
The constant struggle to get rich had pushed many youths into doing things that are very degrading. They do not take a second thought before they derail off the moral path because money answereth all things according to them.
Money is good but don't let money be the controller of your life. Be in control of money and not the other way round. Look for a legit means of getting it even if it is slow, I can assure you that you'll see t there.
Until next time..Yours in KeyPad..Psamy✍️
Covid-19 Pandemic: Will things return to normal
As I write this post it fills me with a kind of emptiness and uncertainty. The question I asked above has been a question bothering me for a while now and I know sometimes back you may have pondered upon the same question without an answer.
Will Things Return To Normal??
The emergence of the covid-19 pandemic took the whole world by surprise and that's not an understatement. All over the world we were helpless as this virus kept increasing the death toll in thousands. Even the most powerful nations were helpless as they could find no solution to it.
I began to observe the extent of the damage that has been caused by this virus and the question popped up in me.
Let's take a look at 2 major areas that this virus has hit us as a nation:
Economically
The economy of this nation has taken a very serious hit and that has been confirmed by many news headlines. We all know that we were still struggling as a country before this virus emerged, now with this kind of damage..where do we start from?.
Educationally
This is a great pity that the educational sector has been thrown into darkness again. Most especially for those that were preparing for their O'level exams before the virus came by. Most of those students have already ignored the thought of going back to school.
Not to mention the undergraduates in our Nigerian universities, where do they start from and how long will it take them to move on.
Dear reader😩 I sincerely hope God intervenes into this matter because it is getting out of hand. But no matter what happens I take solace in a quote and I quote:
"Though I don't know the future holds for me, I remain calm because I serve a God who knows it and will ensure the best for me" and unquote.
Good night and have a very great sleep..Till we meet again..Yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
Examine The Company You Keep
Good morning to you all indepth readers. I am so sorry I couldn't post yesterday due to my tight schedule but let's learn today.
Today I want to write on the above topic and it deals with the friends you claim you keep.
A well trusted English adage says that: "Show me your friend, and I will tell you who you are".
Simply put, it means that the friends or company you kept is an extension of who you are. Sometimes the height you reach in life depends on the friends you keep.
On Monday I read about a girl who was poisoned on her birthday by one of her friends. Due to jealousy or malice her promising future has been cut short. What a pity..
Examine the circle of friends you keep because it determines the opportunities that comes to you. Through unfounded malice many great futures have been killed off just because they failed to watch the type of friend they keep.
It is always a good prayer to God that he should separate us from anyone that we are walking with that will bring harm to us and that's my prayer for you all today.
Till next time..Yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
The Growing Menace At Our ATMs In Nigeria
Hello to you all and happy new week. This week will be a week filled with blessings and grace and I dare you to believe that.
This week I want you to be positive because your words play a great role in your actions and your outcomes.
Today I want to discuss about the growing menace at our ATM stands. Believe it or not, I believe that our ATM stands can contribute a lot to the growing statistics of the pandemic covid-19 in Nigeria.
I was at a branch of a popular bank today to carry out a transaction. Of course I had to get there early so as to get inside the bank because the last time I went I used almost 3 hours while standing.
I was surprised when I saw the crowd at the ATM stand. Everyone there stood so closely with themselves without maintaining any social distancing.
The reason why we have been told to maintain social distancing is because it helps to slow down the spread of the virus. But I have observed that many people don't even believe in the importance of social again.
Many people come out of their houses without wearing face masks or just putting it in their bags or hands.
It is until we realise that God will help us but we are also responsible for the slow spread of the virus. We must come to the realization that we are to be held responsible for the increase in the spread.
Let us try our possible best to ensure that we prevent the spread of this virus and I see God helping us.
Together let us believe that:HUMANITY WILL SURVIVE AND PREVAIL.
Until we meet again..Have a blessed week.
Yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
God's presence sets us apart
Good afternoon to you all indepth readers..and may I say happy Sabbath to us all. I pray that may the blessings of this sabbath dwell with us all in Jesus name.
This afternoon I would like to discuss the topic that says that.. God's presence sets us apart.
In the book of Exodus chapter 33 verse 16 the Bible says that: " For wherein shall it be known here that I and thy people have found grace in thy sight? is it not in that thou goest with us? so shall we be separated, I and thy people, from all the people that are upon the face of the Earth".
