Few more hours to go and it’s gonna be Christmas. Are y’all excited? Who wouldn’t?
I will ask for an apology first if I ever hurt someone’s feelings with my topic for today. I am urged to write this one since I was able to witness this kind of love story where it’s like choosing between the person you love or the religion you are into. Maybe some of you can relate or not.
A couple falls in love with each other, plans things and tries to work out if misunderstandings occur inside the relationship. It’s been a year since the man know that he’s partner is a Muslim whom consider as a Princess in a Royal family. It’s like a fairy tale right? That’s when he notices that the girl that his partner is always with is not a friend but a bodyguard that never leaves their side when they’re together. Well, a positive side so the temptation won’t happen or worse. They tried to hide each other's culture and religion co’z they know that if their family knows then they’ll find a way to separate them. Things work according to their plan, having the joint account for their future and adding the plan to get married but they can’t keep that secret for long. The family of the man knows everything and that made him choose whether to choose the woman over religion or religion over love. Either he will change to be a Muslim or the woman to Christian which seems impossible to happen, a Princess will stay a Princess. The most tough questions that he never thought to answer. But you know what’s painful is that no one of them are willing to change themselves or transfer to another religion. They end their 4 years relationship just because they have a different belief. The laughter, perfect spot, favorite food and things to do won’t happen again. It’s like turning their world upside down.
Why is that? Why do we need to choose between them? Can love and religion be united at once? Why do people need to go through this? Can they let them be happy? It’s not odd to know this kind of story since it happened in a different country too, different religion, different story to tell.
Love is a decision but it’s really difficult to divert that feeling just because he’s/she ‘s in a different doctrine. We can decide whom to love especially when our heart pounds for them and the butterfly flutters when we see them. Love is not a mystery at all, there are specific things we can do whether we have or don’t have a partner just as there are physical laws in the universe, there are also laws in relationship and when we know how to apply that law then the outcome is predictable. But I hope this is easier said than doing it. Among all, our mind and heart must be united in order to get the right decision and the positive results but guess this is way too difficult. Things won’t happen according to what we want, it’s just that twist of life exists. Yesterday, we were happy but the next day pain was along the way. Is life like this? Is it unfair? Why do some love stories look perfect, or are they?
If you are in their situation would you rather choose the person you love over your religion or one way or another? Are you willing to follow your heart over your mind knowing that you can possibly hurt your family? Or would you rather choose to hurt yourself just to make your family happy? Questions that needed to be answered.
I will end my blog at this length, thanks for dropping by my lovelies! Enjoy this season!
This is Probinsyana wishing you a Merry Christmas!
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I think they made a big mistake by ending their relationships over their beliefs, it's ironic, both religions preach about love, the Bible didn't say love only Christians, and the Quran didn't say love only Muslims, so do they for sale happiness for their beliefs, it's also okay for both of them to stick to their beliefs and still be together.