Lackluster proposal in bed or not at all?
“Don’t waste your time in anger, regrets, worries, and grudges. Life is too short to be unhappy.”
― Roy T. Bennett
Yes, I am not left out when it comes to being angry. It´s normal to be angry but it becomes crazy when your anger last to the point of destroying things. The Bible even says that we shouldn´t let the sun go down on our anger. So also, do not live your life in regrets of the past or holding grudges. Life is too short to keep those things in your heart. Be happy at all times and you will be at peace with yourself.
Okay, let´s move on to an interesting article for the day and I hope to make it lively. Have you been proposed to by a man? Guys, have you proposed yet to her or still waiting for the right time? I know @George_Dee already shot it. Lol
Do you prefer a lackluster proposal in bed or you don´t even want one? Lackluster means something boring, unlively and dull. Now do you get the question? It´s better not to propose to a lady than proposing and it becomes boring especially in bed. Something that should be done romantically.
Have you watched those movies where the guy would want to surprise his lady. He would buy red flowers and spread all over his house. Light candles and form a big circle in the form of love. This will be done from the door to the stairs, if at all he has such a big house. Arrange everywhere with slow love music, and everywhere giving that beautiful scent. When he is sure everything is intact, he calls his girlfriend to come around.
The lady will then open the door and would be welcomed with the scent passing through her nose and her eyes widely opened. The roses would be a guide leading her upstairs while the man is already waiting for her in his room. Suddenly she opens the room and viola, she sees the inscription on the bed "WILL YOU MARRY ME" She screams with those "Awwn, Wow" 😂 then she says yes. Both of them drinks the wine and celebrate such moment together. I got you, you are already laughing even while reading from the beginning. Lol
You see some proposal that doesn´t even look like one and you had wondered, is the guy okay at all? Lol We have also seen some proposals that ended up being disappointed especially when the lady isn´t ready for it. This is why as a guy, you need to notice when the right time should be so you don´t get embarrassed in the public. At least if you are embarrassed in private, it is still better than when people are surrounded and it´s as if the ground should swallow you at that moment.
When I see ladies being proposed to, my head is always up and would be anxiously waiting for somebody´s son to find me one day just as Tiwa Savage sang it but I believe there is the right time for things like this. Moreover, I also need to be ready too.
Do you know there are some guys who doesn´t see this proposing stuff as big deal? They believe it is not necessary but ladies love it as they want to flaunt that ring. Also, some guys propose to deceive ladies. Let me share my story with you about this.
Should I shock you that I have been proposed to before? 😂 I was doing my NCE then in a college of education and was in 200 level when this guy says he loves me and wants us to be in a relationship. After two months of dating, he finally proposed to me in the school where everyone started praising and congratulating me. To me, I wasn´t ready for such and being a lady that wants to go with the flow, I accepted the ring because there were many students and I don´t want any embarrassment and besides my aunt already warned me not to ignore any guy because they may use that against me. I sensed something was fishy but I was so careful.
I was shy to use the ring so I kept in inside and whenever this guy comes around, I will wear it but deep inside my heart, I knew the guy doesn´t love me but to get down on me which I was also preventing. The day he came over planning to sleep, I told him he can´t because it´s too early for that. He was like "hasn´t he proposed yet?" He said if he wasn´t ready to marry me, he wouldn´t have proposed to me. He started touching my body but I was stopping him. After he saw I wasn´t allowing him, he got angry and asked for his ring. This guy collected the ring back and went. I couldn´t stop laughing that night. My friend came to me asking what was wrong and I explained. She joined me too in laughing.
This guy only proposed to lay down with me but thank God I never allowed him. It was obvious that was what he want and made him do such. Now you see some guys do not intentionally propose to a lady but for their selfish desires. We just need to be careful.
Proposing is a beautiful moment for the lady when a guy is serious with it. It means the relationship is taking another step forward rather than being in a relationship that doesn´t have progress. To me, I love when I am proposed to privately and done in a cool and romantic way but if it cannot be lively or interesting to me, I had rather not have one.
Also, I was made to know that a guy would have known how the lady wants to be proposed to because by the time they are just starting off, the guy can just stylishly ask her what she likes in proposing and once she is able to explain how she wants it, the guy would take note of it and start working on the day to surprise her. I don´t think all men do this though but it´s a way to know what she want so you don´t fool yourself on that beautiful day.
How do you want to be proposed to? I am talking to the ladies here. Let´s have fun in the comment section. And if you have been proposed to, how was it? how did you felt it?
Thanks for reading
Photo by Gift Habeshaw
Second photo by Nathan Dumlao
[February 11,2022] (No 42 article for this year)
This is an excellent write-up, very well organized and constructed. When I proposed to my wife 45 years ago it was silly, and I was not one to put too much seriousness to anything, I've always added some humor to it. This post was obtained through Dreemport.