Here Moses was speaking to God about the Isrealites as a nation, he told God that his presence sets the people apart. Taking a cue from this I want you to know today that the only thing that can set you and everything around you apart is God's presence.
God's presence was what made all other nations afraid of Isreal as a nation and that was the reason they won battles because the Lord was with them.
Let's take a look at 2 importance of having God's presence:
It separates you from the rest.
Have you ever seen someone whose business thrived in spite of all hardships around? Take a close look, that person may be working with God's presence.
When God's presence dwells with you it makes everything you do different and makes it excel.
It causes the enemy to stay away from you.
Many nations when they heard that Isreal was coming to battle with them would be frightened because they know what God's presence did for them.
When God's presence dwells with you, you become a no go area for the enemy.
Today let's seek God's presence above anything else because that is what matters in the end.
Stay blessed and stay safe..Till we meet again.. Yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
What You Need To Succeed In Life
As a follow up to my earlier post let us continue to examine LIFE as a race. This afternoon we want to examine the topic: What You Need To Succeed In Life As A Race.
Coming to life is not by accident..even if you think you came as an accident..well..now you are here, you need to survive you that you won't die a failure.
Success in life is not for indecisive people because you need to be focused. Without wasting time let's get to the reasons..
Know The Real Meaning Of Success
Success has different meaning to different people and until you get the real meaning you are not ready yet. Success to me is knowing your purpose and working towards it.
It's a shame that many people claim that they know the meaning of success but when we later look into their meaning we found out that they defined success through the view point of someone else.
Focus
This word has a great meaning and importance if you want to succeed in this race of LIFE. Focus is knowing what you are here to do and refusing to deviate from it.
The problem of many youths in this era is that while many do not have focus, many have lost it. That is the reason why you'll see a 100 level undergraduate taking drugs or going into cultism.
Although that was not his or her initial plan before gaining admission but somewhere along the way..Focus was lost. Check yourself..Are you focused??
Determination
Many people feel that this word is overrated but I feel it's importance has not been fully utilised.
Determination is a keyword if you want to succeed in this race. Simply put Determination is the strong desire to succeed at one thing or the other. It works hand in hand with focus.
Many people have focus but are not determined and that's why when they got tired they pulled out of the race. Determination helps you stay in the race even when all the events around you tells you to drop out.
Stamina
This is my final point and the most important. You may think that why is stamina the most important point..well..let me explain.
While focus helps you to lock onto your goal, determination helps you to refuse giving up as an option, stamina strengthens you till the end.
Just like I said in my former post about the athletes in the marathon race. The man that won was the poorest starter but when many pulled out because they couldn't go on, he endured until the last second and he won.
Stamina is what will keep fueling you till you reach the finish line. There is a finish line and only those who refuse to give up gets there.
Remember: "Giving up should never be an option to consider for you"
Thanks and till we meet again.. Wishing everyone a blessed Sunday and a new week in advance.
Yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
The End matters more than the Beginning
Good morning to you all indepth readers. Such a pleasure having you all around this bright Saturday. Today let us consider this great topic and think on it because it will teach us a lot.
Once when I was watching a marathon race I began to examine the scenerio surrounding it. A marathon is a type of race that requires you to run and cover a long distance journey.
Now I began to think about this race and I thought that what really counts in this type of sport.
As the gun sounded signalling the beginning of the race all the runners started off on the race. They all ran until the final minutes and then I began to watch as some of the runners dropped out of the race because they could not continue.
Still yet many others ran on towards the finish line to claim the prize. As I observed closely I saw that many athlete had taken the lead so many times and dropped out but one of them kept going forward to reclaim the top spot.
The final seconds came and this guy was still in the first place being the favorite to win the trophy. Then he began to slow down until he fell behind and another athlete overtook him and won the race.
I observed that the athlete that won this marathon at last was the poorest athlete when the race started but in the end he won.
The Bible says that: "The end of a thing is better than the beginning thereof"
Life is a race and how you started doesn't matter..what matters is that how are you going to end the race. You may have started off as a failure but I can assure you that if you can decide..People can still celebrate you.
A Quote I once heard said that: "Falling down is not the problem, it is your refusal to get back up that makes you a failure". It doesn't matter what has happened to you..you can start again and WIN.
