What will you do in a situation where you are left alone to decide if you are to choose between your husband or sibling? Okay, let me bring it up this way: In a situation you have known your husband for 10-15 years and an allegation was brought up accusing him of raping your sister. What will you do?
I thought a wife would have trusted her husband of his movement and act for 15years and because it's your sister, you end up blaming your husband and even sueing him to court for such allegation. Are you trying to choose your first family over the second family which is you and your husband?
Marriage is an institution between a man and his wife and I believe there are some marriages that never allows third party including their families because they believe they can settle any issues that comes up. And once third party is being involved, then such a marriage will be on a criticism level.
One of the basics in marriage is Trust. Trust will make your marriage last long and lack of trust can deteriorate it. Once there is trust among partners, you would be careful to judge a matter placed before you about your spouse.
A movie I watched, the wife who happened to be a lawyer was distressed upon seeing her husband and sister on their matrimonial home. The man tried explaining to her but she turned him down and not believing him made the husband surprised at his wife.
She never had patience to handle the issue and ended up sending her husband to prison for 10 years for the crime he never committed. At the end of it, the sister confessed and he was released. What do you think the guy should do?
He took the best step, which I think was better at that moment. Probably till he calms down and forgives his wife for taking such drastic idea. He filed a divorce.
He couldn't imagine the situation. His wife sueing him to court was something out of it. Why would my wife for 15years not trust me now? I know the man was devastated to have taken up such decision to divorce his wife.
How do a wife feel when she sees her husband going to the prison and she won't feel for him? Does that mean for that 15 years, she doesn't trust her husband? You have been with your husband not to understand, study him with his actions or attitude. What he can do and what he can't do. This is bad of a woman who calls herself a wife and always ready to love her husband. Where is the love?
Probably if she had taken the matter gently, hears both sides of the matter before taking such action, things would have been better.
Even if both are to come back together again, in order to rebuild the trust, they must be ready to renew their commitment to their marriage and this can take time but it will suddenly heal the broken home.
Well, I would conclude this is just a movie which I believe can't happen in reality and if it does, then it is not worth it at all. A wife and husband are supposed to be one.
Now to the question: What will you do if you are in the wife's position?. Will you choose your first family over your second family?
Your first family are those you are United with by blood before your husband came while your second family is the one you built together with your husband.
Remember, you have been together for many years and you already understood him and study his habit.
To the men too, will you ever forgive such a wife who betrayed your trust and sued you to court for an offence you didn't commit?
First of all,trust between wife and woman must be 100%.Only that wy marriage is happy. If my husband would do such thing to another woman,I would defenitely divorce immediately.I would never forgive him such action.