Am I Useless?

My mom was always hardest on me growing up. But now I seem to be her favorite. Go figure. Maybe she was just grooming me for the role of most favored? lol

Bunso here. 😅 dalawa lang kami pero ako lagi inuutusan nung bata ako kasi ako daw ang babae. Noon kapag di ko hinugasan kinainan ko, nagagalit pero kapag kay Kuya hindi nagbbeast mode. Basta puro ako. Kahit pag linis ng kotse ng tatay ko noon, ako. Eh dapat Kuya ko na yun kasi pang lalaki. Deadma na lang ako nung tumanda ako.

I can relate with your life story, we can do nothing but to appreciate our parents every mood Swings. In my opinion, I think your mother wants and hopes a lot from you that's why she can't satisfied with your pending works. Always think positively, I also think that your parents helped you a lot by scolding yourself coz because of this now you're independent financially.

I can somehow relate to this but always remember to cheer up. I know it is not easy for someone like me to tell you to cheer up, but yes, I know you'll go through this.

You rightly said only when mom is tired and nobody to give her a helping hand she gets angry. It just happens. She knows you are good enough to under

Frankly, I was sad to read this article. I was the little boy in the family. So I guess I'm the kid who gets pampered in this story. However, I remember my mother scolding me sometimes for little things and I was very upset about it. They say that children forget, but even after almost 30 years, some memories can be remembered very clearly. It is not very pleasant for parents to sometimes project their daily troubles onto their children. However, they are human after all. They can't always do the right thing. In short, raising children is very difficult. By the way, I appreciate your effort to understand them.

I am eldest in my siblings and I also get the same treatment or I can say protocol that your brother get, from my mother but same treatment as you get, from my father. So it's okay. I enjoy the situations. 😍☺

I am also a middle child and I feel you. I had that feeling before that I am being neglected, my feelings and actions. All they see were my mistakes and it made me so sad and sometimes I feel that I'm not loved. But now that I am a grown-up, I understand everything. I know I am loved. All moms love their children. 💗