In the next article I will be talking on: What You Need To Finish Strong In The Race Of Life.. Till the next time..yours in KeyPad.. Psamy ✍️
Skill Acquisition in Nigeria: A Necessity or A Choice.
This post is a Command as well as an advice but first see it as an advice before seeing it as a command.
Education has always and will always be the key contrary to the view of most youths. The place of an educated person cannot be taken with levity hands in this 21st century.
On a yearly basis, millions of Nigerian Youths put in for the Joint Admission and Matriculation Board popularly known as JAMB as a means of going further in their education. Although only some selected few get in eventually it's a joy to be selected.
The educational system in Nigeria has worsened and continues to worsen as time progresses. This is a country that gives first place to those that have connections more than those that went through the right channel.
That is the reason why there is the need for Skill Acquisition. Most of Nigerian Youths know this to be a hand craft. For example: Barbing, Fashion Designing, Bead making but Skill Acquisition goes a long way from that.
We all know that this is the digital or Jet age. This means that in the next couple of years Skills that will be relevant will be skills like; Coding, Graphics, Digital Marketing...to name a few.
The importance of acquiring a skill is numerous but let me state a few.
It gives you the edge as a learned person.
It opens your eyes to the harsh realities of the country
It limits your dependency on Government Job
It helps you with a side hustle
My dear indepth readers..
Take this as an advice as well as a little command: Learn a skill and not just a skill but a relevant skill because it will help a lot in the future.
Till we meet again..Yours in KeyPad..Psamy✍️
When God is Silent...
When we were little kids and were growing up, our parents taught us that when we have something bothering our little minds we should pray to God. This lesson has really helped us a lot because it proved to us even till today that God answers prayers.
Today I would want us to think about something I learnt a long time ago. We do we do when God is Silent.
Have you ever considered or have you ever been in a scenerio where you were in a hot dilemma and you prayed but it seemed that your prayer was not answered.
Maybe for you right now it seems that God hates you or will not answer your prayer..😞 what do you do when you are crying every night and they told you there's a God that loves you and is ready to listen to you?.
This is what you should do.. Keep Praying.
I know it does not seem like an advice but think about this quote: "Sometimes God arrives late to make you the latest".
The truth is that we humans all have different time of answered prayers before God.
"Because they started before you does not mean they will arrive before you".
Our destination as humans differs as well. Don't cry because your mates are progressing and you are not. What you need to do is to make sure you are not sitting around lazily..make sure you are diligent in what you are doing and I assure you that things will work out.
Sometimes God keeps silent because he is preparing you for your next assignment. Bible scholars said that the period between Malachi and Matthew was 400 years. God kept silent for 400 years but what happened next.. The birth of Jesus.
Sometimes you have to TRUST God's process because only He knows best and he wants the best for you.
If you are passing through tough times right now I want to assure you that God cares about you. Don't turn away from him because he will surely come for you.
Good afternoon and enjoy the rest of your blessed day..Yours in KeyPad..Psamy✍️
Welcome To JULY!!! What NEXT??
Good morning to all you indepth readers😁..and let me say Happy New Month to you all..
All glory be unto the Lord for bringing us through the last 6 months into the next half🙏.
Truly the last six months has been full of challenges and a lot of ups and downs for everyone. The pandemic Corona has really dealt a big blow to the world.
When it started it sounded like a joke but here we are now pulling things together again. For most people the first 6 months was a waste because they used a greater portion of it sitting at home doing nothing.
But should I shock you.. For some it was an advantage because they were introduced to many things which changed the course of their lives.
A testimony from me personally.. I can say that for the first half of the year, although my admission process was halted a bit I got into many online workshops on WhatsApp that really helped me.
This has proven the point that: Only those that do not want to do a particular thing finds excuse to it. The first part of the year was a lesson to us all.
Be prepared for what's coming next..
At the beginning of this year no one could have thought of what is happening now but look now at the reality of the situation. That means that life can throw anything at you but it depends on how prepared you are.
Back to the title.. What Next??
The final half of the year is here and your preparation matters a lot. Don't rely on the goals you set when you came into this year. Below are some highlighted steps that will guide you through the final half of the year.
Review
The purpose of review is to check whether you have really achieved anything in the last half of the year. Review your goals, success, failures, and your next action to take
Set new goals
The purpose of setting new goals is to ensure that you are still moving forward. Most goals that were set at the beginning of the year has been disrupted by the pandemic and that's the reason why you need to set new goals and objectives.
