Hey my lovelies! How was the weather on your side today? Here? It's gloomy and it's been days since we experienced this one, but of course who wouldn't love the feeling of the cold breeze and just wanted to cover myself with the thick blanket. But I just can't, as I need to get myself out of the bed, do some walking and cooking. Actually I don't know what will be my topic today, I will just let my heart and mind speak up.
What if you wake up sleeping next to the wrong person?
Oops this is not about doing unnecessary things but this is about realizing that you are with the wrong person for a long time. You wake up, realizing that he isn't for you, you wake up that you feel out of love for him/her. You wake up thinking that maybe you can find what he/she can't give. But you just can't turn things around as easily as if you were tied with that person. Yes, you are married yet you realize it too late. What would you do? Are you willing to take risks by cheating or letting your feelings be heard by telling that person that you don't love him/her anymore? But what if you already have children, are you willing to leave them just because you don't love your partner anymore? Or would you choose to act like nothing changed?
When you feel out of love. You just can't easily tell that person nor find another one, especially when you are married. That time it's not already about the both of you but for your children. It's not about the spark you feel anymore but the commitment and the promise you made in front of God. Time might change the feeling but maybe someday somehow you can realise that you just missed having your Me time, that you don't actually fall out of love, maybe you are just craving for some sweetness.
When you realize he/she isn't the one. Regret will never do any good as we usually feel it too late. Marrying someone means you are willing to tie yourself with that person forever, no matter what the cost may be. When you choose to marry then you are already willing to accept those boring and full of fighting days. You are willing to accept any negative things that would happen inside and out. You are willing to see and accept all of his/her worst. But realizing it too late is not just a good thought, I mean before we enter into a more tied commitment we should think it a million times, if that person is worthy of the love you have and vice versa.
When you think he/she's the wrong person. Before that thing happens, you should question yourself first, if are you the right one? What if he/she is right but you are not? What if he/she deserves more than you do? What if you are actually the wrong person? I mean we can't realize things too early, not until we encounter some changes.
In married life it's not always about having the beautiful morning, positive days and full of happiness, sometimes days will be full of fight, anger and boring days but what's more important is that at the end of the day it's how both fixed and still choose each other. It's about love over challenges, trust over doubt, promise over regret. It's a matter of choice but when it comes to that always and always choose to love and find a solution in every trial.
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When you are with the wrong person, you always know in your heart that something is off. It's hard sometimes to break up with the person though.