I got the first kiss, She'll get the Last

I don't know why I wrote this one, maybe because this is mostly what I saw on tiktok or even on facebook. When it comes to love, we can't really understand how and when it happened, we just stunt how our world stops when we see that person and think she should be my last, she should be my other half and she should be the mother of my child. But what if it didn't go according to your plan? Not because she left you but because you found someone else? What if you let her expect things to happen but end her up broken?

Not all but mostly some of the couple end because of :

Fall out of Love. Why does this usually happen? Is this because they already found someone or they just saw that the relationship won't last long? I really don't understand that feeling because I have never experienced that. It's not always about the sparks when your body touches each other, it's not about how the world stops when you see her/him, what matters is what you feel inside.

Lack of Trust. Can't blame if such a person lacks trust not because you are untrustworthy but because she is afraid to show. Maybe her past hinders her to give it all, thinking that maybe you will leave him someday. Not your fault in that case, it's her but again we don't know what she's been dealing with back then. But of course I didn't say you deserve it, no one should be treated that way. The other way is when you show that she doesn't matter anymore or worse you cheated on her. See? Trust is one of the most difficult to retrieve. Trust me, I was once there.

Irresponsibility. When you are in a relationship, you have to make sure that both of you are responsible enough to do things, not just all about giving gifts and surprises (still matters) but of course being matured.

Not contentment. Why do people cheat? Maybe because they are not content with what they have, not seeing it's worth nor appreciating the effort.

There are a lot of reasons why couples separate but mostly this is the reason. I got the first kiss but why did she get the last? I got the boy but you got the man? This is like building a man for another woman, it's like taking care of the person but you don't own it. It's like appreciating and loving him every single time but he does the opposite. At first things went perfectly but when your partner sees that you are nothing compared to his new girl then trust me he will leave you and will marry that woman instantly. They said it's not all about the years that counts, then what it is? How about the memories? How about the plans? Does it end like how he wanted too? Isn't it unfair for the other parties?

Who's the antagonist to the story, does the man, the woman or the new one? Maybe the man find another because his girl acted differently or either already change? Or it's the man who's not contented or either the new one who seduce him knowing that person that already someone's in life? Remember, love is always a choice to whom you want to be with, it's always a matter of choice. But always give consideration to whom you will be hurting, or is that person deserve to be hurt? Does giving her the pain made you happy? Does thinking about yourself alone satisfy you?

I got the class ring but she got the diamond and the wedding band.

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