Pray
The importance of prayer cannot be over emphasized because prayer is key. Commit your ways unto the Lord and he shall direct your path.
Don't stop MOVING!
This is my final advice.
An adage says that: An eagle 🦅 flies, a rabbit 🐇 runs while a tortoise crawls but do you know what is common to all?
The common thing to all of them is that they never stop moving. So my advice to you reading this post is that no matter what has happened or what happens..
NEVER STOP MOVING!!!
Happy New Month Guys..Best of God to you all 💖..Yours in Keypad..Psamy✍️
When Do We Really Start To Live
Lovely evening to you all indepth readers.. I thought my last post was the last for today but as I stood outside my door this evening watching some footballers I thought of a question that should be pondered upon:
WHEN DO WE REALLY START TO LIVE...
This question has been a question that has bothered me over a couple of months because life is a gift that may be taken anytime soon.
All around us we see people dieing either from natural causes or from man made causes causing us to think that when exactly can we say a man is fulfilled.
Can we say that a man who died at 40 years was fulfilled, Does that mean that a man that died at 70 was fulfilled or truly lived.. Does it work with age, Is it wealth, Is it a function of status.. But FINALLY I Found the Answer...
The Day you begin to live is the day you discover your PURPOSE..
The reason you were created into your environment is to be an effector of change..
So...The second question now is that..
HAVE YOU DISCOVERED YOUR PURPOSE?
Because until then you are not LIVING you are just EXISTING..
Have a nice night guys.. Till Tomorrow ✍️
Reason why most Relationship Proposals are Rejected
Good afternoon everyone..
Today as we said yesterday we would be discussing the reason why most Relationship Proposals are Rejected so sit tight and digest.
According to the dictionary.. Proposal is defined as: The act of asking someone to be ones spouse or an offer of marriage.
A relationship goes from the mere word of being friends and develops into a feeling of knowing that you are ready to settle down with your fiance or fiancee..and this is when a proposal comes in.
Sadly most times on social media I have seen many ladies turn down numerous proposals from their fiance because of one reason or the other and I began to think that..What exactly could be the reason why the proposal was turned down..
Let's go through some below;
Half Baked Relationship
What does this mean..
It simply means that the relationship in the lady's point of view may not be ripe for proposal. Most times in this case the lady may feel that she has not known you or you haven't known her enough.
In this case the lady feels that the best thing to do is to turn down the offer of proposal that was made so that she would not be getting in a boat with a stranger.
Public Show Of Affection
This is the reason why you must study your spouse very well during the course of your relationship because some people are naturally shy in public.
A lady may reject a proposal just because she feels that the whole world has its eyes upon her. Through careful study you'll realise that not all proposals must be done in public.
Some requires just few friends while some requires you to go to a quiet place like a lake to propose. Some Women just don't like it when you call attention to them.
Last but not the least.. Lost Love
In this case the relationship for the lady has crashed already but she is just pretending in order not to hurt you.
Most times the relationship has lost its driving force and a lady will never go into marriage with someone she doesn't love.
So..Here we are guys.. Marriage is not a child's play or something to joke with.
Marriage is a life long commitment which requires sacrifices from both halves.
Is there any other reason you think should be included..let's know in the comment section..
Thanks for taking your time to read through..Have a blissful day.
Keep Moving
Most times in life somethings happen to us that tends to grind us to a halt.When these things happen we usually think that there is no reason for us to move on but there is.
These occurrences may come in form of challenges,death of a loved one, disappointments,failure,disease and a lot more. But what do you do when things get tough and it seems that there is no way out..
There is a saying that..Tough times don't last but Tough people do. This simply means that no matter the intensity of the hardship, things will always return back to normal and you will see the light again. If you are experiencing a tough time today go through these few steps below as they will surely help you;
Always remember that there is something to live for.
Always remember that God has a plan for creating you and you are unique.
Know today that the challenges you are passing through right now is for a reason and what doesn't kill you will make you stronger.
You can rise again if only you refuse to give up
You were created for a purpose and until you discover and fulfill that purpose you are still existing but not living.
Discover your purpose today and rise to every mountain that comes your way..
Tomorrow we will discuss the reason behind the rejection of most proposals..
Good Afternoon Everyone.
@Psamy