We Must Stand Up To Bullying
“You are freaking stupid ugly nerd” “damn you bitch!” “paranoid!” Have you ever been experienced called these names? This name-calling is very common in schools, playgrounds, and even at homes. This is the biggest threat our society is facing today-bullying.
Bullying happens to you, it can happen to me, and it can happen to all of us. In school it is just like game students used to play, to create laughter often teachers bullied their students as a sort of punishment. In social media bullying is rampant. Haters can shout out what they feel for a certain netizen. Even our closest family members are the first ones to bully us because they know our negative attitude or weakness more than anybody else.
Various types of bullying can trigger our emotions such as verbal abuse, psychological, and even physical harm. Whatever it is. It leaves a scar on hearts and minds. Sadly, too many individuals especially teenagers end up committing suicide because of unbearable hurt and trauma.
The hottest issue about bullying is Xander Ford’s Case. While he was bullied about his looks, it motivated him to change his appearance through plastic surgery. He is now totally different or the total opposite of his original looks worst, he is continually bullied by haters, bragged us “retokado” and “ambitious peg.” Truly we can’t please anybody thus we live in a judgmental society. With just a few keystrokes on a computer or a cellphone, you can ruin someone’s reputation or even their life. It sounds like an overstatement, but it can happen!
You are not totally powerless! You can fight bullying without using fists. How? Don’t react. The Bible says “A stupid gives vent to all his feelings. But the wise one calmly keeps them in check” (Proverbs 29:11) If you remain as calm as possible-at least on the outside-those bullying you may well lose interest. Second. Don’t retaliate, the Bible says “Return evil for evil to no one” (Romans 12:17) Seeking revenge will only make the situation worst walk away,” silence shows that you are mature and that you are stronger than the person harassing you! It demonstrates self-control something that bully doesn’t have. Work on your self-confidence, bullies can often detect those who think negatively of themselves and who are thus not likely to fight back off if they see that you aren’t giving them any power over you. Lastly tell someone a former schoolteacher says: “I would urge anyone who is being bullied to speak up. It’s the right thing to do, and it can prevent someone else from being bullied.” Be happy. Filled with easy light. For this is how you shatter hearts filled with veiled spite. Psychologies say to train your mind to see the good in everything. Positively is a choice. The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.
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I have always detested bullies. I mean how does one just become so jobless and decide to pick on others for fun. It's just crazy